Akukho ukuphelela emhlabeni. Ikakhulukazi ezweni labantu. Wonke umuntu wenza amaphutha, ikakhulukazi amadoda - lokhu kufanele kuqondwe. Indlela yokuqonda uma indoda emva kocansi inganikeli usuku lwesibili? Mhlawumbe ucabanga ngale ndlela. Ngempela, kungaba kanjani enye uma uhlangana ebusuku kusiklabhu, endaweni yokudlela, emcimbini nabangani. Ulandela le mbono - kungcono ukungazi kahle kwe-sutra kunobusuku kuphela. Isikhathi esihle kakhulu, noma ebusuku. Kuye kwaba nesicindezelo esingokomzwelo emva kwemisebenzi nsuku zonke, uye wazizwa isikhalazo nokuthi usakwazi ukuphula umfana ekuqaleni kokubona. Wayazi ukuthi lokhu ngeke kuholele kunoma yini engathà sina, kodwa njengoba kwenzeka, awukwazi ukuphunyuka ezifisweni ezingenasidingo. Njalo intombazane ifuna ukuzizwa ivikelwe, kuyadingeka. Isifiso sokuthi uhlala ngokungazelelwe ngolunye usuku, noma izingcingo, akushiyi ubusuku bonke. Futhi ekugcineni - uqoqa izinto, amaqabunga futhi akasho ngisho "Ngizokubona futhi!". Kuthiwani uma lo muntu enganikeli usuku lwesibili emva kocansi? Shiya lezi zinkinga zobuntwana bese uqonda, ubulili obungavamile abukho into engathà sina.
Kodwa nokho, uma ucabanga ukuthi kwakungeyona injabulo ngobunye ubusuku, bese uhlangana ndawonye! Qiniseka! Uma lo mfana engashiyanga noma yiluphi ulwazi ngaye, zama ukumthola, ubuze nabangani, abangakwazi ukuthi ungubani nokuthi kuphi. Vakashela futhi, isikhungo lapho uhlangana khona, mhlawumbe uhlale khona. Futhi uma umbona futhi, ungadideki, weza ngokumomotheka, uthi u-hello, mhlawumbe ingxoxo izoqala, uzokukhumbula futhi uzoba nesithakazelo ngosuku lwesibili. Uma ungaboni noma yiziphi izenzo eziphumelelayo kuye, hamba ngaphezu kokuziqhenya kwakho bese uzama ukumemema ukuthi akuphinde akubone. Ngokungazelelwe ubudlelwane buyokhula, noma, okungenani, kuyoba nomfakisicelo oqinisekisiwe wezinhlangano endaweni engathathi hlangothi. Kunoma yikuphi, yenza lesi simo sibe nenzuzo kuwe.
Kungenye indaba uma unomshado. Futhi njengalokhu kungaba uthando, nazo zonke lezi zikhathi ze-candy-bouquet. Awufuni ukusheshisa, ngakho-ke uhlehlisa isikhathi somngane wakho obuseduze, ufuna lokhu kwenzeke ngendlela ekhethekile. Mhlawumbe, kuzolinganiswa nenyanga yobudlelwane bakho, kweholide ethile, noma mhlawumbe kuyoba ngcono kakhulu kusihlwa esihle. Kunoma yikuphi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ulindeleke kanjani, konke kulindeleke ukuthi yonke into ibe yinkinga futhi izokwenza kuphela ubuhlobo bakho. Futhi ngenxa yalokho, indoda yakho emva kocansi ayinikezi ngisho nosuku lwesibili. Lokhu kufanele kuqondwe kanjani? Awu, yini okufanele uyenze. Bonke abantu bafuna kusuka kumantombazane amahle kuphela, futhi ngabe uthanda leli qiniso noma cha, liyibhizinisi lakho. Mhlawumbe wayekanye nawe, ngoba wamheha futhi wayefuna, noma kunjalo, kwakuyihlambalaza nokuziphatha kabi ngokobulili. Akukho okumele kwenziwe, kuzodingeka ngiwamukele.
Kodwa kuthiwani uma engakhange anikele ngosuku lwesibili emva kocansi, ngoba wawungafanele kahle embhedeni? Futhi ungathola kanjani? Zama ukuxhumana nomfana ngocingo, ukuhlangabezana nokukhuluma. Xoxa naye ngesenzo sakhe. Uma usaqonda isizathu salokhu, zama ukumtshela ukuthi usengumuntu onjalo futhi onamandla kakhulu, ngenxa yokungakwazi umlingani wakho embhedeni, wayengazi ukuthi ungenza kanjani kangcono naye. Zama ukuhlela omunye umhlangano futhi ubonise umfana olele embhedeni ungumdwebi futhi ungammangaza, khona-ke ngeke uqaphele ukuthi uzofisa kanjani imihlangano. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukulungiselela kusengaphambili. Emva kwakho konke, kubonakala sengathi akekho ofuna ukubonakala enganelisi okwesibili. Khumbula ukuthi uzothola njalo usizo kumamaki wabesifazane kanye namawebhusayithi lapho ungafunda khona, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nasezithombeni ukubona indlela yokuziphatha kangcono. Futhi ungakhohlwa ngokufaneleka komzimba we-pelvic, ngokuqeqeshwa okuhle kwemisipha ye-pelvic, ukuzwa okuthuthukako ngesikhathi socansi, kokubili wena nomngane wakho, qiniseka-uyakwazisa.
Futhi kuthiwani uma lo muntu ngemuva kocansi enganikeli usuku lwesibili, futhi lo muntu ungumngani wakho? Uma kuvele ukuthi ngesimo esivunguvungu sokuzizwa kahle, ngesikhathi sokuphumula emphakathini oqoqayo nabangane abaqondakalayo ngaphandle kokuphuza utshwala, kwenzeka ukuthi wena nomngani wakho ulele. Isimo esincane esingakhululekile siphume. Futhi wena, njengalokhu njalo emvelo wakho wesifazane, qala ukucabanga ukuthi lokhu kusho okuthile. Futhi mhlawumbe uyangithanda mina nakho konke akuzange kwenzeke nje, nje ukucabangela, akakwazanga ukuphikelela, ngezinto ezifana nemicabango oshaya ikhanda lakho. Futhi, mhlawumbe, ucabanga ukuthi lesi sigameko asizange sithinte ubudlelwano bakho obuseduze. Futhi uqala ukuziphatheka njengokungathi akukho okwenzekile, noma ngisho nokunyamalala okwesikhashana. Lokhu kuziphatha kukucindezela emicabangweni ejulile, kungani enganikeli usuku lwesibili emva kocansi lwakho. Cast eceleni eceleni naivete bese wenza. Zama ukudlala ngothando nomngane, uma kunjalo kumnandi kuwe, ukudubula ngamehlo, njenganoma iyiphi intombazane engayenza. Vumelana nomhlangano, futhi kungani kungenjalo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, wena kuqala uhlale ungabangane, lokho phakathi kwakho noma kungabi khona. Mhlawumbe uzama ukuxoxa naye okwenzekile futhi uthole ukuthi ukhuluma kanjani nalokhu, ngoba ngeke usaphazamise ubungane, kodwa ngokuzumayo wayesaba imiphumela emibi futhi ngenxa yalesi sizathu wayelele phansi. Uma kunjalo, memeze ukuthi kulokhu awuboni lutho olungalungile. Mhlawumbe uzovuma ngokuzama ukwakha ubuhlobo, mhlawumbe yilokho ongakudingi. Kungenzeka futhi ngakho konke kuzophuma kuhlakaniphile futhi uzoba nobuhlobo obuhle kakhulu. Futhi uma lokhu kungasebenzi, manje ungathuthela ezingeni elihlukile lobuhlobo, okungukuthi, ubungane. Futhi kungani ungaba abangane bokulala, ungasiza umngane nezidingo zomzimba, ngenkathi wenza kahle futhi uqobo.
Kunoma yikuphi, noma ngabe isimo sakho asenzeki, khumbula ukuthi akusibo abakhetha thina, kodwa thina. Ngakho-ke, iphuzu ekuthuthukiseni izenzakalo ngemuva kocansi kubeka wena kuphela.