Yini engabangela ukuphelelisa abesifazane

Ngokwemvelo yowesifazane, isifiso sokuphelela sinokwemvelo ukuthi noma ngubani omele abathintekayo ocansini angathola kuye amagciwane okuphelela.

Ngakho-ke, ake sibone ukuthi yini eholela ekuqaliseni abesifazane.

Cishe zonke izintombi zinezinga elithile lokubukeka, ekuphambanweni okulungele ukuhamba ngokuphuthumayo, vakashela i-beautician noma ugijime esitolo sesitayela ukuze ubuyekeze ikhabethe elidlule. Njengoba esengumfana osemusha, le ntombazane izitshela isithombe somyeni ofanelekayo. Noma yimuphi umama womndeni eshaweni ufuna umndeni ukuba umbheke njengenkosikazi engathandeki. Wonke umama ufuna ukuziqhenya ngempumelelo yengane yakhe. Iwesifazane wamabhizinisi wanamuhla ngeke avumele ukushiya emsebenzini futhi ngeke amvumele ukuthi angaphansi kokusebenza ngemikhono yakhe. Konke lokhu kuyimvelo ukuthi ekuboneni kokuqala, akukho okubi okubonakalayo, okungaholela ekufezeni okuphelele kwebesifazane.

Kodwa-ke, uma ibha efakwe liphakeme kakhulu kangangokuthi i-voltage eqhubekayo iyadingeka ukuyifinyelela, izinkinga ezinkulu zingase zivele.

Abezindaba bahlale bebonisa izithombe zamantombazane amahle anesimo esihle , isikhumba se-velvety nezinwele eziluhlaza. Zizungezwe izinto ezifashini, izimoto ezihloniphekile nabantu abasha abacebile. Ngentombazane ehlala Khrushchevka nonina, ulwa nokulwa okungalingani nama-pimples bese eya eyunivesithi emgwaqweni, into ekhona engekho ukuvumelanisa kwesimo sakhe nobude bemilenze yakhe. Uhlala ezidlweni ezingakholeki futhi ubala ikhalori ngayinye - ngakho uqala i-anorexia nervosa ...

Intombazane enhle nehlakaniphile icabanga ukuthi okhethiweyo wakhe kufanele abe yindoda ekahle. Kodwa ngesizathu esithile, usevele engaphezu kuka-30, futhi isikhulu esisekhaya sakhe asibonanga ...

Ungumsizi womhlekazi. Kukhona njalo umyalelo endlini yakhe, zonke izinto endaweni yakhe, awukwazi ukuthola udoti oluthuli. Esikhathini sakusihlwa sakusihlwa, kodwa ngesizathu esithile umndeni awuphuthumanga ukubuyela kule ndlu, okufanayo noma kumamyuziyamu noma emakolishi ...

Umama uvuselela indodana yakhe njalo, ukuthi kufanele ahlakaniphe, afunde kangcono futhi ahlale eqhubeka. Futhi okwesikhashana kuyiqiniso ngempela, kodwa iminyaka yokuguquka iza, futhi ingane iya kuzo zonke izikhathi ezinzima. Abazali abazi ukuthi yini eyayiholela ingane yabo ibe inkampani embi ...

Umama ukhulisa indodakazi yakhe njengendodakazi enhle, elalelayo, ehlanzekile, ekhuthele. Yena kusukela ebuntwaneni ubamba isifiso sokuba uphelele, futhi manje ukudluliselwa kokuphelela kwabesifazane kuyadluliselwa ngempumelelo kwisizukulwane esilandelayo ...

Intombazane eyaphumelela eyunivesithi ene-diploma ebomvu, iqala umsebenzi wayo. Uhlala efuna ukufeza umsebenzi owawunikezwa ngamaphesenti angamakhulu, kepha ngenxa yesizathu esithile kukhona njalo ukungabi nesikhathi. Uhlala ephuzile, uthatha umsebenzi ngempelasonto, akanaso isikhathi sokukhululeka - ngokuvamile abe yizigqila ...

Owesifazane ohlala emhlalaphansi iminyaka eminingana manje usebambe isikhundla sekhanda lomnyango ebhizinisini elikhulu. Ukuphathwa kuyakwazisa, kepha kuphila ngokucindezeleka okuqhubekayo - ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, abaphathi abangakwazi ukufeza umsebenzi ozimele. Kufanele uqedele konke ngokwakho, ngezinye izikhathi kudingeka uphinde uzifihle amaphutha amaphutha. Indlu iyinkimbinkimbi, ukudla okuvela emikhiqizweni engapheli, futhi umyeni wami ubonakala ethola enye. Uma ethatha umhlalaphansi, ngeke akwazi ukugwema ukucindezeleka ...

Izindaba ezinjalo ezidabukisayo zingatshelwa ezingenakubalwa, futhi zonke ziqinisekisa ukuthi ukuphelelisa abesifazane akuyona ingozi, kanti kwezinye izimo kungabangela ukukhathazeka okukhulu kwengqondo, ikusasa labesifazane libukeka futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, izingane.

Zama ukuzithandayo ngalokho oyikho, uzizwe uzizethemba, unike abanye abantu ilungelo lokwenza iphutha - futhi ukuphelela okuphelele ngeke kube kubi kuwe!