Ungalondoloza kanjani ubuhlobo uma indoda nomfazi bebambisana?

Emsebenzini, uqale i-romance yesevisi, futhi ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa ushadile.
Kodwa impilo yakho yomndeni kanye nobuchwepheshe ishintshile. Kuyinto eyodwa uma ubuya emsebenzini emva kokuhlangana nomuntu othandekayo, omunye lapho umyeni wakho engumngane wakho.

Eqinisweni, akunandaba ukuthi abashadile baphela kanjani ndawonye emsebenzini owodwa - ingumphumela we-romance yesevisi, ibhizinisi lomndeni, noma enye indlela. Lesi simo sinezinzuzo ezithile kanye nokuziqhenya.

Izinzuzo - zingaphansi kakhulu:
- Uhlangothi lomhlangano lokuhlela izindaba zomndeni. Isibonelo, kulula ukufika ekhaya kanye nokusebenza, ukudla kwasemini, ukuhlela ukuthenga, ukuhlela ukukhuliswa kwezingane, ukuhlela imindeni, njll.
- Ukungqubuzana ngokuthi kuhle noma kubi, uma abashadile benomsebenzi owodwa, kungenzeka ukuthi baxazululwe kahle. Kungcono kakhulu. Lapho uthaka luphela, udinga ukusho okuthile. Ngokuyinhloko, ungaxoxa ngomsebenzi, icala, lapho usebenza khona. Ukusebenza ndawonye kwenza kube lula ukuxhumana ngezihloko ezizwakalayo. Ngokuvamile, umphakathi wezithakazelo uqinisa umndeni.

I-Cons - ithola, ikakhulukazi, kulezi zinzuzo:
- Thina ekuphileni kwansuku zonke kaningi asihlanganyeli indima yomphakathi. Okusho ukuthi, sidonsela izinkinga zethu zokusebenza ekhaya, futhi abasebenzi basekhaya basebenza. Ngenxa yalokho, ikhanda liyaqhubeka nokuphatha indlu, uthisha - ukufundisa ekhaya. Uma lo mbhangqwana usebenza ndawonye, ​​lo mngcele uvamise ukususwa, cha, okungenani umzuzu wesikhashana wokuguqulwa kusuka kwisisebenzi kumuntu womndeni. Leli qiniso liqiniswa yiqiniso lokuthi indima yomndeni ayihambisani nesimo emsebenzini. Isibonelo, indlu iqhutshwa owesifazane, futhi emsebenzini uyaphansi komyeni wakhe futhi ngokufanayo. Kuvela ukudideka okunjalo, okukukhuni ukuphuma kuwo.
- Abantu abashadile babonisana ngempela nge-clock. Ngokuvamile, bakhathele omunye nomunye.
- Ngaphezu kwemisebenzi eminingana yomndeni, umsebenzi owodwa obaluleke kakhulu - i-psychotherapeutic - ayikwazi ukuqaphela. Ngokuyinhloko, indoda noma umfazi, lapho bebuyela ekhaya, abakwazi ukuhlanganyela emsebenzini wokuhlukanisa, ukubonisana, ukuthola ukwesekwa, induduzo, ukuvunywa noma ukugxeka.
- Uma kufanele usebenze nabantu emsebenzini, ngokuvamile udinga ukuxhumana ngqo - ukumomotheka, ukuhleka usulu, ukudlala ngothando. Uyazi ukuthi, ngaphandle kokusebenza kochwepheshe, akusho lutho, kodwa phambi kwalabo abashadile lokhu kungabonakala njengokunye okuningi. Phela, akekho oye wakhansela umhawu.
- Kubi nakakhulu uma indoda nomfazi bephansi komunye nomunye. Ukuziphatha komuntu ophakeme nomuntu ongaphansi kungabiza ukusatshalaliswa kwezindima emndenini. Isibonelo, ongaphansi komlingani angeke enze okuthile, enethemba lokuzijabulisa, kodwa empeleni azikho. Futhi kuyinkathazo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ukuthethelela okukhona kukhona, khona-ke ukuphikiswa komuntu ohlangene kuvela, ubona lowo muntu hhayi njengesisebenzi esilinganayo nochwepheshe, kodwa umane nje umfazi ka-boss.
- Kungcono, lapho abashadile besesiteji esifanayo sokukhula kochwepheshe. Uma kukhona ukuncintisana, emncintiswaneni onempilo akukho lutho olungalungile. Kodwa akusiwo wonke umuntu olungele ukuncintisana nomuntu osindayo uthando, ukusekelwa.

Izincomo zamabhangqwana abasebenza ndawonye.
- Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthuthukisa ikhono lokunqamula emsebenzini ngesikhathi samahora angasebenzi. Inikezwa, njengomthetho, ngolwazi nakwabaningi - ngezinkinga ezinkulu.
- Emsebenzini, hamba kancane ngangokunokwenzeka. Uma kufanele usebenze kumaphrojekthi ahlangene, khona-ke udinga ukufunda ukunikeza, funa ukuyekethisa, ngoba, cishe, kuzoba nokuphikisana.
- Kungcono ukuchitha iholide ndawonye. Ngoba ngaleyo ndlela abashadile bangakwazi ukuhlukana emsebenzini futhi bakhumbule ukuthi, okokuqala, umndeni. Kodwa kusihlwa, ngempelasonto kumele kubanjwe ngokwehlukile, babe nezokuzilibazisa, abangane. Lokhu kuzonikeza ithuba lokuphumula komunye nomunye.
- Kukhona njalo okuhlukile, kukhona imibhangqwana eshadile esebenza ngokuphumelelayo ndawonye emsebenzini owodwa futhi bazizwa kahle. - Mhlawumbe, imibhangqwana enjalo imane nje ingacabangi ngaphandle komunye nomunye.

Uma kungekho ndlela yokugwema ama-angles ama-acule, futhi amaminithi wokusebenzisana abe yizinkinga ezinkulu zomndeni, omunye wabashade kudingeka afune omunye umsebenzi. Esimweni lapho kufanele usebenze ndawonye futhi ushintshe umsebenzi akunakwenzeka, kufanele uthintane nesazi sezengqondo. Futhi isinyathelo ngesinyathelo funda ukuvumelanisa nesimo.