"O, maduzane kuzakuba khona ukuduma phakathi esibhakabhakeni esicacile ..." - niyabona, nibheke indlela umphathi ogijima ngayo ngaphambi kwenu, njengengwenya eshaqisayo, ngenkathi ishiya ngokushesha: "Woza ehhovisi lami !!!". Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi izibonakaliso zentukuthelo eqinile kakhulu ayibonakali ... Ngisho njengengane, sasihlaselwa ngenjongo yokujezisa, hhayi ukufundisa. Kungenxa yalesi sizathu ukuthi amashiya ompheki aletha emphefumulweni wethu ukwesaba nokudideka. Ake sixoxisane ngakho konke ezimweni ezibukwayo.
I-Petrel of Anger
Isimo No. 1: "Ngakho uthando ludlulile ..."
Kunezikhathi lapho umuntu ophansi "ephila" nabaphathi bakhe "umphefumulo emphefumulweni": bangakwazi ukuxoxa ngokugcwele kuzo zonke izihloko ezisekelwe indebe yekhofi (ngisho necebo lomuntu siqu elingathinti uhlelo lomsebenzi), ndawonye ukuze bajabulele ukukhula nokuncipha. Ngelinye igama, ukusizana, ukuthola izitolo kuzo zonke izimo ezinzima. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi konke kungase kufike ekupheleni okubukhali ... Umphathi uqala ukuhamba futhi abeke umngcele phakathi "ongaphansi" no "boss", ephethe izikhathi lapho ingxoxo idonsa futhi ibaluleke nakakhulu. Ingabe ngempela kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi uzoxoshwa?
Ukuphawula kwengqondo
Le nkinga ngokuvamile iyingxenye yabantu abahlakaniphile: abantu abanjalo babhekwa ngokomzwelo okhulayo nokuzwela kwisimo sezulu esingokwengqondo esibusa emsebenzini. Kulokhu kubonakala futhi ukuthi ukuthakazelisa kokuthandana komunye nomunye kungenziwa esikhundleni sokuphelelwa yisikhathi okuphelele kusukela "emizweni yokuphela". Ake sizame ukucacisa lesi simo ngokuningiliziwe. Okokuqala, baya emsebenzini ukuze benze ibhizinisi, bangabi abangane futhi bangabe 'bengasithandi'! Futhi okwesibili, intando yeningi ayihambisani nokuxhuma. Lapho ubona ukuthi unobungane neziphathimandla, ozakwabo bazofuna okufanayo. Futhi-ke ukuhlehlisa isiyalo, ukuzithoba. Yingakho ikhanda lizama ukubuyela (i-atonchnee ibeke) endaweni yakho.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Yiqiniso, qhubeka usebenza ngokuqhubekayo! Futhi ungangeni engxenyeni ebucayi yokwabelana ngokungathandeki nomphathi. Futhi ngekusasa, kufanele kucatshangelwe ukuthi lobuhlobo obuseduze nomphathi buza kuye!
Isimo No. 2: "Ato her, atu!"
Abaningi bethu bajwayele lesi simo uma uqala ukusebenza "ngaphandle komgwaqo", ukufunda ngengozi ngomncintiswano kuvulwe isikhala esisha. Ukuqiniseka ngobuholi obuphezulu ngokufaneleka kwakho kanye nokukwazi kwakho, uhamba kuzo zonke "imibuthano yesihogo", ebizwa ngokuthi izingxoxo. Kodwa umphathi wakho osheshayo wakuhlangabeza kabi futhi uqaphele. Futhi manje usuzolahlwa ukusebenza endaweni yokusebenza, futhi konke okwenzile kuholela ekugxekeni okusheshayo futhi kuhlangene nemayini e-acidic. Yebo, futhi ngemibono ayidumisayo, yebo, hhayi wena, osebenza nabo base-Avashi! Iyini isizathu salesi simo sengqondo? Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, isimo singasilungiswa kanjani?
Ukuphawula kwengqondo
Yiqiniso, awukwazi ukulinda ukukhuluma ngobungcwele: ngoba umphathi onjalo umdlalo wokuthi "ukuthula" uhlobo oluthile lweqhinga "lokusinda" kwesisebenzi esingathandeki. Ngendlela, ngubani ongaba isazi esihle kakhulu, ngakho ukuxoshwa kwakhe okusemthethweni akuvumelekile. Lokho okwenzekile esimweni esinjalo akuzange kumjabulise u-boss kunzima ukubikezela. Mhlawumbe usanda kuhambela esidlekeni esilungiselelwe omunye umuntu?
Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Akunakwenzeka ukuthi uzokwazi ukwakha umsebenzi wakho lapha. Kungcono ukuthi ufune "indawo yokuhamba ehamba phambili" ngokufana. Kungenzeka, ukuthi, ukuhambisa impi yama-guerrilla ngokumelene nesitha, kodwa umphumela wayo, njengombuso, awunakulinganiswa. Uma unelisekile ngomholo wakho, sebenze ngokuqhubekayo, naphezu komphimbo omuncu we-boss. Vala zonke iziphakamiso zakho kangcono ukuzilondoloza izikhathi ezingcono: usuku luzofika lapho ungawabona, futhi ubuholi obuphakeme buzokusekela ngokuqinisekile.
Isimo No. 3: "Ukuhlolwa Kwemigwaqo"
Kukhona amacala uma isimo sengqondo sakho esivela kubaphathi silula: uphathiswe wonke amaphrojekthi abalulekile, njll. Kodwa "ngokuzumayo" ukuthi umphathi wakho uqala ukulawula ngokuqinile: njalo lapho ucacisa nokuthi uzokwenza nini, thola ukuthi iziphi izizathu nokuthi uhambeni imizuzu emihlanu. Futhi kaningi kuyenzela ngamehlo, isibonelo, ukuba nesithakazelo kule nkohliso. Iyini inkinga yokuphika okunjalo ukuthembela okunjalo?
Ukuphawula kwengqondo
Mhlawumbe wazi ngokwenu ukuthi yisiphi isizathu sokuziphatha okushintshiwe komphathi, mayelana nomuntu wakho: uvele uthembekile. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka? Uma unembeza wakho ucacile, qaphela osebenza nabo. Mhlawumbe omunye wabo ufuna ukuthatha indawo yakho? Noma ingabe indawo yakho ilula umzwelo? Nalapha futhi kungahle kube khona ukuzwa, ukuthi, ngokwesibonelo, uthola ngokungeziwe kwenye yezinhlangano eziphikisanayo.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Ukuzama ukusola noma ukucasuka akumele ukusiza. Inqubo engcono kakhulu ukuzenza sengathi awuqapheli lutho. Izingcindezi ezinamandla zokulawula? Phatha konke ngokuhlekisa, ngokuzithoba. Njengoba okuhlangenwe nakho kokuphila kubonisa, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ubuqotho bakho, zonke izimpawu ezisabekayo zizophela zodwa.
Isimo No. 4: "Abafileyo abanama-braids bemi. Futhi uthule ... "
Ehhovisi kukhona izinguquko ezinkulu ezihambisana nokuncishiswa. Kodwa njalo ulawula ukubhekana nomsebenzi wakho futhi ngesikhathi sokusihambisa edeskini. Kodwa induna yayigweme njalo ukuhlangana nawe, futhi phakathi nomhlangano emgodini, ubingelela ngamazinyo futhi uzama ukweqa ngokushesha.
Ukuphawula kwengqondo
Akukhona ngomphumela wakho womuntu siqu, kodwa kumsebenzi wethimba. Futhi wena, ukwahlulela ngokuphendula komphathi, omunye wabalingani bezindiza. Ngakho-ke, usadinga ukushintshela kumuntu ngamunye womzabalazo.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Ingabe usebenza kahle? Sekuyisikhathi sokukusho ngokuzwakalayo. Ukusekela ingxoxo ngedokhumenti eqinisekisa ukubaluleka kwakho kwenhlangano futhi iqhubeke. Ngezinye izikhathi kukhuthaza ngisho nokukhula komsebenzi!
"Isivunguvungu ekuqaleni kukaMeyi"
Ingabe intukuthelo yenhloko ihlale ingalungile? Emva kwakho konke, emva kwesiphepho, konke, njengokubusa, konke kuhamba ngcono: izitatimende kanye nezimangalo zicacisa umkhathi. Nakhu kuphela leli phuzu okudingeka ulandele imithetho ethile ezokusiza ngemva kwesiphepho ukubona ilanga:
Ukuphika ngokuphelele iqiniso . Ngenxa yalokhu, ubonisa ukuziqhenya kwakho futhi ubheke emehlweni omsebenzi ongasakwazi ukulawula.
Ukuhlala ngombhalo ofana nokufela ukholo . Inhloko inganquma ukuthi awuyikwenzela i-vybich ukushelela isimo. Kungcono ukukhombisa isithakazelo ekulungiseni isimo.
Yehla emilenzeni yamapaki . Ungaxolisi njalo. Futhi kungcono zama ukuchaza ukuthi yini okudingayo okufanele uyicabangele. Ngendlela, uma ubona ukuthi umphathi othile ungalungile ngandlela-thile, ngendlela endala futhi umtshele ngenhlonipho ngakho.
Humusha kwabanye . Lokhu akukona kuphela okubi, kodwa futhi akunandaba. Futhi, ithimba lonke lizokuhlonipha.
Futhi wokugcina. Sijwayele ukuphawula ngokucophelela umphathi we-chekabinet, kodwa abaphathi bezinye izizwe bakholelwa ukuthi ukugxeka kuhlale kulungile. Nguye okwazi ukugqugquzela umuntu ekufezeni impumelelo entsha. "Bayangithukuthela, kusho ukuthi nginamandla kakhulu kunabo bonke!" Bathi. Kungabe kufanele yini kithi futhi sizame ukwamukela isimo sabo sengqondo ngentukuthelo yenkosi?