Isibonakaliso sokuqala sivame ukunyuka kwezigulane ezincelisayo (cishe iminyaka engu-11 ubudala). Unyaka noma ngaphezulu kamuva, ukuqala kokuya esikhathini kuqala. Ukukhulelwa sekuphela ngokusungulwa komjikelezo ovamile, obikezelayo ukuya esikhathini. Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, intombazane ingase iphazamiseke izinguquko ekubukeni kwayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, intombazane engase isencane ingase ibe nokucabanga mayelana nobuhlobo nabantu abangenakufinyeleleka (isibonelo, abaculi abadumile), abanemifanekiso yabo engabonakali njengokwesabisa njengalabo ababaziyo kobulili obuhlukile. Isikhathi sokubeletha sabantu besifazane kulezibalo siyiminyaka engu-28-36.
Ithonya lombono womphakathi
Amantombazane, ngokungafani nabafana, ancike ngokweqile emasikweni amasiko adinga ukugcina ubumsulwa. Ngokuyinhloko, abazali bakhathazekile kakhulu ngokuqala kokusebenza ngokobulili endodaneni kunendodana. Isizathu salokhu kwesaba sibonakala - intombazane yokuqala, ukuqala kokusebenza ngokocansi kungahle kube ukukhulelwa kokuqala. Ngokwenkolelo ethandwayo, ukubamba iqhaza okubalulekile enkingeni yokukhulelwa kwentsha kwenziwa yabezindaba, okugqugquzela umsebenzi wezocansi, kanye nethonya lontanga.
Idethi yokuqala
Ngokuvamile, isinyathelo sokumema usuku sivela kumfana osemusha. Umhlangano uvame ukukwenzeka ukuze abangane noma ofunda nabo bazi ngakho. Phakathi nemihlangano enjalo imibhangqwana ngezinye izikhathi ihlanganyela emidlalweni yezocansi (yokubamba, ukushaya). Abazali bavame ukubonisa ukuzithokozisa okukhulu uma ukuvakashelwa kusekhaya. Ngokuvamile bayesaba ukutheleleka okungenzeka ngezocansi ezihlukahlukene zocansi, ngakho bazizwa benesizotha, bazi ukuthi abantu abasha basebenzisa ikhondomu.
Ukwabelana ngokocansi
Namuhla, kwabaningi besifazane, inkathi yokuziphatha ngokocansi iqala ubuhlobo obuzinzile nomlingani ovamile. Ukukhethwa okubanzi kwezinqubo zokwelapha zanamuhla kuholele ekutheni ubulili abuhlobene nokuzaliswa kwenzalo. Kodwa-ke, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, abesifazane abaningi abasha bayaqaphela ukuthi uthando kanye nobulili ngaphakathi kohlaka lobuhlobo obuseduze buletha umuzwa okhethekile wokududuza ngokomzwelo. Iningi labantu abangashadile esikhathini sethu singabakwa-age group eminyakeni engaphezu kwengu-25. Abesifazane abaningi bangalesi sikhathi bayazi kahle ukuqhubeka "kwamawashi abo", futhi besaba ukungabi nesikhathi sokuthola umlingani empilweni futhi babe nomntwana.
Ukuzalwa kwezingane
Ukwandisa, imindeni emisha ihlehlisa ukuzalwa kwezingane eminyakeni engama-30-35 ngenxa yokuthi lo wesifazane usebenza emsebenzini. Kodwa-ke, lapho umbhangqwana uthatha isinqumo sokukhulelwa umntwana, uvame ukubhekana nezinkinga ezithile. Ngokusho kochwepheshe, imibhangqwana engaba ngu-20% inenkinga yokukhulelwa. Ngokuvamile, emindenini ebhekene nenkinga yokungabi nabantwana, abalingani ekujuleni kwezinhliziyo zabo bayamangalelwa ngalokhu. Bagwema ukuxhumana nabangane abanezingane, noma bahlushwa izifo zobulili ezicindezelayo ezihambisana nesidingo sokulungisa ukuphila kocansi ngaphansi kwezinsuku ezivuthiwe.
Ukukhulelwa kungaholela ekuguqulweni kokuphila kocansi kowesifazane. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, abanye babo balahlekelwa isithakazelo kwezocansi. Kwezinye izimo, isifiso sobulili sigcinwa kuphela ngezikhathi ezithile zokukhulelwa.
Ukubeletha
Emva kokuzalwa kwengane, abanye besifazane badinga isikhathi sokuphulukisa ukulimala kokubeletha. Ngesikhathi sokuncelisa, kaningi kunciphisa ukukhishwa kwamagciwane, okwenza ubulili bubuhlungu. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, imibhangqwana ethile ikhetha ukushintshela kwezinye izinhlobo zohlelo locansi kuze kube yilapho ubulili obuvamile buba mnandi kubo bobabili abalingani. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isithakazelo sabesifazane emisebenzini yezocansi kungathonywa yizici ezinjengokukhathala noma ukugxila endimeni entsha kumama wakhe. Emindenini lapho kunezingane ezincane, kanti owesifazane usebenza futhi wenza imisebenzi eminingi yasendlini, unesikhathi esincane sokuzinakekela yena nobuhlobo bobulili nomlingani wakhe. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lapho izingane zikhula, imibhangqwana eminingi ibuyela empilweni ephathelene nokulala ngokocansi. Ukuphila ngokobulili okugcwele kuvame ukuba yisiqinisekiso sokuphila isikhathi eside emshadweni. Kujabulisa abalingani, kusiza ukwandisa ukuzethemba, ukunciphisa ukucindezeleka nokunciphisa ukukhathazeka.
Ukuhlanganyela Okuhlangene
Ngokusho kocwaningo, eminyakeni engu-1-2 emva komshado noma ekuqaleni kokuphila okuhlanganyelwe, umbhangqwana osezingeni eliphakathi kweminyaka engu-20 kuya kwengu-30 unesondo izikhathi 2-3 ngesonto. Njengoba uneminyaka yobudala, ubukhulu besenzo socansi buyancipha kancane kancane. Kodwa-ke, naphezu kwenani elincane loxhumana nabo ocansini phakathi kwabashadile, uhlangothi lwekhwalithi lobuhlobo bobulili luyathuthuka. Ukuphakama kobulili kwabesifazane kuza kamuva kunamadoda. Uhlangabezana nesibalo esikhulu kakhulu se-orgasms eneminyaka engu-35-45. Lokhu kungenzeka ngenxa yokuthi owesifazane udinga isikhathi 'sokufunda' ukuzwa i-orgasm, nokufika ekuzweleni kokuzinza kokuphila kwakhe ngokocansi nobuhlobo bakhe bomuntu siqu. Ukukhanga ngokocansi kowesifazane akuxhunyiwe kuphela ngomsebenzi wokubeletha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isimiso somuntu wesimo socansi asisho kuphela ukukhiqizwa kwezinzalo, kodwa futhi ukujabulela ukulala ngokobulili. Isibonelo, umsebenzi owodwa we-clitoris yisizukulwane sokuzijabulisa ngokocansi. Ngisho nobudlelwano obude nomlingani, owesifazane akanamathuba amancane okuqala ukuxhumana kocansi kunomuntu. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, ngakho-ke, njengombuso, ngesimo se-cloth eveziwe: isibonelo, ukugqoka izingubo zangaphansi "ezikhethekile" ebusuku, unikeza lo mlingani ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi ukunakwa kwakhe ngeke kunqatshwe kancane kancane. Izimpawu zokusondela esikhathini sokuya esikhathini, ikakhulukazi i-vaginitis (eboniswa ukoma kwe-mucosa yangasese, futhi ngezinye izikhathi - ukuphuma kwegciwane lesisindo sangasese) nokunciphisa izindonga zesifazane kungabangela ukungathandeki ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi. Ezimweni eziningi, i-hormone replacement therapy (HRT) isiza ukususa lezo zibonakaliso. Imibhangqwana eminingi endala iyaqhubeka ijabulela ukusondelana. Abesifazane abangayeki ukuphila kwabo ngokocansi eminyakeni engama-60-70 nangemva kwalokho, phawula ukuthi ubulili kule minyaka abulethe injabulo encane kunanoma yimuphi omunye. Kodwa-ke, phakathi nalesi sikhathi kungase kube nezinkinga ezithile ezihambisana namakhono okukhubazeka emadodeni - isibonelo, ukungasebenzi kwamagciwane, okuthinta ukwakhiwa.