Ukuphila ngokocansi kwanamuhla kufinyelele ezingeni lapho isifiso sokwamukela nokujabulela akugcini nje kuphela, kepha sikhuthazwa ngokubambelela odokotela nemibono encane yokufaneleka. Yingakho impela impilo yobulili ejwayelekile ivuliwe ezintweni eziningi. Ikakhulukazi izindaba eziningi ezingamanga ezihloswe ngezizathu zokuvimbela ubudlelwane obuseduze.
Ngakho ake sibone lapho intombazane ingavunyelwe ukuba nezocansi, futhi uma ungenza okuhlukile.
Inganekwane kuqala.
Ngaphambili, mayelana nokukhulumisana okusheshayo phakathi nezinsuku ezibucayi nenkulumo ayikwazanga ukuhamba. Konke kuchazwa yisici somzimba womzimba wesifazane. Ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini, i-cervix isesimweni esivulwe kancane, ngakho-ke ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi ingozi yezincane ezincane zifaka futhi zikhuphula izifo emgodini we-uterine. Futhi, umzimba wesifazane awunamandla okunciphisa izifo ngalesi sikhathi, ngakho-ke kungenzeka ukuthi ngemuva kokulala ngokobulili kungase kube nokuvuvukala ezithombeni zobulili kuyanda.
Odokotela banamuhla banesimo sokwethembeka ngokweqile ngokocansi ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini. Le ntombazane iphikisana kuphela nokusebenzisa ukuvimbela ukukhulelwa, ngoba lokhu kuzonciphisa ingozi yokuthola izifo, kanye nokuvimbela ukukhulelwa okungadingeki.
Inkolelo yokuthi esikhathini sokuya esikhathini angeke sikhulelwe yindabakwane. Kungenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe, futhi lokhu kungenxa yokuthi i-spermatozoa ewele esibelethweni igcina ukuhamba kwayo isonto.
Kanti kwezinye izimo, ukucansika ngezinsuku ezibucayi kunconywa, ngoba kusiza ekunciphiseni ubuhlungu, futhi kunomphumela omuhle esimweni sengqondo sowesifazane. Into ewukuthi ingakunqanda uhlangothi lobuhle bombuzo, kodwa uma kungakhathazeki muntu - bese wenza ngesibindi.
Inganekwane yesibili.
Yiqiniso, lokhu akuyona inkolelo-mbono, umthetho nje ongekho. Ngokuvame ukuphikisana nokulala, hhayi kuphela kumantombazane ngesikhathi ukwelashwa izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi. Lezi zihlanganisa: izifo ze-fungal, chlamydia, mycoplasmosis, ureaplasmosis, gardnerellez kanye nabanye.
Yiqiniso, kukhona "kodwa". Njengoba bethi, ezimweni ezinjalo: «uma kungenakwenzeka, kodwa kakhulu kungaba yinto efiselekayo - lokho okudingekile». Into esemqoka yokwenza konke ngokuhlakanipha. Ukusetshenziswa kwekhondomu kuyadingeka, ngaphandle kwalokho uzokwazi ngokutheleleka ukutheleleka kokutheleleka komlingani wakho. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi izifo ezinjalo ziyadluliselwa nazo zonke izilinganiso zesenzo socansi, kufaka phakathi ubulili obudala kanye nomlomo. Ngakho, lapho ukhetha indlela yokwaneliseka, okokuqala cabanga ngokuphepha.
Izinganekwane ezintathu.
Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ubulili ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa abuvunyelwe. Mhlawumbe ngesinye isikhathi kwaba njalo. Kodwa namuhla emibhangqwaneni emisha, ukukhulelwa kuba yisikhathi sokuzama, nokukhombisa ukucabanga. Amacala ayingqayizivele ukuvela kokusongela ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, nokuvinjelwa kukadokotela, abathandi kufanele bahlaziye umxhwele wabo futhi bahlupheke.
Ngokufanayo, ukubekezela kuyodingeka uma le ntombazane ihlinzwa endaweni yesikhumba, noma izitho zokuzala zithintekile. Isikhathi sokuzilahla kuvame ukukhulunywa odokotela ngokwabo, kodwa ngokwesilinganiso kungamaviki amane. Yiqiniso, ungalindeli ukubuya okusheshayo empilweni esebenzayo yocansi, ngoba ekuqaleni amantombazane aphikisana nokuthutha okusho ukuthi umsebenzi omkhulu, ukungena ngokujulile, nje ubulili ngesilinganiso esilinganiselwe futhi ugxile emizweni yakho.
Isimo esikhethekile kungukungenelela okunjalo njengokukhipha isisu. Ngemuva kokukhipha isisu, lesi sibeletho sisesimweni sokuqhaqhazela, okuyinto ngokwayo ngaphandle kwamathuba okulala ngokobulili. Isici sengqondo sizophinde sidlale indima encane.
Kodwa, emva kwesikhathi esithile, abalingani babuyela kwisigqi esivamile sokuphila okusondelene futhi abatholi lutho.
Ngakho lapha ungabandakanya isihloko socansi ngemuva kokubeletha. Ngokuvamile, ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane mayelana nobulili, ungakhohlwa isikhathi okungenani amasonto ayisithupha. Lokhu kuchazwa kalula ukuthi ngesikhathi sokuzalwa, ukuphazamiseka kwemvelo kwesibeletho kanye namachiza wokuzalwa, futhi inqubo yokubuyisela ayidingi isikhathi. Kufanele futhi ukukhumbula amathuba okutheleleka.
Ekupheleni kwalesi sikhathi, uzokwazi ukujabulela futhi, kepha ungakhohlwa ngokubeletha, ngaphandle kokuthi, izingane zakho azifakiwe ezinhlelweni.
Izinhlobonhlobo.
Izinhlobonhlobo zamageyimu ocansi, nethuba lokujabulisa omunye nomunye ngendlela engavamile, kwenza ubulili bujabulise nakakhulu. Intsha yanamuhla iyajabula ukuzama, futhi ayenqabe ubulili bomlomo nobulili.
Uma usebenzisa i-caresses yamantombazane ngomlomo, ukuphikisana kungaba kuphela ukuba khona komlingani noma yena, noma yikuphi ukutheleleka ngokocansi, noma ukungabi nokholo kuwo. Ezimweni ezinjalo, kungcono ukulinda kuze kube yilapho sekudlule ukwelashwa.
Ubulili obuyindlala ngentombazane buba buhlungu ngaphezu kokuthakazelisa. Ngokwezibalo, inani elincane kuphela labesifazane lingakwazi ukuzwa izinto ezijabulisayo, kwezinye izimo, ucansi olunjalo lugcwele imiphumela. Lokhu kungukuthi indawo yomzimba wesifazane, esetshenziselwa ubulili obudala, inelisekile ngethenda futhi ihlukumezeka kalula, ngakho-ke kukhona ithuba lokuthola nokuthuthukisa ukutheleleka, okungeke kube nemiphumela emihle kakhulu.
Ubulili kuzo zonke izibonakaliso zalo akuyona into engejwayelekile, kungenye ingxenye yokuphila kwethu. Khulisa injabulo yomunye nomunye futhi uyithole ifisa konke. Kungenxa yalokhu ukuthi kufanele sibonge ngokuzalwa kwethu. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuwazisa nokuvikela impilo yakho, bese izimo ezingathandeki zizokhishwa.