Abazali abaningi bacabangela izinyathelo zokuqala ekuthuthukiseni imvuthu njengengxenye ebalulekile ekuthuthukiseni imvuthu, futhi lokhu kuyiqiniso: konke, ubuqotho buhlanganisa amakhono amaningi ahlukene futhi asemqoka ingane efunda ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila.
Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo umuntu kumele akhumbule: ukulungiselela lokhu, okwamanje, isenzakalo esibalulekile, umuntu omncinyane omncane ufunda amakhono amaningi okuhamba engabonakali emehlweni omzali, nakuba bonke abaluleke kakhulu futhi kukhona uhlobo lwezinyathelo ekuthuthukisweni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukubonakala kwalokhu noma kwamanye amakhono emoto kungasho okuningi mayelana nokuthuthukiswa kwengane kanye nempilo yakhe, futhi kuvuseleleke ukuthi kwenzeke kanjani, asisizi nje kuphela ukuthi ingane ithuthuke ngokomzimba, kodwa, futhi isondeza ekufundeni amanye amakhono abalulekile. Yiqiniso, ukuthuthukiswa kwengane ngayinye kuwukuphela komuntu, futhi zonke izindinganiso - lokhu kungumhlahlandlela oseduze kwabazali. Kodwa-ke, kusadingeka ukuba unakekele futhi, uma kunesidingo, usize i-crumb ukuthi ifunde izinyathelo ezibalulekile. Ngakho-ke, sibeka isisekelo esiqinile sokuthuthukiswa kokubili kokuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo kwendoda encane.
Izimfihlo zempumelelo
Ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila, izigaba zentuthuko zihlukaniswa kalula. Uzoqaphela kalula ukuthi umuntu omncane osanda kuqondisa izinto, uqala ukuzinikela isikhathi esincane nokuzikhandla kulesi sifundo, kodwa usebenza kahle ngokubamba iqhaza. Esikhathini esizayo, amakhono amancane namakhulu amakhulu azothuthukiswa ngokufana, okugxila kulokhu noma leyo sigaba. Ukuthuthukiswa kwezimoto kwengane kuhlotshaniswa nenqwaba yezinqubo eziyinkimbinkimbi emkhakheni wokuhlanganiswa kwezinzwa zezinzwa. Ngakho-ke, uma ingane ifunda ikhono lokulibaziseka, lokhu kuyisignali yokuxilonga kumuntu oqaphele wezingane, kanye nesikhathi sokuba abazali basize ingane ukuba ibhekane nale nkinga.
Izinyathelo zendlela ende
Ngokwemvelo, ukuthuthukiswa kwengane ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila kungahlukaniswa ngezigaba eziningana.
- Izinyanga ezintathu zokuqala
Ezimvini ukuthuthukiswa kwezimoto ezisebenzayo. Ingane ithola izimpawu ezihlukahlukene ezivela emvelweni, uxhumane nabantu abahlukene nezinto. Kancane kancane, uqala ukubona ukuthi izitho zakhe zingayilalela imiyalo yakhe nezifiso zakhe. Kulesi sigaba, lo mfana ufunda ngokuyinhloko ukulawula ukuhamba kwezandla nezinyawo.
- Izinyanga ezintathu kuya kweziyisithupha
Amakhono amancane emoto asathuthuka ngokwengeziwe. Ingane kancane kancane ifunda ukuba neminwe futhi yenza ukunyakaza okulula njengokubamba ngamathoyizi ngamabomu.
- Kusukela ezinyangeni eziyisithupha kuya kwengu-9
Enye ukuqhuma ekuthuthukiseni amakhono amakhulu amakhulu. I-Kroha iqala ukuxhumanisa ukunyakaza kwezingwenya, imilenze nomzimba, ifunda ukuguqula, uhambe kuzo zonke ezine, uhambe. Khona-ke uqala ukulungiselela ukuhamba kahle: ufunda ukuvuka, ukuhambisa imilenze yakhe. Ingane encane ingakabi nama-stereotypes, okungukuthi, ngokufanisayo, yenza umsebenzi wokucabanga ngenhlangano ngayinye, futhi ayihambi njengomuntu omdala, "kumshini." Ngakho-ke, ngezinye izikhathi ingane ingakwazi ngisho nokudinga ukubonisa okuthile, isikisela ukuthi Ukuze kuthuthukiswe ukuthuthukiswa kwezimoto, ngaphezu kohlelo "oluhlelekile kuwo wonke umuntu, izinyane lidinga imvelo efanele engakwazi ukuyihlakulela, kanye nesenzo esifanele esenza ukuba ashukuthele, simdonse. Phela, ingane ephilile ngokuphelele, ehlale igcinwe esikhwameni, ayidlala nayo, ayikhombisi entsha futhi iyathakazelisa, ngeke ikhule ngendlela evamile. Kudingeka sikhumbule ukuthi noma yimuphi umuntu udinga ukusekelwa ngokomzwelo kubathandekayo ukuze kufeze impumelelo. Futhi ingane yakho ayinjalo. Nazi izindlela eziyisibonelo zokuthuthukiswa kwemoto ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila.
- Izinyanga ezingu-0 kuya kwezi-3
Kulesi sigaba, izinyane libonakala liyisiwula, elidla kuphela, lilale futhi lenze izinto ezinkulu nezincane. Kodwa-ke, eqinisweni, uthola futhi aqonde ulwazi oluningi oluvela ezweni langaphandle. Phakathi namasonto okuqala okuphila, usana alukwazi ukugxila ekuthuthukisweni, ludlula isikhathi sokuzivumelanisa nemibandela yokuphila kwangaphandle. Futhi-ke uba nesithakazelo ezweni elikuzungezile. 9 Yini le ndoda efunda? Ekuqaleni, uvele esetshenziselwa izitho ezintsha zomzimba, ufunda ukubona ukuthinta, ukuzwakala, ukuhogela, ukukhanya nombala. Khona-ke kancane kancane uqala ukusabela kubo. Kancane kancane ufunda ukubheka izinto, ukulandelela ngokubukeka, ukuguqula ikhanda lakhe, mbambe.
• Yini okufanele ngiyibheke? Zama ukungadluli ngokubonakala okusha. Uma kuningi kakhulu, isimiso sezinzwa somntwana singakwazi ukuhluleka. Khuluma okuningi ngane, mbonise amathoyizi athakazelisayo, ngokuvamile agqoke emabhaleni. Uma enesithakazelo kokuthile futhi ebonisa lokhu ngokubukeka, sondeza eduze kwesihloko, usize uthinte, ngitshele ukuthi kuyini. Kodwa-ke, ungamjabulisi umntwana okhathele noma okhalayo. Yenzele i-cosiness nokuthula.
Izimoto nempilo
Njalo usekela ikhanda lomntwana. Uma ingane yakho ikhala kakhulu, uma ihlushwa yi-colic, zama ukugwema inqwaba yezinto ezithintekayo, thintana nodokotela wezingane omuhle kanye ne-masseuse yezingane noma i-osteopath-mhlawumbe ukuzivumelanisa nokuphila okungekho ngendlela ethanda ukuyenza, futhi imizwa engathandeki ivimbele ingane ukuba ingaphuthuki.
- Izinyanga ezi-3 kuya kwezi-6
Ngalesi sikhathi, ingane ikhulisa amakhono amakhono okuhamba kahle futhi iqala ukwenza izinyathelo eziningi ezinengqondo. Ekupheleni kwalesi sikhathi, izingane eziningi ziqala ukuqonda kahle izimbambo futhi zizama ukwenza izingcingo zomzimba eziyinkimbinkimbi, ziphendule umsindo, ezinye zize ziqale ukuvula.
Yini okufundayo omncane?
Ingane iqala ukudlala ngamapeni nemilenze: uthatha isandla esisodwa ngeminwe yomunye, uzibambe ngemilenze, udonsa izandla nezinyawo emlonyeni wakhe. Kancane kancane, ufunda ukuthatha izinto zangaphandle. Ekuqaleni, akalutholi ukuthi uyifaka ebhodini lakhe, bese eqala ngokuzethemba ukuze azithathele yena, bese ezama ukuzisebenzisa, ngezinye izikhathi azizame ngomzamo ongaphumeleli. Futhi kancane kancane, ikakhulu uma amazinyo eqala ukuqhuma, i-crumb izodonsa konke emlonyeni. Ngaphezu kokukhathazeka, lokhu kufanele kubangele injabulo: ingane yenza ukunyakaza okuhambelana okunenjongo okuhlangene. Yini okufanele ngiyibheke? Izingane zidinga isikhala sokuqeqeshwa ukuqeqeshwa kwezixhobo ezibukwayo namakhono emoto. Ingane kufanele ikwazi ukufinyelela into futhi ijabule. Oqalayo, iselula ilula, ithoyizi lingashaywa yizibambo lapho lilele ngemuva. Ukugqugquzela imisebenzi enjalo kungaba umsindo omnandi, ukhuthaze ukunyakaza okuqondile, isibonelo, insimbi. Ngenkathi ingane yakho ingaqondi kahle ukuthunjwa kwezinto, kufanele ifinyeleleke kalula. Zama ukubeka izinto kwiselula ezindaweni ezihlukile: hhayi kuphela phambi kwamehlo womntwana, kodwa nakwesobunxele, ngakwesokudla, ukugqugquzela ukuhamba okuhlukahlukene. Kuzophinde kulungiswe kancane kancane ukuthuthukiswa kwenguquko.
• Umsebenzi wemoto kanye nempilo. Uma ingane ingenasithakazelo kumathoyizi ezinyangeni ezingu-4, azama ukufinyelela ezintweni ngezibambo (ayishayi umama ebusweni, ayidlala nemilenze yakhe, njll), kufanelekile ukubonisana nodokotela. Ngokuvamile, eneminyaka eyisithupha, ingane encane kufanele ikwazi ukuguqula isisu esisemuva nangasemuva kuya esiswini. Ukuze uvuselele, lungisa ama-toy amacwecwe angavamile futhi angavamile, yenza izivivinyo ezihlukahlukene ezomtshela indlela yokuhambisa kahle. Isibonelo, ingane elele ngemuva ingadliwa ngamadolo ngomunye umlenze eceleni kwayo - emva kwalokho iqedela inqubo ngosizo lomzimba futhi iyaqonda indlela efanele.
Izinyanga ezingu-6 kuya ku-9
Ngalesi sigaba, i-kid ifunda ukuzungeza kuzo zonke izinkomba, uhlale futhi uhambe. Ukuthuthukiswa kwaso kukhula, futhi ngokuqinisekile awukwazi ukuhambisana nalo: usuku nosuku kukhona into entsha! 9 Yini le ndoda efunda? Njengoba ekwazi ukukhishwa, ingane ifunda ukuhlala phansi. Khumbula ukuthi zonke izingane zenza lokhu ngezindlela ezahlukene. Ngokungavamile ingane ingahlala phansi ngemuva ngenxa yemisipha yesisu nesemuva. Ngokuvamile kunalokho, i-crumb iyama, izisize ngezikhali nemilenze. Ngokuvamile emva kwalokho, uzama ukufika kuzo zonke ezine, nakuba ezinye izingane zikhetha ukukhasa isikhathi eside e-Plastun. Emile kuzo zonke ezine, ingane ayikwazi ukukhahla ngokushesha - isabunzima kakhulu. Ekuqaleni, kuzothatha isikhathi eside, okwenza ukunyakaza okuningi okungaphumeleli. Ekupheleni kwenyanga yesishiyagalolunye, izingane eziningi zinyuka ngokuzethemba, kanti ezinye zizama ukuma ngokusekela. Yini okufanele ngiyibheke? Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi intuthuko - into eyedwa, kuyinto efiselekayo ukugqugquzela imvuthu, ukuze idlule esiteji sokukhahlela. Ochwepheshe bayaqiniseka: lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni nasekuqeqesheni imisipha. Umntwana kufanele akhuthazwe ukuba ahambe, amnike inkululeko yokuhamba emgodini nokuheha amathoyizi athakazelisayo. Kunezindlela eziningi zokuhamba, kunezici eziningi ezingabonakali ezingakwazi ukuxwayisa udokotela wezingane. Ngokuvamile ingane kufanele ihambise yonke imilenze kahle, ukunyakaza kufanele kube okulinganiselwe. Akuzona zonke izingane ezithanda ukuhlala. Abanye baqala ukukhasa ngaphambi kokuba bahlale phansi. Lokhu kudinga ukutshelwa udokotela ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa. Ukuphoqelela ukuba umuntu ahlale phansi, uma engafuni, akudingekile. Uma engenayo inhloso engalungile lapho ehlala khona, uzoyisebenzisa ngokujabula ukudlala. Udokotela osebenza kahle uzokutshela umzimba oqinisa imfucumfucu yemisipha, ubeke iseshini yokusikhipha, njll. Izimoto nempilo. Khumbula ukuthi izingane ezigcwele zilukhuni ukuhamba kunokuthi "zilalele." Ngokuvamile, ukugcwala kwengane kubangelwa ukungondleki, nakuba kunezinye izizathu, uma kunjalo, uma ingane yakho inkulu kakhulu, khuluma nodokotela ebuka kulokhu sihloko. kubalulekile ukuthi i-crumb ingaba nokuhamba okuzimele, yenza wonke umzamo wokwenza ikhaya lakho noma okungenani ikamelo labantwana liphephile ngesilayidi encane. Ikhono lomntwana lokulawula umzimba wakhe, injabulo yempumelelo yakhe iyamsiza ufundise izimfanelo ezinhle zomlingisi.
- Kusukela ezinyangeni ezingu-9 kuya kwezi-12
Ingane emgqeni wokugcina kuya ezinyathelweni zokuqala. Ungayigijimi, ungayifaki emilenzeni, uma ingayidingi. Ukuphishekela kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, futhi kufanele ilungiselelwe kahle. Uma ingane ihamba ngokuzikhandla futhi ngokumangalisayo, kodwa ayizami ngisho nokuzama ukuhamba - akunandaba, kuhle. Ukugwaza kuyasiza kumisipha nokuthuthukiswa kwesimiso sezinzwa.
• Ufundani ingane? Kancane kancane, izinyane liyakwazi ukuthi liyakwazi ukuhamba ngisho nokuzulazula. Uzama ukugwaza embhedeni ophansi, ufunda ukuvuka. Kulezi zimo, kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuphepha kwayo (isibonelo, ukumboza amathebhu ngesikhala ngaphansi komshini), futhi ungavimbeli ukunyakaza. Kuhle uma umntwana enemikhuthazo ehlukahlukene: amathoyizi aphezu kwezihlalo kanye nesoya, njll. Ukuze uqeqeshe ukuhamba ngezinyawo, ungafaka ithoyizi ekupheleni kwesinye, lapho i-crumb ibambelela kwenye. Ngesinye isikhathi uzokhathala ngokuwa kuwo wonke ama-fours bese egibela ekuqondeni, futhi uzoqala ukuhamba ngezinyathelo zokuhamba. Kuseduze nonyaka, izingane eziningi zifuna ukuya epeni, bese zenza izinyathelo zokuqala ezizimele.
• Yini okufanele ngiyibheke? Ungabi nesineke futhi ungadingi ingane ukuba "imise" ngaphambi kwesikhathi, myeke aqeqeshe ubuchopho nemisipha ngokukhahlaza. Khokha ngokukhethekile ukuphepha. Iningi lezingane kule minyaka liyisinyathelo futhi libeka ingozi yokugcwalisa ama-cones amaningi.
• Umsebenzi wemoto kanye nempilo. Ezinye izingane ziqala ukuhamba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kunontanga yabo. Ngokuvamile babe nezici zentuthuko ezingavumeli ukuba benze lokhu ngaphambili. Ungaphelelwa yithemba, kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi umsebenzi we-motor ikuvumela ukuba uhlulele ukuthuthukiswa kwesistimu yezinzwa njengomuntu wonke - thintana ne-neurologist enekhono noma udokotela wezingane.