Wonke umuntu obopha izibopho zomshado amaphupho omshado ojabulisayo. Awu, uma ungakwazi ukubikezela ukuthi impilo yomndeni izokhula kanjani. Futhi kuphi ukuthola umndeni wenjabulo yomndeni? Ngeshwa, ngezinye izikhathi siyaqaphela ukuthi singase senze ngokuhlukile. Ngakho-ke, yini edingekayo ukwakha umndeni oqinile nojabulisayo:
Okokuqala, lokhu kukhulumisana njalo. Konke ibhizinisi, umsebenzi, izingane, ukukhathazeka, ukwesaba. Kodwa lapho izingane sezilele, sebenzisa isikhathi esiningi endaweni ekhululekile, enobungane (ingxoxo yefilimu, incwadi, umdlalo). Izazi zengqondo zincoma ndawonye ukuya emisebenzini yokuzijabulisa: imibhangqwana ejabulisayo ndawonye, ihlala iminyaka eminingi.
Qinisekisa ukuthola ukuthi uyathandwa. I-Aromovanna, ukuphunga umzimba, ukuhlangana nomngane ngenkomishi yekhofi endlini yekhofi eyakhelene nayo - konke lokho kuyi-emitters yemizwelo emihle, ukuthola izinjabulo empilweni yakho, futhi, ngokufanele, ukuze kuzuze i-conjugal.
Ukusekelana ngokuphishekela imigomo evamile kanye nempilo yakho - umndeni ojabulayo ozoba njalo kuwe.
Okuningi cabanga ngokufaneleka komlingani wakho. Esikhundleni sokuzibeka phezu kweziphambeko, cabanga ngokuphindaphindiwe mayelana nemfanelo yayo. Futhi uzothola injabulo eyengeziwe ekukhulumisaneni nomngane wakho womshado.
Kubalulekile ukuziphatha njengokungathi uthanda. Ngisho noma ukhathele kakhulu, zenzele ukumomotheka futhi impilo izokhanya. Ukuya ekhaya kumkhanda umyeni wakho (ngisho noma ubingelwa yizintaba zezitsha ezingavundiwe) futhi impilo yakho izogcwala imisebe yothando entsha.
Ungalokothi ubhekisele kumyeni wakho ngemibono yomphathi. Yenza izindleko ezincane wena, nezinkulu, zama ukubonisana nomyeni wakho futhi uhlanganise nabantwana asebekhulile kumabhajethi womndeni, uchaza ukuthi unakho imali nokuthi yini ongayithenga.
Ungalokothi unqabe umyeni ngokusondelana, futhi futhi uqhubeke umjezisa ngale ndlela. Ukuze angakhononda kamuva ukuthi ufuna okuthile ohlangothini. Kumfazi oqonda umyeni kulo mbuzo, angeze kube khona izinkinga nomlingani wakho!
Lawula ubudlelwano nabazali. Mema izivakashi, vakashela, nisize - kodwa ungabavumeli ezindabeni zabo, bangahlanganyeli izimfihlakalo eziyimfihlakalo, ungakhathazeki. Zama ukuphatha abazali bakho ngokufanayo, kokubili ngokwakho nangomyeni wakho.
Into eyinhloko, yamukela umyeni wakho njengoba ukhona, funda ukubekezelela nokuthethelela amaphutha omunye nomunye. Isimo somndeni wenjabulo, ikakhulukazi sincike kowesifazane, ngekhono lakhe nokukhalipha, ngobuqili nangengqondo. Futhi abaningi bangase bacabange: "Kungani owesifazane kufanele abekezelele futhi asungulwe? Kuphela ngoba kungowesifazane, umdali womndeni wenjabulo, futhi lokhu hhayi isono futhi uzosebenza. Kusobala ukuthi ikusasa ngezinye izikhathi lixhuma abantu abahluke ngokuphelele. Ukuzama ukuxubana ngomunye nomunye, kufanele sikhuthazelele ukukhathazeka okuningi, izingxabano, izingxabano kanye nokubekezela kanye nenhlonipho ejulile kulabo abasondelene nokuthola ukuyekethisa kanye nezinqumo ezifanele, ukuze bangaqedi umkhosi womndeni ngisho nomlilo oqine kakhulu wothando.
Injabulo yomndeni ayikho, lapho abantu bekhathala khona lokuthi baqoqa izikhalazo. Ngenxa yezingxabano, sizisola ngokwethu, sinezela umlilo emlilweni, imizwa yethu, sikhumbula izono ezedlule. Ukwenza izinqumo zokuthethelela, kubalulekile ukufunda, ukwenza ngobuqotho, ngaphandle kokubuyela esikhathini esidlule. Uma kungenjalo, ngeke usinde umthwalo wezikhalazo kanye nezicelo, futhi izingxabano zakho nokuphikisana emndenini ngeke kuphele. Futhi-ke impilo yakho yomndeni iyophendukela irekhodi elidala nge-motif efanayo, okuyinto ngelinye ilanga elizofuna ukushintsha kuze kube phakade. Akusizi ngalutho ukuthi izazi zengqondo zeluleka abashadile, ungahambi nokho ngaphandle kokubuyisana.