Ukushiya ngakwesobunxele: izici zokuphila ezisekhohlo

Kwabazali abathile, ukushiya kwengane kuyisignali sokuqala ukulwa. Baqiniseka ukuthi ingane idinga ukubuyiselwa emuva ngokushesha, ukufaka amakhono "okulungile", ngaphandle kwalokho ingane izoba nezinkinga engadini, esikoleni kanye nokuphila eminyakeni embalwa. Abanye abazali bayabona ukuthi izingane zabo zishiya ngasese, kodwa ngokuzibuyisela bathi: "Lokhu kufana nokwenza umntwana ahambe ezandleni zakhe! Ngeke ajabule futhi aphumelele kakhulu, kodwa i-neurosis neqembu lezinkimbinkimbi lizosebenza nakanjani. " Yikuphi phakathi kwabo okulungile? Ngakho-ke, ukushiya kwesokunxele: izici zomzimba zokushiya kwesokunxele ziyisihloko senkulumo yanamuhla.

Lokhu kuvelaphi?

Ubuchopho bethu, njengoba kuyaziwa, buqukethe ama-hemispheres amabili - ngakwesokudla nangakwesobunxele. Ngamunye wabo wenza umsebenzi wayo, ngoba kulokho, futhi kwezinye izinto zigxilwe ezindaweni ezihlukene zokuphila komuntu. Ngakho-ke, ngakwesobunxele kunomthwalo wokucabanga nokukhuluma okuqondile, ilungelo liyisisekelo sokusungula umculo nokubuciko, ukucabanga okucabangelayo.

I-hemisphere efanele ilawula uhlangothi lwesobunxele lomzimba, i-hemisphere yesokunxele ilawula uhlangothi olufanele. Kubantu abaningi, ama-hemispheres awafani, omunye wabo ulawula: uma kwesokunxele sisebenza kakhulu, umuntu uba necala lapho "egoqa" ngakwesokunene nomuntu onogada. Ngendlela, ake sicacise: umqondo "we-southpaw" awulungile. Kuyoba okulungile kakhulu ukusho "ngakwesobunxele", ngokusekela kwesokunxele ngokuphelele, futhi kukhona ezimbalwa emhlabeni, indlebe yesokunxele, iso, nomlenze udlala indima ehamba phambili ngaphandle kwesandla. Abazali kufanele baqondwe ngokucacile: ukushiya kwesokunxele kungenye yezinto ezihlukahlukene zokuthuthukiswa okuvamile kwezinto eziphilayo, ezihlobene nezinto ezikhethekile zomsebenzi wobuchopho.

Dweba isithombe somntwana ongakwesokunxele

Ukuqaphela izingane ezinjalo, ososayensi, izazi zengqondo, odokotela bathola okuningi okufanayo ekuthuthukiseni kwabo, ekuziphatheni, emlingeni, nasezintweni zabo. Sithemba ukuthi omama nabesilisa bazothola eziningi ezithakazelisayo ezincane ezisekhohlo ku-portrait ejwayelekile.

Ngakho-ke, ziningi ngokomzwelo, zingabonakali, zenzeke, zithembeke, zisengozini, zingenasisekelo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo bayaphikelela ekugcwaliseni izifiso, bazwela imibono yezihlobo zabo. Abasha abase-kwesokunxele, njengezingane ezisenxele, banomqondo ocacile wobulungiswa. Bayiziphupho ezinkulu nabaphuphayo, ingqondo yabo ingaba nomona kuphela. Ingabe yingakho phakathi kwama-lefties kunabantu abaningi bokudala? Kusukela kuneminyaka engama-3, ngezinye izikhathi, abanikezeli abanembile kakhulu abadwebayo futhi babumba, babonise ukuzwa okuphelele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abadlali abaningi abanolwazi abanamakhono, abagijimi abavelele bangaphakathi kwabantu abashiya.

Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abanikeli bezinxele bavame ukubhekana nokulibazisa ekuthuthukiseni inkulumo, banenkinga yokumemezela imisindo, ukufundela ukufunda nokubhala. Kodwa, ekugcineni, ngeendlela ezifanele zokufunda, konke lokhu, ngokungangabazeki, kuzonqotshwa ngempumelelo. Isibonelo salokhu yizici ezivelele ezisele kwesokunxele - izibalo zomlando nezikhathi ezithile: uJulius Caesar, u-Alexander the Great, uLeonardo da Vinci, uMichelangelo, uRebrandt, uMoartart, uNapoleon Bonaparte, uMikhail Lomonosov, u-Alexander Pushkin, uLevi Levol, uFriedrich Nietzsche, uVladimir Dal, uVasily Surikov, u-Albert Einstein, UVan Gogh, uPyotr Tchaikovsky, uCharlie Chaplin, uSting, uJulia Roberts, u-Angelina Jolie, uPaul McCartney, uBill Clinton kanye ne-computer uGenius Bill Gates. Njengoba ubona, abanikeli bezinxele baye banikeza isintu isintu emasimini ahlukahlukene. Futhi emva kwalokho, ingabe usacabanga ukuthi ukushiya kuyisici esibi kakhulu?

Ngesokunxele noma cha? Sichaza kahle.

Ukuze unqume ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lwesibambo ingane elunayo, hlola ukuthi yikuphi okuzofinyelela kuwo ama-rattles elenga ngaphambi kwalo, ngubani ozothatha ithoyizi, futhi lapho likhula, lizobeka ipiramidi emabhodini, okuyinto ipensela ethatha, iphonse ibhola, igcine isipuni, njll. Izingane ezindala, zinikeza: i-comb (yisiphi isandla esizothatha ibhulashi); faka izandla zakho ukuze omunye wezandla uphezulu (okuyiyona isandla); ukuhlambalaza (ngeyiphi isandla izenzo ezishaqisayo zenziwa ngaphezulu ngenkuthalo); faka izingalo zakho phezu kwesifuba sakho (ingaphambili yalokho ingalo ezoba phezulu).

Ukulungiswa nokuthuthukiswa kwezingane ezisekhohlo

Inqubo yokulungisa i-hand-hander ezweni lethu akulula. Phela, cishe zonke izinto ezizungezile umntwana zenzelwe abantu abanesandla esifanele: kuqala ngezikhali ezijwayelekile futhi ziphela ngewristwatch. Futhi esikhathini esizayo, engeza, isibonelo, amadivaysi okulawula imoto, futhi aklanyelwe abantu abanesandla esifanele. Kodwa imoto iyindawo ede kakhulu. Ngesikhathi ebuntwaneni, kubaluleke kakhulu ukusiza ingane ukuba ifunde incwadi nokufunda, kucatshangelwe izici zokuphila ezisekhohlo.

Abaqondisi bokuhamba kwesokunxele badinga ukuthuthukisa kusukela esemncane. Isibonelo, sikisela ukuthi izingane zikhulule ukudubula, shiya amathoyizi amancane kusuka kwesitsha esisodwa kuya kwesinye, fasten and unfasten buttons - konke lokhu, Yebo, ngesandla sakho sobunxele. Buza ingane ukuthi uyibeke etafuleni, futhi uvumele ukushintshana uthathe umunwe ngamunye phezulu. Isendwangu ngokwaso kufanele sibe nesibhamu ngokumelene netafula.

Ngaphambi kwesikole, kuyadingeka ukunciphisa ukufunda, ukubhala, izilimi zakwamanye amazwe, okungukuthi, leyo misebenzi lapho ingane ilindele ukuhluleka okunciphisa izinga lokuzihlonipha kwakhe. Futhi emakilasini okuqala aselekho, ikharikhulamu yendabuko iyakhethwa, ngaphandle kwemithwalo eyengeziwe, ukukhethwa okunye nokunye okunjalo.

Lapho uhlela indawo yamakilasi, khumbula: ukukhanya okuvela efasiteleni noma kusuka etafuleni ladesksi kufanele kuwele ngakwesokudla. Qaphela ukuthi esikoleni ingane ihlezi edeskini ngakwesobunxele, kungenjalo igoli lakhe liyobhekana njalo nelinye ilanga lomakhelwane.

Uma ufundisa izingane ezishiye kwesokunxele, kubalulekile ukuba nezinzwa ezizwayo - ezibukwayo, ezithintekayo. Ngakho-ke, ukwenza ingane iqonde kangcono futhi ikwazi ngekhanda indaba yezemfundo, sebenzisa imidwebo, izinsiza ezibukwayo, imidwebo, imidwebo, amagrafu. Ungabi novilapha kakhulu ukwenza izinhlamvu ezifanayo noma izinombolo ezivuthayo - ukubunjwa kusuka epulasitiki, ukusika isikhumba esinyene.

Into esemqoka - ukuqapha ukuziphatha

Njengoba kunikezwe ukuzwela okwenyuka nokwehluleka okukhulu kwe-carapaces kwesokunxele, yiba nesibindi, uzwela, ubhekane nabo. Ungadluli ngokugubha umbuso, ukunamathela okuqinile kulokho abaningi abangakufakazela ngokungahambi kahle.

Ngaphandle kwalokho ungacindezeli umehluko phakathi komntanakho noontanga bakho, ngokuphambene, khuthaza futhi udumise ngazo zonke izindlela. Njengoba ekhulile, yena, ngokwemvelo, futhi yena ngokwakhe uzobona ukungafani kwakhe, kodwa ngalesi sikhathi uzofunda ngokugcwele ukuhamba naye empilweni.

Shiya njengoba kunjalo. Futhi iphuzu!

Ingabe usazokwenza "umuntu ongalungile" kusuka kumntwana ongakwesokunxele? Kuhlala kuphela ukuzwelana ngobuqotho nezingane, futhi wena, ngoba imiphumela yodlame phezu kwe-carapace (nangamanye amagama awuyikuthi igama) ngeke ilinganiswe.

Isandla sokuhola kwengane asikwazi "ukumiswa" ngokuqonda kwayo. Kubonakala kuwe, ukubuyisela kabusha kumane kuguqule imfoloko noma isibambo kusuka kwesobunxele kuya kwesokudla. Eqinisweni, kuwumzamo wokuguqula umsebenzi we-hemispheres ye-cerebral, ukuguqula imisebenzi yangasese yomholi oholela ngakwesobunxele kuya endaweni yesokunxele. Ngokubuyisela ingane, thina, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zingaki, zama ukulungisa isimo sakhe semvelo.

Ngenxa yalokho, ingane ingozini yokucasula, iphuthuma, ingenangqondo, imhlophe. Ngokuvamile, abantu abashiya banezinkinga eziningi zezinzwa: ukwephulwa kwesifiso nokulala, ukwesaba, i-enuresis, i-tics, i-stuttering. Izingane zikhononda ngamakhanda, ukukhathala ngakwesokunene, ukukhathala okwenyuka nokusebenza kahle. Futhi ngezinkinga ezinjalo ngeke bakwazi "ukudonsa" ngokwanele ikharikhulamu yesikole.

I-small hand-hander inezindlela ezimbili: noma yena, njenganoma yimuphi ingane evamile, uzovame ukukhula nokuthuthukisa, ngenkathi ebhala futhi edla ngesandla sakhe sobunxele, noma uzomphoqa ukuba enze okufanayo ngesandla sokunene, cishe ngokumenza abe neurotic. Uthando futhi ubone igazi lakho njengoba kunjalo, bese ukushiya ngezandla zomzimba wesokunxele ngeke kube yinkinga kuwe nakuye!