Amanye amadoda abuye akhale lapho ecabanga ukuthi owesifazane, lowo othanda kakhulu, ufuna ukuyeka. Abesifazane bathuthukisa intuition, kodwa amadoda nawo anomqondo wokuthi ngezinye izikhathi asicabangi ukuthi sinakho. Ubani ovela kwabesifazane ocabanga okungenani kanye, kodwa lo muntu uzokwenqabela kanjani? Ngabe angaphila ngaphandle kwethu? Uyothola yini owesifazane wakhe wesikhathi esizayo, noma uzohlala ekhaya futhi aphuphe uthando olulahlekile?
Amadoda abona kakhulu ukuthi ukunakekelwa kwabathandekayo babo, futhi ngokungajwayelekile bayakwazi ukuyibuka ngokuthula lapho bebona labo ababekudala. Ngokuvamile kunalokho, abazi ukuthi bangasabela kanjani ngokufaneleko kwabesifazane babo abathandekayo kodwa abathandekayo. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, abesifazane kulo mzuzu bacabanga ukuthi amadoda asabela kanjani uma ebonakala? Futhi lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ngezinye izikhathi, lapho owesifazane ethemba ukuyibuyisela, uma engatholi ukhetho oluzayo.
Ekuphileni kwethu kuvame ukuba khona ukuthi amadoda aphethe ama-mistresses, okwamanje, akekho owaziyo noma abangane bakhe kuphela abazi ukuthi ngubani oxhumana naye njalo. Kodwa emva kwesikhashana bahlukana, baziyeka noma yizikhumbuzo ezimnandi, noma hhayi kakhulu. Futhi-ke amadoda azi ukuthi kufanele asabele kanjani lapho ebona inkosikazi yangaphambili.
Kube khona amacala amaningi alawo mhlangano. Omunye kufanele akhumbule lapha, kodwa kubuhlungu kakhulu. Ngelinye ilanga indoda yafika emcimbini, umngane wakhe ahlela. Kwakuhle kakhulu futhi kumnandi, waze wahlangana noHelen, owake waphonsa. Amehlo abo awela futhi njengokungathi umuzwa omdala, okhohliwe waphuma. Akekho owayekulindele lokhu. Ngemuva kwesigamu sehora boba bobabili base behambe, kwathi ekuseni abomakhelwane babona ukuthi bahamba kanjani endlini yakhe. Kwabonakala sengathi uthando oludlule aluzange luhambe. Wajabula futhi akafuni ukuhlukanisa naye. Ekugcineni, bashada futhi bayajabula. Kodwa ukuphela okunjalo okujabulisayo kuhle kuphela kumacala ngabanye, kodwa empeleni kungenakwenzeka ukuthi uCinderella uthola isikhulu sakhe.
Ngakho amadoda asabela kanjani lapho ebona inkosikazi yangaphambili? Akekho ozokutshela lokhu, kodwa uyaziwa ukuthi uma ubuhlobo babo buhle futhi buhle, uyombuka ngenhliziyo echotshozayo. Kungase kungabi isikhathi eside, kodwa.
Uma sicabanga ngendlela amadoda asabela ngayo esimweni esinjalo, kufanele sicindezele imicabango, futhi yibuphi ubudlelwano ababenabo empeleni. Ngezinye izikhathi kulula ngabo ukukhuthazelela imihlangano enjalo, futhi kunezimo ezinzima kakhulu. Lokhu kuboniswa ngokucacile yizimbhangqwana ezilandelayo, nakuba zangaphambili.
Ngenye ihlobo indoda enomthandi wakhe omusha weza esitolo ukuthenga into entsha kumfazi wakhe omusha. Bonke abasebenzi babone indlela amkhathalela ngayo, wamanga ngaso sonke isinyathelo futhi wanxusa. Kwabonakala sengathi kungaba mnandi kunabo ubuhlobo babo, kodwa ... Awukho noyedwa wabo owayecabanga ukuthi inkosikazi yakhe yangaphambili yayiseduze futhi yabheka ngenhliziyo ephuzayo. Wayebuhlungu kakhulu, futhi wayefuna ukumbonisa ukuthi ujabule. Kodwa njengoba izazi zengqondo zicabangela, kungumbukiso nje. Lokhu wayefuna ukukhombisa ukuthi uthole intandokazi yakhe entsha. Ngakho-ke, udinga ukufunda ukufunda phakathi kwemigqa yabasha, ukucabanga ukuthi benzani, empeleni kubaluleke kakhulu. Ubuza, amadoda asabela kanjani ezimweni ezinjalo? Yebo, ngezindlela ezahlukene, okungalindelekile neze. Hlola njalo amehlo abo ngokucophelela ukuthola ukuthi yini ekhanda labo. Amehlo - lokhu yisibuko somphefumulo, yibo abazokutshela indlela yokuziphatha kulokhu. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi amadoda asengozini njengoba ukhona.