Into esemqoka ukuthi noma yikuphi owesifazane okhulelwe okufanele akwenze ukuzama ukuqeda ukukhathazeka, ukwesaba nokujabula. Uma kungenjalo, esikhundleni sokujabulela isimo sakho ezinyangeni ezingu-8-9 ezizayo, ujabule ngokubonakala okusheshayo kwesimangaliso esincane, uzobe usubeka isikhathi esithokozile kakhulu sokuphila kwakho ube yinqabane elibi nelesabekayo. Akubulali amangqamuzana omzimba kuphela, kodwa futhi nomzwelo womama, uthando nomusa wengane, kanye nempilo yowesifazane.
Inkinga enkulu yabesifazane abakhulelwe ukuthi bathambekele ekubhekeni okubi kakhulu. Abesifazane abangaphezu kwamaphesenti angama-90 bahlangene futhi besaba ukuthi bazosinda yini ubuhlungu bokuzalwa nokuthi ngabe bayaphumelela yini. Amaphesenti angama-80% abesifazane abakhulelwe bakhathazekile ngesimo sempilo yabo kanye nesibalo. Amaphesenti angama-95 kuphela abalungiselela ukuba abe omama, azihlukumeze ngokwesaba ukuthi ngabe ingane yabo izoba yinto evamile yini. Futhi cishe bonke omama abakusasa bayakhathazeka ngempela ngokuthi bayakhathazeka kakhulu.
Abesifazane kufanele babhekane nokwesaba ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ngobuthakathaka emilenzeni, inselele, ubuhlungu emuva, izinguquko ekuthandeni, ukulamba njalo. Bashaywa luvalo ngenxa yokubhema ugwayi kanye nokuphuza utshwala, utshwala obunxilisayo, uthathe isisu sokubeletha ngesikhathi sokuqala sokukhulelwa, lapho bengacabangi ngakho.
Futhi abakhulelwe bahlale bekhathazeka ngokudla kwabo kwansuku zonke. Abesifazane besimila besaba kakhulu ukuthi ingane yabo ingaphuthelwa amaprotheni abalulekile ebilwaneni ekuthuthukiseni okujwayelekile. Abanye babo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa baze bahlanganyele nemikhuba yabo yokuzilibazisa.
Kunabesifazane kuphela abanganikeli (ngokuphindaphindiwe, ngokungenangqondo) ngenxa yokuthi umntwana ophilile, ohlakaniphile futhi omuhle uzalwa! Izimiso ziya ngemuva uma ukwesaba kuvela mayelana nempilo yengane yabo. Ukwesaba kungabangela noma yikuphi ukukhwabanisa emilenzeni, ukuqedwa ngokuzumayo kwezinyosi kanye nokunyamalala kwe-toxicosis ngenyanga yesine, ukuphazamiseka, ukuwela kunoma iyiphi ingxenye yomzimba, ukuqothulwa ... Abangakwazi ukukhulelwa ekuziphatheni, abesifazane bahamba kuwo wonke isihogo sokungabaza nokukhathazeka, ngezinye izikhathi abangakwazi ukuxosha ngisho nodokotela. Bakuthola kunzima ukubhekana nokubona komuntu wesifazane "ama-jabob" kanye nezimpawu ngesikhathi esifushane.
Abesifazane abakhulelwe bayesaba konke - kusuka ezincane ezincane emoyeni kuya kokwesaba okungalindelekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abesabi lutho - ngamaphesenti angama-99% athwalayo futhi abeletha ngokuphelele.
Yini engingayenza ukuze ngibhekane nokwesaba ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa? Okokuqala, ukuze ungakhathazeki kancane ngezinkinga ngisho nangaphambi kokuzalwa kwengane, udinga ukuyeka ukufunda amaphephandaba, ukuxoxa ezindabeni kwi-intanethi nokubukela i-TV - konke kunomthelela omubi. Kodwa mayelana namaphesenti angu-99 okubeletha okuhle kanye nezingane eziphilile, abezindaba bethu abaqinekile bathule, ngoba ababalethi isilinganiso. Kodwa cishe amaphesenti angu-1 ekubelethweni okungaphumeleli, ukuhlukunyezwa okubelethwe kanye nemiphumela ehlukumezayo kuyobe iqhube yonke indawo emphakathini. Futhi, ngokuphindaphindiwe ukugqanyiswa ngaphezu kwengxenye.
Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, cabanga ngokuhle. Kholelwa kuwe futhi ngamandla emzimbeni wakho. Isibonelo, abesifazane abakhulelwe bawela kaningi ngenxa yenguquko phakathi nendawo yokuvuthwa komzimba, kodwa lokhu akuthinti ukuthuthukiswa kwe-inside of the fetus. Kuvikelwe ngokuthembekile yi-amniotic fluid kanye nezicubu zesisu. Kodwa ngenxa yokuhlangenwe nakho okuqhubekayo nokwesaba kowesifazane, umntwana angathuthukisa ukukhathazeka, ngakho-ke kudingeka uzame ukumamatheka ngaphezulu, ujabulele ingane yakho, uxoxe naye.
Kancane kancane usabela ngokungahambi kahle. Beka ngokwengqondo i-shutter phakathi kwabo ne-psyche yakho. Masibe odongeni olungenakunyakaziswa. Isibonelo, yenza kanje. Nausea - futhi kuhle! Lokhu kusho ukuthi ingane ikhula, futhi isizinda semvelo se-hormone siyashintsha! Ingabe uhlangabezana nokuqothulwa? Kulungile - konke kungokwesikhashana, ngoba khona-ke yena nokukhulelwa, ukuze ngokushesha noma kamuva kuzophela ngokuphepha! Uwile? Vuka uphinde uhambisane nenkolelo yokuthi konke kuzokuhle kokubili.
Ukuze ubhekane nokumesaba, kubalulekile ukuthi owesifazane okhulelwe athole ulwazi oluwusizo oluningi ngesihloko sesimo sakhe. Ungathenga inkambo yevidiyo yabesifazane abakhulelwe noma uthenge i-encyclopedia efanelekile. Kubalulekile ukutadisha izigaba eziyinhloko zokuthuthukiswa komntwana ekuzileni komzimba wesifazane, funda okungokoqobo (futhi ungahloliswanga ukuphakamisa isilinganiso) mayelana nokubeletha.
Okuwukuphela kwento okuyiyona engcono yokugwema yizinkinga nezifo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Uma konke kuhamba ngokuvumelana necebo, ungakhathazeki ngalokhu okungeke kwenzeke kuwe.
Kukhona enye indlela enhle yokuqeda ukucindezeleka nokwesaba kwabesifazane abakhulelwe - umthandazo. Thatha ngokungathí sina. Iyakusiza kakhulu, ivuselela futhi inike ithemba ngcono kakhulu. Thandaza kuMariya Oyingelosi Ebusisiwe - uthathwa njengomvikeli wabesifazane nabantwana. Noma ubani okholwa lokhu uzogcwaliseka. UNkulunkulu unesihe kubantwana, futhi uma umcela ngobuqotho, uzokunika lokho okucelayo.
Ungafundi izindaba ezimbi ngokubeletha - konke kuzokuhluka kuwe. Noma yikuphi ukukhulelwa kungumuntu ngamunye. Uma ngabe kukhona okungahambanga kahle ngesikhathi sokubeletha, lokhu akusho ukuthi isimo esifanayo silindele wena. Ungawamukeli okubi, ugweme, uqoqe ulwazi olubalulekile olubalulekile, oluwusizo mayelana nokukhulelwa nokubeletha, okwenzela ingane yakho yesikhathi esizayo okuhle futhi wena ngokwakho.
Khumbula ukuthi u-99% wabesifazane besaba ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ngamaphesenti angama-99% angakapheli. Bheka nxazonke - kukhona abesifazane abahamba ngezinyawo nabantwana abahle nabaphilile esitulo sabakhubazekile. Khumbula abangane bakho, izintombi, umndeni wakho ...
Ukukhathazeka, ukukhathazeka nokwesaba kwabesifazane abakhulelwe kuyinto engavumelekile. Bayawudla amandla akho okwesaba kanye namandla abalulekile kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni ingane yakho. Vumela ukukhulelwa kwakho kukujabulise - uzokunika umhlaba impilo entsha! Ukukhulelwa kuyinjabulo, enganikezwa wonke umuntu. Ngakho-ke ujabule!