Amaphutha akwenziwa ngabesifazane ebuhlotsheni bomndeni

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi, silwela ukuvumelana nokuchuma empilweni yomndeni, sivame ukuthola impumelelo ehlukile. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka?

Thina besifazane sishisekela kakhulu kwisayensi yokwakha ubuhlobo nengxenye yethu yesibili. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nangokwengeziwe, ngoba amadoda aphikisiwe nathi kaningi awahlali ama-quests nsuku zonke ukuze afane nomqondo omuhle owawuthathwa emcabangweni wethu. Yini evimbela ekufezeni injabulo yomndeni nokuzwana phakathi kobudlelwano? "Thatha isibonelo ..."
Ngesizathu esithile, kubonakala sengathi abaningi bethu ukuthi isibonelo esihle (isibonelo, umyeni kaJulia umngane - indoda enhle yezemidlalo kanye ne-Jack of bonke abathengisi) - kuyisisusa esihle kakhulu ekukhuleni okuphelele komuntu wethu. Yisho, ukukhomba ukuphakama komunye wesilisa wesilisa, futhi othandekayo uthatha yonke imizamo yokuthuthukisa futhi azame ukubheka okungenani njenge-model esiyikhulumile.

Buka kusuka ohlangothini
"Uma umyeni kaYulin enhle kangaka, kungani ungidinga?" - iqhawe lethu liyathinteka futhi ezimweni ezingama-70 zenqaba ukwenqaba ukuhambisana nomqondo omuhle, futhi ngo-30 kakade ngenxa yesimiso siqala ukukuqhathanisa noJulia uqobo. Bambalwa abazohlupheka lapho benganakwa. Kodwa noma yikuphi ukuqhathaniswa komusa komunye umuntu kubonakala kahle. Ngakho umphumela wale ndlela uzoba okuphambene nalokho.

"Kumelwe!"
Owesifazane ngamunye unelolu hlu lwakhe olude lwezimfanelo, okuyinto, ngokombono wakhe, umnumzane nomngane wangempela wokuphila kufanele abe nefa. Futhi cishe, uzokhuluma lezi zimfanelo kuye okhethiwe. Kuphela akucabangi ngomzuzwana owodwa - ukuthi igama elithi "kufanele" lingaphumelela izinhloso ezinhle kakhulu nezinhle.

Buka kusuka ohlangothini
Cabanga ngomuntu othi kuwe: "Ngikholelwa ukuthi owesifazane kufanele ..." Ngubani okufanele? Yena? Isizathu sini? Awusesikoleni ekuhlolweni. Ngabe uzothola malini ubuhlobo lapho ukuzibophezela kuyoba okubaluleke kakhulu, futhi kungenzi lutho okubangelwa yisifiso nothando? Zonke izifiso zabo zingabonakaliswa ngaphandle kokumangaza futhi empeleni okungenasisekelo ultimatum. Kungcono ukwakha umndeni ngokuzibophezela ngokuzithandela, ukuvumelana, ukuthula nothando kunomqondo womsebenzi womunye womlingani. Ngokushesha noma kamuva, kuleso simo, umuntu ngeke nakanjani aphile.

Okwesithathu okungeziwe
Bathi wonke owesifazane unomdlali we-actress, futhi ngezinye izikhathi i-drama yonke yeshashalazi. Ukuphoqa, sivame ukubiza ofakazi abazungezile: "Ungabe ulalele lokho akusho nje!" Indoda ehlawulisiwe ingena ekuvikeleni okungezithulu, noma iqala ukuzihlasela noma ibaleke. Zonke izinketho ezintathu azikhombisi ngalutho ekuqinisekiseni ubudlelwane bomndeni.

Buka kusuka ohlangothini
Wonke umuntu uhlupheka: owesifazane owenza umbukiso wokuthi yibaphi abantu ababili kuphela okufanele baqonde futhi bakwenze kuphela ngasese; indoda eyibhala phansi ngokushesha kuma-hysteric futhi iqala ukuba namahloni. Kanye nabafakazi abangahleliwe noma abangahleliwe ababambe iqhaza empini futhi baphoqeleka ukuphazamisa imizwa yabo ngezigcawu ezivela ekuphileni komunye umuntu. Yiqiniso, sonke sifuna ukukhuluma ngezikhathi ezithile, xhumana, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokukhononda nokukhala. Kodwa lokhu akusona isizathu sokuguqula impilo yakho ibe ngumcimbi omkhulu. Uma-ke, awufuni ukuba yingxenye yecala elibonakalayo elithandwa kakhulu ...

"Noma mina, noma bona!"
Nsuku zonke inamba enkulu yamantombazane ihambisa ama-satellites awo nge-ultimatums ngesitayela: "Ubani odingayo ngaphezulu, abangane noma mina?" Ukuba khona kokuzilibazisa, okungahlanganiswa esigabeni 'samalungu omndeni', kwenza amahloni amaningi, kanti abanye besifazane bayamcasula.

Buka kusuka ohlangothini
Uma unomhawu ngabangane bakhe noma izinto zokuzilibazisa, khumbula ukuthi yini oyithandana nayo nendoda yakho. Phela, indima ebalulekile ekwakheni ukufaneleka komuntu othandekayo idlalwe yiqembu lakhe kanye nezenzo zokuzilibazisa. Cabanga ukuthi ngabe udinga umngane ongeyithandekayo, ongathandeki? Khumbula ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi kuzo zonke izinto ongafinyelela kuzo. Vumela isigamu sakho sesibili sinikezwe isikhathi esithile ekuzilibazisa kwakhe. Kulokhu, bobabili nizowina: umyeni uzojabula, enze umsebenzi owuthandayo, futhi ungakwazi ukuzinikela ngalesi sikhathi ngokwakho nangenjabulo yakho encane.

"Ngaphuphuthekiswe"
Umuntu ofanelekayo angakhulelwa kuphela! "- labesifazane bahlekisana phakathi kwabo bese bephakamisa imikhono yabo, basheshe bafundise, bahlakulele, bakhule futhi" baphumele ngaphandle kwezezimali. "Ngokujwayelekile kumuntu wokulungisa konke kuncike: ukubukeka, indlela yokuziphatha, imikhuba.

Buka kusuka ohlangothini
Ukuletha okuhle nokukhanyisa kuyisisusa esihle kakhulu. Kuhle uma abalingani bekhula futhi bakhuthazana, kepha kuphela izinguquko kanye nokuguqulwa kufanele kube ngokuzithandela. Kuyinto eyodwa lapho umuntu ngokwakhe ecela ukuya naye esitolo bese ukhetha i-jeans noma i-suit, ngoba uthemba ukunambitheka kwakho. Futhi okunye - ukufihla noma ukubeka ngasese udoti ibhulukwe lakhe eliyintandokazi ngoba nje abathandi wena. Futhi uma esikhathini esizayo enza okufanayo ngekhanda lakho elivela kuLouis Vuitton?

Wafika ezinsukwini zamasonto
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lona wesifazane uyazi ukuthi izimbali egumbini lakhe lokuphumula zivele kuphela ngamaholide, ukuhamba ukuya ekudleni kuyakuthanda kakhulu ukudla kwasekhaya. "Buyisela lo mdlalo!" - heroine yethu iyaqhubeka.

Ukubukeka okuvela ohlangothini Kwabaningi besilisa, ukuya esitolo sokudlela kuyithuba lokuba nesidla endaweni engahloniphekile, okudinga izimali ezingaphezu kokungathandeki. Kuhlale kudingeke ukhulume ngezifiso zomuntu ngokuzwakalayo, kanye nokuthi lowo oyikhethile uphelele kunanoma iyiphi i-superhero.

Uhlu lwezimangalo ezithandwayo kakhulu
Zihlolisise, ingabe lezi ziboniso zifaka uhlu lwakho lomuntu siqu oluthandayo?

Indawo eyi-1
Wakhuphuka yena ngokwakhe, wakhathazeka - ithalenta labesifazane ukukhuluma ngomuntu nokuthola iziphetho kuye.

2 indawo
Ukusola. Kubonakala sengathi sikhuluma ngengqondo ye-psychotraction yentombazane okuthiwa "Amadoda adinga eyodwa kuphela." Akulona iqiniso. Amadoda adinga okuningi. Futhi lo "owodwa", ngendlela, ubuye umthwalo ongokomzimba ongathí sina.

Indawo yesithathu
Ukungakwazi ukuthula ndawonye. Ngezinye izikhathi kuyinto enhle ukuphumula futhi ungacabangi nganoma yini, ubheka odongeni, ungaphenduli imibuzo yemibani ngesitayela: "Ucabangani?", "Kungani uthula?", "Uyakhathazeka nami?" Zama it!