Ukuphila kwanamuhla kungukuthi cishe uqiniseke ukuthi ingane yakho izofika ngokushesha noma kamuva ifinyelele izidakamizwa. Izibalo azishiyi izinkolelo. Futhi, kubonakala sengathi akukho lutho olungenziwa ... yeka! Ungakwazi ukuvikela ingane yakho kusuka kulokhu kanye naso sonke! Yenza kuphela kusukela ebuntwaneni obuncane kakhulu. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukwakheka kokuzimela kwengane, ukuzihlonipha yena nomndeni wakhe nokumelana nokucindezeleka okukhulu. Kubalulekile futhi ukufundisa ingane ngokushesha indlela enhle nephephile yokuhlangabezana nezidingo zabo. Ngakho-ke, siqala umhlangano wethu womzali: izidakamizwa nezingane - isihloko sesingxoxo namuhla.
Imiphumela yocwaningo ngokusakazeka kokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa (utshwala, izidakamizwa) ezikoleni zasesekondari ziyasabeka. Ukusakazeka, ukuphuza ngokweqile kubantu abasha kuyaba yinto evamile. Kubo, lokhu kungenye indlela yokuzijabulisa, kumnandi futhi kuyathandeka ukuzama. Abazizwa besaba impilo yabo - futhi lokhu kuyisabeka isimo.
Kunezinhlelo eziningi zokuvimbela ezikoleni ezihlose ukuhlinzeka abafundi ngolwazi olujulile namakhono adingekayo ukulwa nokucindezela kontanga noma isimo. Noma kunjalo, lezi zinhlelo zinamathuba amancane okuthuthukisa izindlela ezifanele. Indawo esemqoka lapho ingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu yomsebenzi wokuvimbela kufanele yenziwe umndeni. Futhi-ke, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane ikhethela impilo ngaphandle kwezidakamizwa, ikakhulukazi inquma ukuthi wakhulelwa kusukela esemncane njengomuntu onelungelo.
Ukwaneliseka okuphephile kwengqondo yomntwana
U-Andrew wangena enkampanini yezidakamizwa ngengozi. Wahlangana nomngani ekhonsathini esikoleni. Wayenabo bantu abangaziwa kanjalo. Intsha yaqala ukumnikeza "ukuphumula." Okokuqala, u-Andrew wenqaba - wayesebenzisa izidakamizwa futhi wazi ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwabo kuholela kuphi. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, waqala ukuqonda ukuthi ekuphileni kwakhe akukho okuthakazelisayo. Wayegula ngakho konke-isikole, imidlalo yekhompyutha, izingxabano ezihlala njalo nabazali bakhe. Futhi "abangane" bakhe abasha abazange bamshiye, bamqinisekisa ukuthi bazohlale bexhasa ukuthi wayengeyedwa. Futhi wanquma ukuzama. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, izidakamizwa zagcwalisa ukungabi nalutho nokuzikhandla kangangokuthi wazizwa okwesikhashana. Kwabe sekuqala ukuqala ...
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Ingane yakho kufanele izwe ingxenye yeqembu - umndeni wakhe. Ungamvumeli ukuba ashiye yedwa ngezinkinga zakhe. Ngesikhathi esemncane, izinkinga zakhe zibonakala ngathi zincane kangaka, sibaxosha eceleni, azibandakanyi ukubaluleka. Futhi ingane ikhula nomcabango wokuthi akekho omkhathalelayo. Izinkinga zakhe azikho nandaba nanoma ubani.
Kubalulekile futhi ukuba "udonsa" ingane ezimweni ezehlukene ukuze ambone okuthile okuhlukile futhi okungavamile. Ukukhuluma kahle, ingane akufanele ikwazi ukukhathazeka ngokuphila. Umsebenzi omuhle wengane yizemidlalo, ama-art classes, ukuhamba. Ingane yakho kufanele ithole ulwazi lokuzwa imizwelo eqinile. Masihlanganyele emincintiswaneni yezemidlalo, ukwenza noma ukuya ehlobo ekamu, isibonelo. Ukuntuleka kwemizwelo nemizwa yokumangala yilokho okuphoqa izingane ukuba zisebenzise izidakamizwa.
Ukusekela izithakazelo zomntanakho bese ubanika ukuzethemba. Usacabanga ngokwakhe eqenjini futhi uzama ukuthola imizwelo eqinile - kumsize enze ukhetho olufanele.
Ukwakhiwa kwenhlalakahle nokuzihlonipha okukhulu kwengane
U-Diana wayehlale ethule futhi "enyanyiswa" yintombazane. Wayesaba, ehlazekile, wayevame ukungena kuye. Ngemuva kokuhlangenwe nakho kokuqala ngezidakamizwa, ngokuzumayo waqaphela wonke umuntu, ekhululekile, enesibindi. U-Diana wakhumbula ukuthi wayeqiniseka kanjani nokuthi wayenesihe ngaleso sikhathi. Izidakamizwa zaba zibalulekile futhi zidingekile impilo yakhe kanye nomqondo wamandla akhe.
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Ingane yakho kufanele ibe nomqondo wokuzibheka. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukufaka lokhu enganeni, kuyoba lula ngaye ukuthola ukuzethemba ngokusebenzisa izidakamizwa. Bamenza umholi okungenani isikhashana. Kuphela ngale ndlela angazizwa enhle futhi ekhululekile. Ukuzethemba kwamakhono abo, ingane ezoyilahleka nsuku zonke, kalula futhi kalula imnike izidakamizwa.
Fundisa ingane ukuthi ifake ukubaluleka ekuphumeleleni kanye nokunqoba kwabo kwansuku zonke. Mdumise ngisho nangenzuzo encane, ungathokozi umphumela, kodwa imizamo esetshenziswayo. Nika ingane inkululeko enkulu nokuzimela, ngoba unamandla kangakanani ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo. Faka ukuthembeka kwengane, wazi konke akwenzayo, ukucabanga nokuzizwa. Kumele futhi ube umlaleli, hhayi nje umuntu "onika okuthile".
Ukuthuthukiswa kokumelana nokucindezeleka
Stas wayengakaze umfundi omuhle. Ngaphakathi endlini, abazali babelokhu bemthukuthelela ngokuhluleka. Wayesaba konke-wayesaba isikole, indlela abazali abaphendula ngayo ekuhloleni, ukuhleka usulu kwabalingani nabo. Wayesaba, kangangokuba waqala ukubaleka. Ubalekele esikoleni ukuze azihlukanise nabazali bakhe, ontanga. Lapho eqala ukuzisebenzisa izidakamizwa, ngokuzumayo wazizwa enamandla futhi wakholelwa esikhathini esizayo esingcono. Wayekholelwa ukuthi leso sinqumo siyofika ngokwawo. I-Stas yayikuthola kunzima ukusabalalisa izidakamizwa futhi imizamo embalwa isele isenzo sangempela. Lezi zidakamizwa zashintsha iqiniso, lapho kungekho lutho olwesabayo ...
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Ingane yakho kufanele ithole isipiliyoni sokuziphatha ezimweni ezihlukahlukene eziyinkimbinkimbi nezicindezelayo. Ukuxazulula inkinga kuyodinga ukubekezela nokubekezela. Uma ungamvumeli ingane ukuba ikwazi ubunzima, ngeke ifunde ukubhekana nayo. Uzobe esebenzisa izidakamizwa noma izidakamizwa ezizovimbela ubuhlungu nemizwa yokungabi namandla.
Ezimweni ezinzima, yisekela ingane yakho, kodwa ungayilungisi inkinga. Ungayigcinanga kakhulu kuwe futhi ungavikeli kuzo zonke izinkinga. Bamba ngokuthula lapho ingane yakho ikhala. Ngakho-ke, ufunda kusukela esemncane ukuthi awukwazi ukuthola konke okunye okumele kulwa nakho, ukuthi akuyona yonke into eyenziwa ngokufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Lesi sitatimende, esiwumphumela womhlangano wethu womzali othuthukisiwe - izidakamizwa nezingane akufanele zihambe ngokuphila ndawonye. Futhi kusezandleni zethu ukuqinisekisa ukuthi abathinti impilo. Abazali kufanele, uma kungenzeka, bahole ingane ngokusebenzisa yonke inqubo yemfundo ukuyilungiselela izimo ezihlukahlukene zokuphila. Kufaka nokwenza izinqumo mayelana nokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa. Noma kunjalo, isinqumo ngokwazo siyohlala njalo nengane.