Ungakhohlwa kanjani umthandi futhi uphule konke ubuhlobo naye? Cha, angikwazi, angikwazi. Amantombazane amaningi acabanga, obani abazwa imizwa ngesigamu esisodwa-sesibili.
Uyamthanda, kodwa kufanele ukhohlwe. Izizathu zingahluka. Isibonelo, imizwa yakhe ngawe yaphela. Noma mhlawumbe uyaqonda ukuthi akuyona hero yeveli yakho nganoma yisiphi isizathu. Noma useshadile, futhi unqume ukuphula lolu mbuthano ononya, futhi ube oqondile, unxantathu. Futhi mhlawumbe awukwazi ukuba ndawonye ngenxa yezizathu ezithile zamandla angenakuphelelwa amandla. Iqiniso lihlala ukuthi kufanele ulilahle empilweni yakho futhi uphume ekhanda lakho uphinde uqhubeke.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunomunyu, kufanele ukhumbule ukuthi ukuphila akupheli lapho, futhi ukukhanya akuzange kuhlangane nomgqa. Abaningi badlula ukuhlukana okubuhlungu. Njengoba bethi, isikhathi siyaphulukisa. Ngesikhathi sokukhathazeka, kubonakala sengathi awusoze wamkhohlwa, futhi akukho lutho olunganciphisa ukuhlupheka kwakho. Kodwa lokhu akunjalo.
Yiqiniso, ayikho iresiphi enjalo engakusiza ngokuzenzekelayo ekuhluphekeni kwengqondo, kodwa kunezindlela zokunciphisa le nkathi enzima.
Okokuqala, uma lowo owayengumengameli wekhasi lakho, zama ukumxolela ngaphakathi bese umyeka ahambe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kunzima kangakanani. Kuzokwenza ngcono umphefumulo wakho. Zama ukuveza ukuhlukunyezwa nokuhlambalaza ephepheni - bhala incwadi, kodwa ungayithumeli. Kule ncwadi, umlahlwe icala, usitshele ngobuhlungu bakho, bhala ngakho konke okwakungalungile ebuhlotsheni bakho nakuyo.
Hamba ngokuhlukanisa. Uma ufuna ukukhohlwa okwangaphambili, ungakhumbuli ithemba lokuthi uzobuya futhi konke kuyoba njengangaphambili. Ungathumela imizwa futhi ukhale, kodwa hhayi isikhathi eside - ungavumeli ukudabuka nokucindezeleka kukumboze ngekhanda lakho.
Hlukana neyakho yangaphambili. Uma unezinkinga ezithile ezingaxazululwa, zixazulula ngokushesha. Emva kwalokho, ungayeka ukukhuluma naye. Okungenani kuze isilonda sakho esibuhlungu siphulukiswe. Ungambizi noma ubhale kuye. Uma kunzima kuwe ukumelana nalesi silingo, susa oxhumana naye. "Hlala abangane" ngeke kusebenze, okungenani kungakafiki.
Lahla konke okungamkhumbuza: izipho, izithombe, izincwadi nezinto. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuwuphonsa, bese upaka yonke into ebhokisini bese uyifihla ukuze zonke lezi zinto ezincane zingaboni iso lakho futhi ungathathi isilonda sakho.
Ungagqoki izinto ayithandayo, futhi lokho kumkhumbuze ngakho. Zama ukugwema izindawo zakho ozithandayo. Zama ukuxhumana okwesikhashana nabantu abakuhlanganisa nawe noma abakhumbuze ngaye.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungalalani noyedwa, zama ukugwema ukuhlangana naye, shiya umcabango wokuphindiselela futhi ungenzi lutho oluyiphukuphuku. Kungaba nemiphumela emibi kuwe.
Thatha khona endlini, phindaphinda, uphonsa konke okungenakuqhathaniswa. Khulula indawo yakho efulethini lakho nasempilweni yakho. Uma uzizwa ungalungile, ungaqala ukulungiswa.
Shayela abangani bakho bese uhlela imibuthano yakho engokomoya. Geza amatshe ngamadoda. Vumela abangani bakho bakutshele ngokukhululekile ukuthi bacabangani ngawe. Ungadangali nje. Ungaphuza ibhodlela lewayini, kodwa ungadakwa, ngoba umgomo oyinhloko wale nkathi yenkukhu ukuthola ukwesekwa komusa futhi ujabule.
Ungahlali ekhaya, uhambe, uxoxe nabangani, uye emabhayisikobho, uye e-cafe, uye e-rink yokudoba, uye eqenjini, njll. Cabanga ngento yokuzilibazisa. Ekhaya ungathukutheli, wenze izinto ozithandayo, ufunde izincwadi ezinhle, ubukele ama-comedies, udlale imidlalo yekhompyutha, nokunye okunjalo.
Shintsha isithombe. Yenza izinwele ezisha noma ushintshe umbala wezinwele. Hlela ukuthenga, zithengele okuthile okusha ezembathweni nasezicumbini. Yenza imidlalo, okungcono ekuzivocavoca, hhayi ekhaya, tk. Ukuzivocavoca kweqembu kuphumelela kakhulu ekukhuliseni isimo sengqondo. Uhlobo lwezemidlalo alubalulekile, kubalulekile ukuthi nawe ushiye okubi, futhi ukhathele futhi ujabule. Gcizelela umsebenzi noma isifundo. Kuzosiza ukuphazamisa, futhi kungase kube yinkinga yokukhula komsebenzi wakho.
Hlangana nabantu abasha, uxoxe, udlala ngothando, ama-cheerleaders. Akubona bonke abantu abafanayo. Kodwa ungaqhathanisi wonke umuntu owedlule. Uyisigaba esidlulile, futhi endaweni ethile ngaphambi kwakho umuzwa wangempela, into esemqoka akufanele uyilahleke.
Ungaya endaweni ethile ukuphumula. Khetha okuthile ngokuhambisana nezintshisekelo zakho kanye namathuba okubonakala. Ukushintsha isimo kuyoba usizo oluhle.
Uma unomntwana, ukhokhe isikhathi esiningi futhi unakekele. Yiya e-cinema, e-zoo, esekisini, epaki yokuzijabulisa, njll, ukuze uziphazamise futhi ujabule.
Thola okuthile okuhle ekuhlukaneni kwakho, okunjalo, nakanjani, lapho.
Zihlupha ngezindlela eziningi. Thatha ukugeza okuphumuzayo nge-foam kanye namafutha abalulekile, iya ekusikeleni, ubuhle be-salon, njll. Yenza noma ikuphi okukuthandayo, uziphazamise emicabangweni edabukisayo.
Ukulandela lawa macebiso, uzosinda kalula ekuhlukaneni bese ukhohlwa ngokushesha uthando lwangaphambili.
Futhi yini okufanele uyenze, uma lokhu kuwumthwalo kuwe? Ungabhidliza kanjani? Wena, cishe, ufuna konke ukuhamba kahle, ngokuthula futhi uphuthukile, kodwa hhayi ukuthi kuyoba njalo. Kuxhomeke ekuphenduleni komlingani wakho.
Kunezindlela eziningana eziyisisekelo zokwabelana.
Indlela yokuqala ukuqeda ubuhlobo. Khetha umzuzwana ongathathi hlangothi bese uthi into efana nalokhu: "Sashaywa imizwa eqinile, nginesabi. Konke kunamandla kakhulu, okukhanyayo futhi kunzima. Ngidinga isikhathi sokuyihlola. Ake sithathe ikhefu. " Ngemuva kokuthi ikhefu lihle, ungawuqinisa uma nje kuthatha, isibonelo, kuze kube phakade.
Enye indlela ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukuze umlingani uqobo akushiye. Udinga ukuyikhathaza, ukuthole, ukwenza izinto ezincane, uzenze sengathi ulaka lomona, konke kuxhomeke emcabangweni wakho. UMotay isisulu somuntu, umhleka usulu, amthuka, amhlekise ngamakhono akhe okucansi, amcasule ngezenzo zakhe, enze izinto ezimbi, ayenze izinto eziwubuwula, amenze amangaze phambi kwabahlobo bakhe, akhathazeke, abe nezizathu ezihlukahlukene zokuxabana, ayeke ukusebenzisana naye ubulili, njll, kuze kube yilapho indoda ingaphumeleli ukubekezela. Indlela enhle, edinga isikhathi nemicabango.
Ngendlela elandelayo - ukuhlukanisa "ngesiNgisi." Indlela engathembekile, kodwa ephumelelayo. Gwema nganoma iyiphi indlela, ungaphenduli izingcingo zakhe, izincwadi, imilayezo, njll. Uma eseseqedile, mtshele into ethi: "Ngimatasa kakhulu, nginomsebenzi omningi. Ngizokubiza. " Futhi ungabizi. Ngokushesha lo muntu uzoqonda konke. Futhi noma ngabe uthola wena futhi udinga izincazelo, ngeke kube nzima kakhulu, usevele eqonda konke futhi usekulungele kakhulu.
Futhi enye indlela , inzima kunazo zonke, kodwa futhi ihloniphekile, ukusho kahle. Lapha, kungase kudingeke uqinise isibindi, cabanga ngenkulumo. Kungenzeka ukuthi kuyoba nengxoxo enzima, hhayi konke okuyohamba kahle. Kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lapho umuntu ehlisa, uzoqonda ukuthi uphathwa ngendlela efanele futhi amphathe ngenhlonipho.
Manje uyakwazi ukukhohlwa umthandi wakho futhi uphule konke ubuhlobo naye. Uthando futhi uthandeke!