Bangobani?
Ngakho, masinyane uyavumelana: ubuhlobo bomuntu oyedwa wesifazane we-iodine, ngeke sicabange. Ngoba Kulokhu, indoda ayiyithandi, kodwa isoka, umlingani ozayo noma umane nje ungumlingani. Isici esiyinhloko esiyingqayizivele somthandi ukuthi ushadile. Inkosikazi engaziwa, njengomthetho, owesifazane ukhululekile. Uma kungenjalo akucaci ukuthi yini engayifaka ezandleni zomunye umuntu. Ingabe abanelisekile nomlingani wabo futhi ngakho-ke banquma ukuba nomthandi? Lena akuyona indlela yethu. Indoda enganelisi, unga (a) ushintshe, b) ushintshe. Kodwa ukushintsha kwakhe kusengathembeki.
Enye indlela: ungumama wamahhala, kodwa ufuna ukushintsha isimo sakho. Kodwa kukhona eyodwa kuphela "kodwa": bonke abamele abakhulu noma abaphansi kakhulu abalingani obukhulu phakathi kwezintelezi zakho nobuhle yibo abaphethe i ringlet yegolide emgqeni wesandla sokunene nesitembu epasipoti ekhasini "umshado", kahle, nothando futhi ulinde ngesidlo sakusihlwa umfazi (futhi mhlawumbe eyodwa noma ezimbili izingane ezingaphezulu). Ukuzibiza ngokuthi "abathandanayo" ngalokhu kude nezwe elihle nokungabi nabulungisa okubusa kulo, ufuna ukuheha omunye walaba bantu ngesigxotshana: ake abe ngumthandi okokuqala, bese ubheka i-qust itus. Futhi lapha kufanele simise, ngoba amathuba ukuthi ekugcineni konke kuzoba ngokufana nalokho okufunayo nokuthi yini oyoliphupha ngayo, yebo, kukhona, kodwa isilinganiso sabo cishe singamakhulu amabili kuya kwekhulu! Noma ngisho nezinkulungwane! Kumele ukhulume ngesibonelo esivela kuleso sizathu esilula: owesifazane olungele ukulinda ehlezi efasiteleni, lapho kufika othandekayo wakhe futhi obeka impilo yakhe e-altare esincane, ngeke abe ngumthandi omuhle. Futhi awukwazi ukuphikisana nalokhu.
Kulesi simo, wonke amathemba afakwa ekukhethweni okugcina: ungowesifazane okhululekile ongalweli umshado, kodwa ngokumelene nenombolo encane ye-caress nokuthandana akekho engqondweni. Futhi ngokubheka nxazonke, kusuka kubantu abakuzungezile, ukhetha lowo, nakuba enesakhiwo esivela kulelo phuzu, unomuntu ohlakaniphile, ohlakaniphile, omuhle futhi emithwalweni yakhe unalo ulwazi olusenalutho noluthando angakuhlinzeka ngalo ngokushesha. Lapha ungakwazi ukuhalalisela ngokuphepha wena kanye naye! Unezo zonke izindlela zokuba inkosikazi enhle, futhi, ngokufanele, inezo zonke izindlela zokuqeda isimiso somndeni ompunga ngeholide yokukhulumisana nawe. Kungenxa yakho ukuthi ikhodi yethu yakhiwe. Ngokusekelwe kuyo yonke imithetho yohlobo, kufaka phakathi amalungelo nemithwalo yemfanelo. Study - futhi ngenxa yalokho!
Ilungelo lokusebenza nokuphumula
Ngendlela, emsebenzini nokuphumula, ozokuhlela ngokusekelwe ezithakazelweni zakho. Ukuze uhlale usephuzile emsebenzini noma usebenza ekhaya ngesimiso samahhala, vula ngezinyawo zebhizinisi zanyanga zonke noma usebenzise ubusuku ebhodini nabangani - ukhethe naphezu kwezinhlelo zakhe. Okokuqala, akaqhathanisi nesimiso sakho lapho efika futhi engahambi. Okwesibili, ngikholelwa, uzoqala ukukuhlonipha futhi akuhloniphe kakhulu uma ebona ukuthi awunakulinganiswa nokuphila kwakho kunezinto eziningi zokuzilibazisa nabantu. Okwesithathu, ukuba inkosikazi enhle akusho ukudela izithakazelo zomuntu. Othandayo beza bahambe, kodwa wena wedwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, awudingi ukumboza ithebula ngokufika kwakhe (ngale njongo unomfazi, umkhwekazi, umama). Ibhizinisi lakho yisikhathi esihle naye.
Umsebenzi : akudingekile ebuhlotsheni bakhe nomkakhe ukushayela. Ekugcineni, nguye owenza impilo yakhe ngaphansi kokuqondisa okuqinile komyeni wakhe, futhi ulungele lokhu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuqinisekile awufuni imihlangano yakho ibe yizindaba zakhe eside ngezinkinga zomndeni? Umyeni ojabulayo ngumthandi omuhle kakhulu!
Ilungelo kumthandi
Ngaphandle kwalokho, siyini injongo yokuphila? Angeke akunike ukunakekelwa okufanele? Indlela yokuphuma kule simo ilula: thola omunye umthandi. Cabanga ngakho: othandekayo wakho akagcini uthembekile - okungenani ulala nomkakhe (uthi akenzi lokho? Ukhohlisa!). Futhi kungani kufanele ugweme isimo sakho somvelo, okuqukethwe nomncanyana?
Ababili abathandi balingana nendoda eyodwa futhi lokhu kuhlolwe!
Umsebenzi : umthandi omuhle kufanele azise lover wokuqala ukuthi uhlela ukumisa elinye. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kugcizelelwa ukuthi kufanele kugxile emsebenzini wakhe nokungaqapheli kwakho. Uqala ukuvela - umkhumbuze ukuthi awuyena umyeni nomfazi, futhi awusiye kuphela. Ngakho-ke inqubomgomo yezindinganiso ezimbili zepulani - kungenzeka ukuthi yena, futhi awuboni, lapha ujikeleza ngokuphelele.
Kuphenduke futhi kwesokunxele - ungaxolisi. Angizange ngikuthokozele-nginecala.
Ilungelo lezipho
Ufuna okuthile ukunikeza indoda? Kuhle! Kodwa akufanele ucabange ukuthi lokhu kubeka izibopho kuwe. Noma kunjalo, udinga ukuthatha kumuntu lezo zipho ongazenza uma ungaphenduka ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa okukhethekile, isb. - izimpahla zokunethezeka kanye nakho konke okungadingekile, kodwa ngaphezu kwalokho. Amakhekhe, agqoka, ubucwebe-sicela. Imali yokukhokha izikweletu, cha. Esimweni esibi kunazo zonke, usheshe uphenduke kwindlovukazi ibe ngowesifazane ogcinwe. Ukuzisola ngesihloko esithi "ususa isinkwa sesinkwa esivela emndenini" kufanele uphonswe ngemuva. Umninimzi - othandekayo-omthandayo, nendoda ethathe isinqumo sokwenza owesifazane ohlangothini, kufanele akwazi ukunikeza umndeni kuphela, kodwa futhi nenkosikazi.
Umsebenzi : akudingekile ukushintsha izinkinga zokuphila kumthandi. Ufuna ukushaya isithombe-isando esandleni sakhe, kodwa ukumshaya ngoba nguye umkakhe.
Ilungelo lomndeni
Ngolunye usuku uyaqaphela ukuthi ufuna ukuthola umndeni lapho umyeni othembekile eyoba ukwesekwa kwakho nokusekelwa, kanye nezingane - impilo yangempela injabulo. Kulo mzuzwana, sekuyisikhathi sokutshela umthandi mayelana nezinhlelo zakhe zesikhathi esizayo futhi uhlale unomngane omuhle, uhlelwe ekufuneni okuncane. Yiqiniso, ungabheka umyeni kanye nomthandi, kodwa singabantu besifazane abaqotho kanye nomphumela wokusesha kuleli cala kuzoba ngaphansi. Akulungile ukucasuka, ngoba ukukunika lokhu, akakwazi. Futhi ukukholwa ukuthi uzohlukanisa nomkakhe, asikaze sikululeke! Kunamadoda amaningi emhlabeni, futhi isikhundla somthandi oseduze nendoda enjalo sinesikhathi eside futhi singenalutho.
Umsebenzi : uma enquma ukuqeda ubuhlobo bakho, ungamvimbeli. Mhlawumbe wayazi ukuthi umkakhe ufana! Ngesithunzi, mbonge, ukugcina enkumbulweni izikhathi ezinhle kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, uma ukhona kuyo yonke ikosikazi ye-buditidealnoy, vula kule nto akunakwenzeka ukuba ufanele!