Okokuqala , ungakhohlwa ukubonga njalo izingane zakho. Okokuqala, abazali kufanele bakhumbule ukuthi akuzona zonke izingane ezihlakaniphile, ukuthi akubona bonke abangakwazi ukuthola ulwazi nemikhuba emihle "ezindizeni" ngaphandle kokwenza umzamo omkhulu. Kodwa, noma kunjalo, ingane ngayinye inekhwalithi eyingqayizivele eyenza ukuthi abe nekhono futhi ahluke kwabanye. Abazali kufanele bamane banakekele kakhulu ingane yabo, ukuze bathole leyo mfanelo eyingqayizivele, ekuthuthukiseni kwayo, ingane izoba nokuzethemba nokuzimela. Ngokuvamile, into kuphela abazali okufanele bayenze lapho bekhulisa umntwana ukumkhuthaza kuyo yonke imisebenzi yabo kanye nezifiso zabo, bethi konke kuzovela kahle nokuthi abazali bakholelwa kuyo. Uma ingane ihluleka ukuxazulula umsebenzi wakhe wesikole emathematika, khona-ke esikhundleni sokusebenzisa ukumemeza nokugxeka, inikeza usizo nokusiza ekuxazululeni lo msebenzi onzima. Isimo sekhaya esinokuthula ngaphandle kokumemeza kanye nomsindo, kuyokwenza ingane iqiniseke ngamakhono abo kuphela.
Abazali akufanele bakhohlwe ukuthi zonke izingane zizwela kakhulu ukugxekwa, ikakhulukazi uma zizwakala ezindebeni zabantu abangabazi, ngokwesibonelo, kubafundisi noma esikoleni. Uma ubona ukuthi ukuvela esikoleni, i-kid iziphatha ngokungaphephile futhi icasukile, zama ukuthola isizathu salokhu kuziphatha. Uma ngemuva kwengxoxo kuvela ukuthi wahlaselwa ngesikhathi sesifundo sokungaqeqeshi kahle umsebenzi wakhe wesikole noma engafundile okuthile, uchaze ngokucacile ukuthi ngesikhathi esizayo, udinga ukulungiselela ngokucophelela isifundo.
Zama ukudumisa ingane yakho, ngisho nokufaneleka okungenasidingo kakhulu: ukusebenza kahle esikoleni, ukunqoba umncintiswano, ngendaba ehle eyenziwe ngezandla noma ukudweba ekilasini lomsebenzi. Ngezinye izikhathi, ngisho nokudumisa ngokuziphatha okuhle esikoleni noma ekhaya, ukwenza okuthile kumntwana kunenzuzo kakhulu.
Okwesibili , ungalokothi uveze noma ugxile izenzo ezimbi noma izimfanelo ezingekho emntwaneni. Njengoba bonke abantu emhlabeni bengaphelele, ngamunye wethu unalezo zimfanelo, izici nezenzo esingaziqhenya ngazo futhi sizama ukuqeda, kuhlanganise nezingane. Kodwa, noma kunjalo, abazali akufanele bahlale begxila ukunakekelwa kwengane ngezimfanelo zakhe ezimbi, besebenzisa izivalo ezinkulu. Kungenxa yalesi sizathu ukuthi umuntu kufanele azame ukungasebenzisi lemishwana lapho ekhuluma nengane: "uhlala uziphatha kabi," "unomuntu ohlukumezayo," njll.
Ukuphindaphinda njalo izinkulumo ezinjalo engxoxweni yakhe nengane, uyangcolisa ukuzethemba kwakhe, futhi akufanelekile ukukhuluma ngokuzihlonipha, njengoba kuzomane kuqhume. Uma ufuna ukukhombisa ingane yakho ukunganaki kwakho, ngakho-ke kungcono ukusebenzisa ezinye imishwana, isibonelo: "Ngangithukuthele kakhulu namuhla lapho uqala ukungena futhi ungangilaleli."
Okwesithathu , ungakhohlwa ukunikeza izingane zakho inkululeko ekukhethweni nasezenzo zabo. Ngisho nezinye izixazululo ezilula ingane ezithatha eyedwa zingathinta ukuzethemba nokuzihlonipha kwakhe. Akudingekile ukubeka imisebenzi eyinkimbinkimbi ngaphambi kwengane, ngezinye izikhathi kwanele nje ukumnikeza ukuba akhethe isikole afuna ukufunda, noma yiziphi izingubo afuna ukuzigqoka namuhla esikoleni.