Namuhla akulula abesifazane abaningi ukuba bajwayele amadoda ukushada. Zonke izinsuku zabo zimatasa ngomsebenzi, ngezimpelasonto uhambo oluya kubazali babo, kusihlwa balinde ukuxhumana "nomngani wabo omkhulu" - i-TV. Futhi ngokuphila okunjalo akulula ukujwayelana nendoda ongayibambisana nayo kamuva. Kulesi simo, akunakwenzeka ukusiza i-intanethi, ngaphandle kokuthi ngosizo lwamasayithi okuphola owesifazane angathola umuntu ongayisebenzisa ngalo ubusuku. Njengoba wazi, lezi zingosi, njengombuso, zibhaliswe ngamadoda anesithukuthezi nge-monotony yokuphila komndeni.
Manje, ngokuvakashela ukuphumula kokuphumula, kwaba lula ukwenza abantu abajwayele ukushada nabo. Lezi zinhlangano zokuzijabulisa zafika kithi zisuka eNtshonalanga futhi zathola ukuthandwa okukhulu, zixazulula ngokuyisimangaliso inkinga enkulu, lapho zijwayele khona ukuhlangana nomuntu ngobuhlobo besikhathi eside. Iningi labesilisa abangashadile abafika kulolu busuku bafuna ukuthola umngane wokuphila. Nakhu ukuphola, okuyinto evame ukushintshaniswa kwamasongo omshado nokulalela imakethe kaMendelssohn.
Amaqembu adidisanayo ayenzeka endaweni ekhululekile futhi elula, enabanye abahlanganyeli ukuxhumana nabanye. Kuhlelo lwala maqembu amaqembu, ngaphandle kwemidanso yomculo omnandi nomnandi, kusekhona imincintiswano nemidlalo ehlukahlukene, avumela ngisho nentombazane enamahloni ukuba ijwayele amadoda amaningi kusihlwa. Kungenzeka ukuthi phakathi kwabo kuzoba khona kanye nomuntu ozoxoxa naye ngalo kusihlwa uzoqhubeka nokuxhumana, okuthandayo. Futhi kungenzeka ukuthi usuku ovakashele leli phhathi luzoba usuku lokuqala kukhalenda lakho elihlangene.
Ukuqomisana nomshado
Uma ucabanga ukuthi kulula ukujwayelana nendoda yomshado, ngakho awuzange uzame ukukwenza. Amadoda athambekele ekuvuleni ukukhulumisana nabesifazane, kodwa umshado kulabo abaningi kuwumzamo wenkululeko yabo. Noma yisiphi isici somshado noma ubuhlobo obungathí sina kuma-8 amacala avela ku-10 kuholela ekuqhekekeni kobuhlobo bonke. Emadolobheni amakhulu ukuthola kunzima kakhulu umuntu wamaphupho akhe. Futhi ukuze umuntu enze isinqumo esibi, kufanele ashintshe indlela yakhe yokuphila. Ngakho-ke, cishe akunakwenzeka ukwenza lokhu emsebenzini, ku-nightclub, ku-cafe noma kwi-Intanethi.
Kodwa lokhu akusona isizathu sokuba nesizungu, sengathi sengathi isikhathi sakho asikafiki, ukuthi awudingi. Indoda idinga ukuthola lapho ikhona. Amadoda amaningi angashadile anezinkinga ezifanayo, abakwazi ukuxhumana nabesifazane ngenxa yokwesaba kwabo ngokwemvelo, ngenxa yokungqubuzana emsebenzini, ngakho-ke badla ukudla kwasekuseni kuphela.
Empeleni ujwayelene nomuntu ongathanda ukushada mhlawumbe ngisho nalawo madoda angagibeli esitimeleni. Nabo bangakwazi ukufuna ubuhlobo obunzima nabesifazane.