Ukuziphatha ngokobulili kuyinto enjabulo yomuntu

Ukuziphatha ngokobulili kuyinto enhle. Ukuziphatha ngokobulili kuyinto enjabulo yomuntu. Kubonakala sengathi kufana nabanye abantu, kodwa "ngokuhlushwa" okuhlukile. Kuthiwani uma isimo, ukunikeza isimo sengqondo, sinqume ukusindisa kuwe? Siyanitshela: ungakwazi ukuthuthukisa ubulili! Uma ukholwa yi-psychoanalysts, ngamunye wethu uthola ngokocansi, futhi kusukela ekuzalweni, ngoba ngisho nezinsana zinezinkinga zokuziphatha ngokobulili, zijabulela, isibonelo, ukuphuza umunwe. Enye into ethuthukisa ubulili ngezindlela ezahlukene. Abanye babo bavuthwa ngokwabo, abanye abahambanga kahle kakhulu: "Ngiyamthanda umngane wami, kodwa angitholi injabulo," "Umyeni wami wayevame ukungikhathaza, manje angikuthi," "Angikaze ngibe ne-orgasm empilweni yami." Uyazi izikhalazo? Ngakho-ke, mayelana nobulili - isici senjabulo kumuntu, kufanele sisebenze!

Ukuphakama kwenjabulo
Ngokusho kwezocansi, abesifazane abangu-7 kuphela kwabangu-10 kuphela bathola i-orgasm. Izinto ezithokozisa umuntu ezithinta ubulili zingahlukaniswa ngamaqembu amabili: okusobala futhi okungavamile. Kusobala ukuthi izinga lokukhathala, ukuziphatha kobulili - kuyaziwa ukuthi liqinile, eliphakathi futhi libuthakathaka, - isimo sempilo, umkhathi emndenini. Kuyaziwa nokuthi umsebenzi wesifazane ocansini uxhomeke esikhathini sosuku kanye nomjikelezo wokuya esikhathini. Ekuseni ulala, uvuka ebusuku. Ukuphakama kobulili, kokubili "amagundane abomvu" nethi "i-vamp female", uwela phakathi nomjikelezo wokuya esikhathini.

Abanye bathola injabulo ekhethekile izinsuku ezingu-2-3 ngaphambi kokuqala kwezinsuku ezibucayi nangesikhathi sokuya esikhathini.
Izinto eziyinqaba, ekuboneni kokuqala, nokuphila okuseduze akuxhunyiwe nhlobo - isibonelo, uhlobo luni lomntanakho emndenini! Ama-sexologist aseMelika athi izizukulwane zokuqala ngokuvamile azikhanyisi ngobudlova obudlova, ngoba zihlose umsebenzi. Bayizinhloso futhi bazikhuthele kakhulu ukuphazamiseka yizo zonke izinhlobo zezinyathelo ezifana nemidlalo yezocansi. Yini ongayisho mayelana nezingane ezincane: abancinci ukuthi bangabasebenzi, ukuzilibazisa kwabo kuyisimo sengqondo nomzwelo, ngoba bebelokhu beyizintandokazi zomhlaba wonke kusukela ebuntwaneni, ababehlale bekhungatheka futhi bewanga. Phela, uthando lomzali lubaluleke kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni ngokobulili.

Iningi labachwepheshe lithola ubuhlobo phakathi kobulili neqembu legazi. Ngokombono wabo, isimo sengqondo esinamandla kunazo zonke ngokobulili kubantu abaneqembu legazi le-I: bajwayele ukucabanga ngemicabango ejulile futhi nesifiso sokuziqalisa ngokushesha. Abathwali beqembu legazi le-IV banesimo sokuthakazelisa: bayinikeza imizwelo kunokucabanga.
Ukuziphatha ngokocansi kuyisimo senjabulo kumuntu oneqembu lesithathu legazi. Lolu hlobo lomuntu lufinyelela ezingeni elingakaze lenziwe ngaphambili, uma umlingani ozwelayo ecatshangwa ngokuthandana kwakhe kanye nengozi yakhe. Kodwa labo abanamaqembu amabili egazi, ngokuzikhandla bafaka ekamelweni lokufunda ulwazi lwabo lwezocansi, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ngaphandle komphefumulo. Ukuziphatha kwabo ngokobulili kuvame ukucindezelwa izinkimbinkimbi: "Amantombazane athembekile alezi akwenzeki!"
Abacwaningi baseNyuvesi yaseMelbourne bathola ukuthi ubulili ngezindlela eziningi kuxhomeke ... ubukhulu bendawo yobuchopho obangela ukuvuswa kobulili.

Konke kusezandleni zakho
Kodwa-ke, ososayensi abaningi bacabangela ithonya leqembu legazi kanye nezindawo zobuchopho ekuziphatheni ngokocansi ukuze kucaciswe ngokucacile. Ungashintsha kakhulu ubulili bakho ukuze kube ngcono. Ingabe indoda ifuna "lokhu" kuphela ekuseni? Dlulisa ucansi isikhathi esihle kakhulu sosuku kuwe. Ucabanga ukuthi ukhuluphele? Ngandlela-thile, bavame ukuzicabangela bona, labo abazali abasuka ebuntwaneni baphefumulela ukuzonda ubulili. Ikheli le-sexologist, uzokusiza ukushintsha isimo sengqondo esibi noma ukuhlobana nobudlelwano obuseduze.

Futhi zama futhi ...
1.Thola ukuhlolwa kwekhabethe lakho. Ubulili bungenakwenzeka ngaphandle kokuqaphela ubulili bomuntu. Hlala ubude besifazane! Ngaphansi kwama jeans angenasici namajackets amancane. Gqoka izingubo, izithende eziphakeme, ubucwebe obuhle. Amadoda asesimweni esidala futhi afuna ukusibona njengamadodakazikazi aseTurgenev, hhayi izidalwa zesimiso esisebusweni se-unisex.
2. Periodically "ukhohlwe" ukugqoka izingubo zangaphansi - ngeke iphendule ikhanda lakho hhayi kuphela kumuntu, kodwa ... kuwe. Ukuqaphela ukuthi ugqoke "ngokungafaneleki" kuzokwenza ujabule ubuningi bakho. Yebo, futhi izinto ze-pheromone, ezikhangayo ebulili obuqinile - kuzoba lula ukuphuma ngaphansi kwesiketi.

3. Ukubhalisa ekuzivocavoca - umsebenzi womzimba uthuthukisa isimo sengqondo, kusenza sibe namandla futhi asebenze, kufaka phakathi embhedeni. Kodwa ukuqeqesha akumelwe kube nzima: umzimba okhathele uzokwehlisa kuphela umsebenzi wezocansi.
4. Funda indlela yokuthinta inhliziyo. Ngeke uthinte umlingani wakho, kodwa ... kuwe. Thatha ucezu lwesililika, i-velvet, i-pompom kusukela kulesi sikhwama, ucezu lweqhwa - kakhulu lapho izitshalo, okungcono - nokunye zibathinta esikhumbeni. Gxila ekuthinteni, gxilisa imicabango evela kulolu chungechunge: "Ngokushesha indodana izobuya esikoleni, udinga ukushisa isobho" noma "Lokho engikwenzayo lapha - endlini yokugezela kuyintaba yezingubo ezingasuki." Ukubheja kufanele kube mnene futhi kuphuze. Zizwa yonke intshi yomzimba wakho.

Izindlela ezimbalwa zokuzivocavoca - futhi uzomangala ukuthola ukuthi unezindawo ezigcwele ezizenzekelayo, nasezindaweni ezihlukene: ekhoneni lika-elbow, ngemuva kwendlebe, entanyeni ... Akudingekile ukuba uzitholele ku-orgasm, kubalulekile ukuthi ufunde ukugxila emzimbeni wakho. Futhi uma ukuphuma kuvela - kuhle! Phela, ubulili yikhono lokujabulela noma yimaphi ama-caresses engqondo.