Namuhla, abesifazane abaningi bashiya ukuzalwa kwabo kuphela kule nkathi yokuphila kwabo. Ososayensi baye bafakazela ukuthi ukukhulelwa kwesikhathi sokubeletha nokubeletha kuvuselela umzimba wesifazane. Esimnconyweni sokuthi ubheke kanjani owesifazane kungakhathaliseki ubudala, umlingisi uSophia Loren wabiza ukubeletha ingane eneminyaka engama-40 ubudala. U-Angelina Jolie noMadonna, izinkanyezi zesikhathi sethu, nabo babeletha izingane zabo zokuqala, bebevele beneminyaka yobudala bukaBalzac.
Ngakho, ukuzalwa ngesikhathi sikaBalzac kuvuselela umzimba wesifazane.
Uprofesa wase-United States, uJohn Mirowski, owasebenza eYunivesithi yaseTexas, isikhathi eside ezama ukuphendula lo mbuzo - kungcono nini ukubeletha ingane yokuqala? Ukhulume ubufakazi obukholisayo bokuthi iminyaka evamile kakhulu yowesifazane ukukhulelwa kokuqala akuhambisani neze nombono owawucatshangwa ukuthi ulungile ekuqaleni. Leli minyaka, ngokusho kukaprofesa, uneminyaka engu-34. Kule nkathi yokuphila ukuthi isimo sokusimama kwezezempilo nezemali sesifinyelelo sesisindo esithile, okwenza kube lula ukuthatha isinyathelo esinomthwalo wemfanelo ngokulinganayo.
Yiqiniso, emazweni aseNtshonalanga, lapho ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili nokuzenzekelayo kungamukeli umphakathi, abesifazane bayathanda kakhulu lesi sitatimende. Ngenxa yokuthi abesifazane bekhulu lama-21 bebejwayele ukuthembela ekubhekaneni nobulili obuqinile ekuvikelekeni kwabo, ngakho-ke baqale bacabange ngemisebenzi, izindlu zabo, kanye nokugcina komndeni. Kukhona amacala lapho owesifazane emva kweminyaka engama-30 kuphela ethola umlingani omuhle, isikhathi esifanele kakhulu sokucabanga ngengane. Futhi-ke akumnandi ukubona ukuthi isikhathi esihle sokuba umama sishiywa ngemuva. Ngakho, akukaze kube sekwephuzile kakhulu ukuzala.
Yiqiniso, le mbono inebaphikisi abaningi. Kodwa uma ucabanga ngakho, ukuhlela ngokubeletha kwengane yokuqala kungavamile kakhulu kunokungahambisani okuzenzakalelayo okuthinta lo mcimbi. Ngakho-ke, noma yikuphi ukubalwa kwesikhathi sokubeletha ingane yokuqala kuyimfanelo yabacwaningi, kunokuba izakhamuzi ezivamile. Isiphetho, esingenziwa ngokuzethemba: akukaze kube yisikhathi sokubeletha, uma lokhu kunesifiso nethuba lomfazi.
Ucwaningo lwamaRussia lwaluqhutshwa kanti abangu-61% abamele abesilisa babethi iminyaka yobudala kusukela ku-19-24 iminyaka iyona engcono kakhulu ekuzalweni kwengane yokuqala. Iphuzu eliyinhloko laleli minyaka, amadoda futhi abheka isimo esihle kakhulu somzimba kanye nempilo enhle yowesifazane. Batshela kanje kanje: "Okhulile oneminyaka yobudala besifazane, amathuba okuba wonke ama-pathologies, amathuba okuthola izifo ezintsha, izifo ezindala ziphenduka ezingapheli, futhi lokhu kunomthelela omubi emntwaneni. Noma kunjalo, kubonakala ukuthi izingane eziphuthumayo zihlakaniphile futhi zinekhono kunezingane ezivamile. "
Abesifazane bavumelana nabo - 49%, abakholelwa ukuthi "lesi yisikhathi esihle kunazo zonke - futhi hhayi ngokushesha kakhulu noma sekwephuzile kakhulu, njengoba umzimba usungulwe ngokugcwele futhi ulungele ukuzalwa komntwana," "ekuqaleni kwakho ukubeletha, nakakhulu ungagcina intsha."
"Kubalulekile ukubeletha lapho owesifazane enethuba lokuhlela impilo ejwayelekile nengane," kusho u-37% wabantu abaxoxwa nabo abacabanga ukuthi uneminyaka engama-25-30 ukuze bafanele ukuzalwa kwezibulo. Kungenxa yalesikhathi ukuqwashisa ngomthwalo wonke wokuzalwa nokukhuliswa kwengane kuyisici. Njengoba owesifazane usuvele esekhona kule minyaka njengomuntu, wathola imfundo ephakeme, okusho ukuthi uyakwazi ukuhlinzeka ingane ngekusasa elizinzile.
Kodwa ukhetho luhlala luhlala njalo kulona wesifazane, ngoba ekukhulelweni okuyinhloko kwenzeka ngokuzenzekelayo.
UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekile isayithi