Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubani ongasho, iminyaka engamashumi amathathu yindawo elandelayo ekuphileni kwethu. Yiqiniso, sinezinhlobonhlobo zomngcele ohlukile, futhi sijwayele ukuhlangana nazo zihlomile, kodwa namanje ... Ngalolu suku, kumele usuvele ufike ngemithwalo etholakalayo. Futhi kulo mthwalo akumele kube yizo zonke izinto ezidingekayo ekuphileni nokuba, kodwa futhi ...
Injongo
Ekuboneni kuqala, kubonakala sengathi, kahle, yini engase ibe lula kunokuba nje ufune? Futhi cha! Isibonelo, omunye uvele ushayela imoto ngephupho, bathi, akusekho amandla okuhamba ezokuthutha zomphakathi. Isizathu - isimo sengqondo esibucayi noma into enjalo. Yiqiniso, bambalwa kakhulu abantu (ngisho nenkosikazi yephupho elinikeziwe) bakholelwa ukuthi lesi sifiso singasheshe siphumelele esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Ngoba umbuzo olula wohlu lwemoto oyibona emaphupheni akho, uzwakala imphendvulo "edaka" futhi engaqondakali: "Kulungile, lokhu ... kuhle ... Ungabomvu!". I-Strange njengoba izwakala, kodwa imigomo yethu kanye nemicabango yakho yizinto ezimbili ezihluke ngokuphelele. Ngakho-ke uma i-fantasy yakho ichazwe ngokuningiliziwe, uzozicabangela kanjani ukubukeka kwayo, uphonse engqondweni, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, uhlelo lwebhizinisi olulotshiwe, amaphuzu ayo ngokuqinisekile azosiza ukuletha iphutha lobugebengu eduze, ngakho-ke ukuzamazama okunzima okunjengokuthi "umgomo - umgomo - ukunqoba" izinkinga.
Abangane
Akukona nje isikhathi esidlule uhlu lwabangani bekungumthompiki. Abangani abangcono kakhulu abavela etafuleni lesikole, ababili abavela esikhungweni, omunye ovela enkulisa, oyedwa ovela egcekeni nomunye owaziwa ngandlela-thile kunethiwekhi ethile yezenhlalo ... Futhi lokhu akulona lonke uhlu lwamantombazane angase abe nesibindi sokudluliselwa uhlu "Abangane bami abakhulu". Kodwa iminyaka yadlula futhi kwaba ukuthi omunye wabo akayena "umoya wobuhlobo", omunye umuntu umane nje akusebenzisa wena ukuze uthole "i-waistcoat yezinyembezi" ezintsha, umuntu omane ngemuva komhlane wakhe uhleba ngokuhlekisa ngesithombe sakho sokuphila, ukuthukuthela ngemuva kwakhe, futhi othile uthanda ukubuyisa izindaba zakho "ezishashayo" ngakwesobunxele nakwesokudla, ngisho nakwabo abangazitholi, njalonjalo. "Isivivinyo sesikhathi," njengomthetho, asigcinwe yilokho, bese kuthi omunye umngane. Ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye, ngenkathi sineminyaka engamashumi amathathu asizange sihlakaniphe kuphela, kodwa, ngeshwa, sibekezelele futhi sinzima kakhulu. Ukuhlakanipha kwethu kwezwe, ngenkathi kusekude, kusalokhu kukhanyela esimweni sokulinda, ukubukela ingoma yase swan engama maximalism yentsha. Ngakho-ke, eminyakeni engamashumi amathathu yabangane bangempela kusadingeka ukuba futhi futhi, ngendlela, kumelwe ukuthi kakade ibonakaliswe "ngezinyosi"!
Uthando
Akudingekile ukuthi uthando lwanamuhla. Kule ndima, eyangaphambili nayo ingahamba. Iphuzu eliphelele ukuthi uma ungakaze uthande noma ubani ngaphambi kokuba uneminyaka engamashumi amathathu, khona-ke kungenzeka ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze lesi sibi sizokwenzeka, sehla ngokushesha. Ngakho-ke, uma kuze kube manje uye waba matasa ukukhulisa amakhono noma ukuzifunela (ngamunye unezizathu zayo) - yisikhathi sokulahla wonke amacala ebhokisini elikude bese uthanda. Ungakwazi ngisho ngaphandle kokuphindaphindiwe.
Futhi iphuzu lonke ukuthi umuzwa onjengothando othandekayo awukwazi ukungajabuli! Umuntu angajabuli nje kuphela, bese-ke, uma ethanda kanjalo. Futhi uthando akuyona into engaphezu komzwelo omuhle ongenayo amalungelo.
Into entandokazi
Kumele kube njalo! Uma ungenayo intandokazi, khona-ke lapha umbuzo uphakama: "Ubungeke ube nomsebenzi oyintandokazi nhlobo, uke wakwazi ukuphila ngokuvumelana ne-tridtsatnik?". Ukwesaba ukuzivivinya umzimba, okokuqala, kuphazamisa ukunganeliseki nokukhathazeka.
Ngendlela, akukhathaleki noma ngabe indaba yakho ethandekayo ihambisana nomsebenzi wakho noma umsebenzi wakho. Ukwazi wonke ama-nastarenkih, ama-grandmother's spokes, angakwazi futhi awukhululekile, ngoba into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthokozisa kuwo, futhi uma ufuna ukuzilibazisa ozithandayo, futhi ngisho nokunikeza imali, kufaka phakathi iholide, khona-ke uqinisekile kakhulu!
Izifiso eziphilile
Ngamatshumi amathathu, kumele sesivele sikwazi ukunikeza ukuhlolwa okuhle. Yazi wonke amandla akho nobuthakathaka futhi uqonde ngokucacile ukuthi yini kulo mpilo esingayifinyelela, futhi yini engekho. Ngakho-ke ungashintshanisi izintambo, kufanele uhambe uphinde ufinyelele esiphezulu. Kodwa isilulumagama esicebile nokuzihlonipha, okuyinto kule minyaka eqoqiwe, iyoba usizo olukhulu ekulwa nazo zonke izithiyo.
Ukwabelana ngokocansi
Kungase kungabi ngisho nesivunguvungu, kodwa namanje. Ukungabi nalutho nokuhlanzeka - lokhu kuyamangalisa, kodwa manje sekude kakhulu nesikhathi lapho konke kuphumelele khona. Ukulinda isikhulu ibhizinisi elithakazelisayo, kodwa ngenkathi ulindile, kungani ungazami abantu abalula. Okungenani ukuze bahlangabezane nephupho labo elihlomile ngokugcwele. Yebo, futhi kuyoba kuhle kakhulu ukubhekana nobudala obunjalo okungenani i-orgasm yangempela. Futhi hhayi ngokuziqhenya okuziqhenyayo, kodwa ngomuntu. Yebo, ukuqonda ukuthi kungani kunomsindo omkhulu kangaka kulokhu.
Isikhathi sokuziqhenya
Kodwa ungadideki nokuqhosha - kuhambisana nenhlonipho. Ngemuva kwalokho, ngamunye wethu wayenezinqola zakhe siqu. Kumuntu kungaba kuhle, kepha kubaluleke kakhulu kithi. Futhi akufanele sikhohlwe ngabo, ikakhulu uma behlambalaza ngento ethile. Yiqiniso, udinga ukugxeka, kodwa noma kunjalo, uzovuma, ukufudumala komphefumulo womcabango wokuthi kuwe, ngisho nakwezinye izinto, kodwa kukhona into okufanele uziqhenye ngayo: Ngisindise leso sikhumba ngokubanda ekhaya!
Imikhuba emibi
Yiqiniso, kungcono lapha uma kungumkhuba owodwa futhi ngeke kubangele ukulimala kakhulu empilweni. Kodwa konke okufanayo, makube khona! Vusezela ngoba imikhuba emibi engagcizelela kakhulu ukuziphatha kwethu.
Vele ungapheli ngokushesha, ubhekisela kulawa magama, ukubhema ipakethe yegwayi noma ukufaka ucezu olukhulu lwekhekhe ngaphakathi kwakho - ngeke kube kuhle kuwe!
Umsebenzi omuhle
Bathi izenzo ezinhle azikwazi ukudumile. Ngokusemthethweni, kodwa ngani? Ukuqashelwa komphakathi kanye nodumo akudlala indima lapha. Kuyadingeka (futhi hhayi ngobuningi besikhathi esisodwa) ukwenza okuthile okuhle kumuntu. Indlela yokukhuluma: Njengawo! ".
Ukuqiniseka
Leli yiyona nto ebaluleke kakhulu futhi iphuzu eliyinhloko, ngoba akukho ithemba, njengoba bethi, "futhi impilo ayiyinto enhle". Akungabazeki ukuthi kuleli zwe kukhona owesifazane, owake wahlala iminyaka emithathu, engakaze azwe ubuhlungu, intukuthelo, ukuhlambalaza, ukulahlekelwa, ukuphelelwa ithemba ekuphileni ... Lolu hlu, ngeshwa, luyakwazi ukuqhubeka isikhathi eside kakhulu. Into engathandeki, lokhu kuphila. Kodwa yena kanye ne-netakaya nabo bayakhohlisa, uma isidalwa sesikhathi esizayo-sokulwa nezikhali zakhe siqu. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu isikhali sekusasa kuyinto umuzwa wokuhlekisa! Ngakho manje sondela iziphetho.
Futhi noma kunjalo, uma ungenalo umuzwa wokuhlekisa nokulindela uneminyaka engamashumi amathathu, uhlose kanjani ukuhlala uphinde uhlangabezane nenkolo yobuqotho? Kodwa uma ungasazi lokhu, eminyakeni engamashumi amane ukuphila, njengokubusa, kuqale nje!