Bobabili nilindele ukulunga komndeni.
Esikhathini esidlule, kwakukhona izikhathi ezimnandi, izinkinga ezihlangene, ukuzalwa kwezingane zakho. Wayekanye ndawonye ekudabukeni nasenjabulo. Bekunomunye nomunye abantu abasondelene nabathandekayo kakhulu. Ngomunye nomunye babengamahlombe kanye nokusekelwa, babehlale beyazi ukuthi umuntu othandekayo nothandekayo wayekulindele ekhaya.
Kodwa, namuhla konke kuhlukile, umshado wakho ubhujiswe. Yisiphi isizathu sokuhlukana kwakho - ukukhashelwa othandekayo, ukukhwabanisa noma ukudlulisa imizwa - akubalulekile kakhulu. Manje kubalulekile ukuthi ubuyisele ukuthula kwengqondo ngemva kokuhlukanisa. Ungaqala kanjani ukwakha impilo entsha? Singabheka kanjani esikhathini esizayo ngokuqiniseka?
Imiphi imizwa nemizwelo oyizwayo ngemva kokuhlukanisa? Ulahlekelwe ukuzinza kwakho? Ngokuvamile, manje awufuni ukubona noma ukuzwa noma ubani. Wena ufuna kakhulu ukushiywa yedwa ngemicabango yakho. Ukuphonsa esikhathini esedlule futhi nje ube nesihawu futhi ukhale ngezinto ezingeke zenzeke empilweni yakho. Uzifungela zonke amaphutha ozenzile. Uqalekisile umkakho wangaphambili ngokukhohliswa nobuhlungu obukubangele.
Uzithembisa ukuthi uzoziphindiselela; ukuthi akekho omunye ozothembela futhi angavumeli noma ubani enhliziyweni yakhe. Ukuthula kwakho kwengqondo ngemuva kokuhlukanisa kuseduze kokuwa.
Izazi zengqondo ziyabonga ngenxa yocwaningo, zafinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi umuntu osinde isahlukaniso, ungekho ngaphezu kwezinyanga eziyisithupha. Into yokuqala ukuthi isehlukaniso sithinta ukuzihlonipha nokuthula kwengqondo yowesifazane. Kodwa, uze ufunde ukuzithanda ngokwakho uze uvuseleleke - ngeke uqale ukuhlala ngempela.
Buyisa ukuthula kwengqondo emva kwehlukaniso - ingabe kuyiqiniso? Kubalulekile ukuqonda le nkinga ngokuningiliziwe futhi uzame ukuthola indlela yokuphuma kwenkinga.
Into yokuqala okufanele iqondwe yukuthi isimo sakho sokucindezeleka yisenzo esivamile somuntu esimweni esinamandla sokucindezeleka kwengqondo. Ufuna ukukhala nokudabuka - Yiqiniso, ngisho nomuntu ophilayo owazi ukuzizwa nokuzwa.
Ukuze ubuyisele ukuthula kwengqondo ngemuva kwesahlukaniso, kudingeka ulahle umchamo emphefumulweni. Uma ungumama, khona-ke uNkulunkulu usekunikeze injabulo enkulu kakhulu - izingane. Khumbula ukuthi akulula kubo manje: ubaba wabo wabashiya, futhi unina usondelene nokulahlekelwa isifiso sokugcina sokuphila. Ufuna izingane zakho zijabule? Ngakho-ke. Awunawo ilungelo lokucindezeleka - uyabudinga manje. Nika izingane zakho uthando nokukhathalela, ubuhlungu bakho buyophela.
Awuqinisekisiwe yini ngesithembiso sokuthi konke kuzophumelela kahle? Awukwazi ukwamukela ukuthi "konke okwenzelwe kungcono kakhulu"? Eqinisweni, ikhanda lakho liyaqonda ukuthi konke kuyiqiniso. Kodwa inhliziyo iyabuhlungu kangangokuthi ayikwazi ukwamukela iqiniso elinjalo elibuhlungu.
Abangane bayelulekwa ukuthi bathole isoka elisha bese bephonsa emhlabeni othandweni nothando? Kodwa, manje usesimweni ukuthi ngisho nasesibukweni uyesaba ukubheka.
Ungesabi futhi ungabi namahloni ngemizwelo yakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubuwula bekungeke kubonakale kuwe. Ufuna ukukhala? Zinike lona leli thuba, kodwa kuphela usuku olulodwa hhayi phambi kwezingane.
Qonda ukuthi isehlukaniso akusona ukuphela kokuphila. Ukuthula kwakho kwengqondo kuncike enhliziyweni yakho.
Ukusebenza - ukukhipha imicabango emibi, ukuxosha ukukhathazeka nezinkumbulo. Phila okwamanje.
Uma nje usinda esikhathini sokucindezeleka ngemuva kokuhlukaniswa - uzobuyela ekuthuleni kwengqondo, uthuthukise isimo sakho sengqondo, ufuna ukuhlala uphinde ufune injabulo yakho.