Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi ukukhona kwamadoda wangempela kuqala ngesikhatsi sokukhukhumeza. Kodwa akusikho, bebehlala njalo. Zikhona yini amadoda angempela manje? Yebo! Kodwa babukeka behluke ngokuphelele kunendoda yangempela yangaphambili.
Indoda yangempela eGrisi lasendulo nguZeus, owesilisa onamandla, ovumelane nokufutheka, uphonsa umbani futhi ushintshe umfazi wakhe wasezulwini uHera ngakwesokunene nangesobunxele nabesifazane basemhlabeni. Njengoba bethi kuyi-Internet namuhla, "wayeyisiwula futhi unonya."
Ezikhathini Ephakathi, ngomfanekiso wendoda yangempela, kunezici ezihluke kakhulu, izici zomnumzane. I-knight kumele ihlakaniphe, ihlakaniphe, ihlakaniphile, ibukhali nezinye izicansi. ukubukeka kwalezi zimfanelo kubangelwa ukucaciswa komphakathi. Iqiniso liwukuthi ngokuvumelana namasiko asendulo, wonke amazwe anikezwe indlalifa eyindlalifa, indodana ejwayelekile iya endaweni yezindela (umsebenzi we-monk ngaleso sikhathi wawubhekwa njengokuhlonishwa kakhulu), futhi omncane wathola ihhashi nenkemba. Ithemba labo kuphela lokubuyela embuthanweni ojwayelekile kwakuwumshado ophumelelayo. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, inkolo yowesifazane omuhle uyele, ngomfanekiso womuntu ofanelekayo, ukunakekela, ukubamba iqhaza, ukunakekelwa kowesifazane kuqala ukuvela. Kodwa ngisho nalabo abaseduze kakhulu nama-knights afanelekayo ngaleso sikhathi babude kakhulu nomfanekiso wesimanje samanje esakhiwe engqondweni yowesifazane.
Lowo "owayengumuntu wangempela" wayekwazi ngokuphelele ukunakekela abesifazane, kodwa emva komshado, zonke izici zomyeni onomhawu nokungathembeki zabonakala kuye. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi izinyathelo zesehlukaniso zazihlonishwa kakhulu yibandla futhi amakhosi amakhulu namakhosi amakhulu kuphela ayenethuba lokuhlukanisa. Futhi akufanele sikhohlwe ukungalingani kwezenhlalakahle, i-knight ingayinakekela kahle le nkosikazi izinyanga, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo nsuku zonke abalimi bathatha amandla, futhi lokhu kwakubhekwa njengokuhle kwezinto. Ukuzikhandla kwakungekho ohlwini lwezintandokazi zesilisa, ama-knights ezinkambeni zanamuhla aholela ekuphileni okungenalutho. Into eyayiyinto eyayiyimpi kwakuwukulwa, ukuzingela kanye nezokuvakasha.
Ingqondo nemfundo ngenani lezici ezifanele ukuba namadoda wangempela, zawela ku-Renaissance. Ngaleso sikhathi, umqondo wokuthuthukiswa okuhambisana nobuntu ubuswa: kokubili ngokomoya nangokomzimba. Uma ukufundwa nokuqwashiswa kwangaphambili kwakubhekwa njengengane nje, manje sebebe uphawu lwendoda yangempela.
Ekhulwini le-17, ngokusabalalisa kwamaProthestani eYurophu, ukukhuthala kwangena ezinombeni ezidingekayo. Kumele ngithi, ukukhuthelela njengoba ikhwalithi yalomuntu eyakhiwe emphakathini yinto yakamuva, futhi akudingekile ukusola abameleli banamuhla "ubulili obuqinile" ngokuthi benza konke okusemandleni abo ukugwema imisebenzi yasekhaya, bekhetha ukulala embhedeni nokubukela i-TV. Ubungcweti nokuhlanzeka komzimba kwangena eziningana zezidingo zalesi sizwe maduzane, ngasekuqaleni kwekhulu le-18. Lokhu kubalulekile, okokuqala, ukuhamba emadolobheni: emaphandleni akunakwenzeka ukugcina ubungcwele bomzimba ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi akukho sidingo. Futhi emadolobheni anabantu abakhulayo futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ukusabalala okusheshayo kwezifo ezihlukahlukene, ukulondoloza ukuhlanzeka komzimba sekuye kwaba yimpumelelo yentuthuko yomphakathi.
Manje indoda yangempela akufanele ibe neyezimfanelo ezibalulwe kuphela, kufanele ibe namakhono ezobuchwepheshe: ukwazi ukushayela imoto, ukusingatha izinto ezisendlini ezisendlini yomshini kagesi kwikhompyutha, sebenzisa i-Intanethi. Kwenzekani okulandelayo?
Ngakho-ke, njengoba intuthuko yezenhlalakahle ivele, zonke izici ezintsha zavela esithombeni somuntu wangempela, kanti ngokuhamba kwesikhathi lokhu noma leyo mfanelo ibe ohlwini, amadoda ambalwa manje ahambisana nawo. Yebo, sithole ukuthi kukhona yini ngempela amadoda angempela: ayenjalo, kodwa ayencane kakhulu futhi omunye kufanele abe ngowesifazane wangempela ukuze abe nethuba lokuhlangana futhi alondoloze eceleni kwakhe. Ekugcineni, ungashada kanjani jikelele? Funa i-lieutenant ethembisayo futhi umsize enze umsebenzi!