Izici ezingokwemvelo zomzimba wesifazane zifana nokuthi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kanye nenkathi yokuhamba kwesikhathi lapho isimo esibucayi se-hormonal yowesifazane senza ukuba kuvele imicabango ecasulayo nokuthuthukiswa kokucindezeleka. Futhi uma cishe wonke umuntu ezwa ngokucindezeleka kwangemva kokubeletha, bambalwa abantu abaye bezwa ngokucindezeleka ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.
Kwenzekani emzimbeni wesifazane emva kokukhulelwe?
Ezingqondweni zethu isikhathi eside kanye nesimo esibucayi esinqunyiwe sokuthi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kukhona ukubuyekezwa komzimba wesifazane, okubangelwa izinguquko ze-hormone, ukuthi zonke izinguquko zenzelwe ukuthi owesifazane azuze, engeza empilweni yakhe futhi aguqule ngaphandle ukuze kube ngcono. Ngaphezu kwalokho, imicabango emihle ehlobene nokulindeleka kokuzalwa komntwana, nayo ifaka isandla esimweni esihle, esinokuthula.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, izifundo zibonisa ukuthi cishe owesifazane wesihlanu uhlangabezana nokucindezeleka esikhathini sokuzalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Kulesi simo, izimo eziholela ekuboniseni izimpawu zokucindezeleka zingase zihluke. Isibonelo, izimo zokuphila zingabangela ukucindezeleka: izinkinga zemali, ubuhlobo obunzima nomyeni wakhe, ukungabi nendlu yokuhlala, njll. Ngokuvamile imizwa emibi ikhuthazwa yimicabango mayelana nesimo sabo esisha, esingaziwa lapho ukuphela kwendlela ethile yokuphila kuphela. Ngakho-ke, owesifazane uyaqonda ukuthi akulula kakhulu ukuhola indlela yokuphila yokuphila, ukuhambela, ukuhlangana nabangani, futhi emisebenzini kukhona "ukuhlaselwa" okuthile. Ngokuvamile owesifazane uqala ukuthola imicabango engakhululekile ngokuthi ngabe wakhetha yini ingane kahle, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzokwanela ingane ezayo, ukuthi uzokwazi yini ukuhlinzeka zonke izidingo zakhe ngokwezimali ngokwanele nobaba onothando nokunakekelayo. Ukucindezeleka emlandweni onjalo akuyona into engavamile. Ngokuvame kakhulu ekwamukelwa abanokholo kwengqondo, laba besifazane bayatshela, bezama ukuchaza isimo sabo, njengoba, ngokwesibonelo, bahlangana nabangane abadala abakhulu, abasha, abangenandaba, futhi lapho befika ekhaya bezibuka esibukweni, baqala ukuzihawukela, futhi mina Ngihlala ekhaya, nginamafutha, ngiyedwa futhi ngiphumula, futhi akukho okuthakazelisayo okwenzeka empilweni ... Futhi ngisho nokuqaphela ukuthi lezi zinkinga azibalulekile kakhulu ukuba zihlanganise nokubaluleka kwabo, ngezinye izikhathi owesifazane angakwazi ukulungisa imicabango enjalo engafanele, futhi lapho futhi ukunikeza ukucindezeleka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akufanele unqabe isifo se-hormone njengesizathu sokucindezeleka ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Izinguquko ze-hormone azikho nje ekushintsheni kokusebenza kwezitho zangaphakathi, kodwa futhi zithinta isistimu yezinzwa.
Kodwa umuntu angahlukanisa kanjani isimo sengqondo esibi kusukela ekuqaleni kokucindezeleka njengesifo sokuxilongwa kwezokwelapha? Kufanelekile ukucabangela uma imicabango ecindezelayo, ukungabi nethemba akukhiphi amaviki angaphezu kwamabili, kukhona ukunganaki, ukulala kuphazamiseka. Uma owesifazane engaphenduki kulezi zimpawu ezesabekayo, ukucindezeleka kungadlulela ngisho nangemva kokubeletha, kube mnyama izikhathi ezibucayi zokuphila, futhi imiphumela yakhe esikhathini sokuhamba kwesikhathi ingaba yingozi nakakhulu.
Kodwa-ke, ososayensi abasanda kuFrance base beyishicilela imiphumela yeminyaka eminingi yocwaningo, ebonisa ukuthi uhlelo lwesisenja esiswini luye lwasungulwa kanjani ingane. Futhi uma ukubona nokuzwa iphunga kungabonakali izimpawu zokuthuthukiswa, ukunambitheka nokuzwa kuqala ukukhula ebusweni kusukela ngenyanga yesithathu yokukhulelwa. Ngakho-ke, ingane ibaluleke kakhulu ukuzwa izwi lethenda lomama kaningi, ngisho noma lisesesibelethweni. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, izifo zengqondo nezengqondo ziye zaveza esinye isici esibaluleke kakhulu esithinta ukuthuthukiswa okuphelele kwe-fetus - lokhu kuhlobana ngokomzwelo phakathi komntwana nonina.
Kwaboniswa ukuthi uthando owesifazane ophethe umntwana wakhe, leyo micabango ehambisana nokubukeka kwayo nokuthi ihlanganyela kanjani nomntanakhe, inomthelela omkhulu ekuthuthukiseni i-psyche ye-fetus, kanye nenkumbulo yayo yeselula. Kule nkathi izimpawu zomuntu siqu eziyisisekelo zomntwana ezibekiwe, ezizogcinwa kulo lonke impilo yakhe yamuva futhi ziyoba nomthelela kukho.
Ochwepheshe baseCanada benza ucwaningo phakathi kwabesifazane abangama-500, okwesithathu kubo bathi ngesikhathi sonke sokukhulelwa, babengazicabangi kakhulu ngomntanakho. Kwavela ukuthi isisindo salesi sithathu sezingane ekuzalweni sasingaphansi kwesilinganiso. Ukubheka okuqhubekayo kubonise ukuthi izingane ezivela kuleli qembu zivame ukubhekana nokukhathazeka kwezinkinga nokuphazamiseka ohlelweni lokugaya ukudla.
Ikhono lemicabango emibi lokuthonya ukuthuthukiswa kwe-fetus luchazwa ngeso lengqondo kuphela. Ngesikhathi sokucindezeleka, izigulane ze-adrenal ziqala ukukhiqiza ama-catecholamines, okuthiwa ama-hormone okucindezeleka. Basiza umzimba ukubhekana nokucindezeleka. Kuyinto ithonya lama-catecholamines emzimbeni wethu ochaza izinhliziyo, ukujuluka, ukukhuphuka komzwelo nokuzijabulisa lapho kwenzeka isimo esicindezelayo, okwamanje, esiza ukunqoba ukucindezeleka. Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ama-catecholamines angena emkhawulweni we-placental kumntwana, ngakho-ke enza isizinda sangokwengqondo kwengane. Yingakho okuhlangenwe nakho okunamandla nokujulile komama kungaba nethonya elibi enganeni, engathinta impilo yakhe yakudala.
Ngokuphambene nalokho, umama ojabulayo futhi omuhle, imizwa yakhe yenjabulo nayo idluliselwa emntwaneni, ngoba "amahomoni enjabulo" akhiqizwa umzimba wethu - i-endorphins nayo ithonya ingane. Imizwa emihle evame ukuzwa ingane esesibelethweni somama ikhunjulwa yi-fetus futhi esikhathini esizayo ingathinta uhlamvu lomuntu ozayo.
Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, khumbula ukuthi uthando lomama lunempahla enhle, impahla engavikela ingane ekuchasheni izinto eziyingozi, ngisho nasezimo ezimbi kakhulu. Nakhu, ukukhulelwa, imicabango emibi ithinta ingane. Cabanga kuphela okuhle!