Eminyakeni yamuva, ukuthambekela okusheshayo kwemishado nabakwamanye amazwe kuye kwaphawulwa emazweni e-CIS yangaphambili. Wonke owesifazane kulokhu unezizathu zakhe siqu, okwenza ukuba ashade nomfokazi. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuzinikela wena nokuphila kwakho kunoma ubani, hlola ukuthi le ndoda ikufanele kangakanani. Ngoba umuntu angaba nesimo sengqondo esinjalo nesitayela sokuphila kuhle, kepha omunye ulungile.
Amadoda angaphandle: izici zengqondo
Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukunquma izici zezwe lapho umuntu ehlala khona noma ukuthi uvelaphi. Kuyafaneleka ukucabangela amacala okuxuba, okusho ukuthi, lapho umuntu ezalwa futhi ekhuliswe ezweni elilodwa, wafunda futhi wasebenza kwenye. Kulesi simo, cabanga ngokukhethekile kwamazwe womabili futhi uzame ukuqaphelisisa izikhathi ezinhle, kodwa lezo ezingadala ukudumazeka kamuva. Kumele uqaphele ukuthi, uma usondelene kakhulu, umuntu uzoqala ukubonisa zonke izici zakhe zobuntu, futhi ingqondo izoba nemthelela encane. Ekusekeleni lawa magama, sinikeza izibonelo ezimbalwa.
Italy
Ukukhetha umuntu oshisayo igazi kulungele iqiniso lokuthi ngeke lipholile njalo futhi hhayi isikhathi eside: ama-Italiya aqaphele kakhulu ngamanzi, ngakho ungathathi okugeza okugcwele, kodwa ishaxa esisheshayo kuphela. Wena, njengoba umama wendlu wesikhathi esizayo kufanele azi futhi ukuthi izitsha ezingaphansi kwamanzi agijima azikwazi ukugeza, kuqala zifakwe emgodini futhi lapho zigeza konke okuqongile. Kodwa akusho ukuthi amaNtaliyane angabantu abangenalutho, ngokuphambene nalokho, yizonazinja ezihlanzekile. Ngakho-ke kufanele uchithe njalo nsuku zonke, uhlanzekile futhi uhlanze phansi phansi. Uma uya ezitolo kumfazi, kufanele uthenge kuphela eshibhile: izingubo, ukudla, njll. Lokho okubiza kakhulu, kushiywe kubafokazi, ngakho-ke lapho ukhetha umyeni, ulungele ukukhohliswa kuqala, bese uphoqeleka ukuba ujwayele isikhundla sakho. Ukujwayela iqiniso lokuthi azikho izimfihlo e-Italy, noma kunalokho iningi lokuhleba: wonke umuntu ukhuluma ngakho konke, futhi ngokuvamile ulwazi luhlanekezwa kakhulu.
E-Italy, ekubeni ngumfazi womuntu, uyoba nomsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu wena nomyeni wakho ninemali eyanele. Isimo senhlalakahle yomndeni wakho sizonquma indawo yakho emphakathini. Isibonelo, uma ungumuntu ompofu, khona-ke i-agent ye-real estate ngesikhathi yengxoxo ingasukuma bese ishiya ngesikhathi lapho isidlo sakhe siqala, futhi emva kwehora lesikhombisa kusihlwa, akukho lutho oluzoboniswa kunoma ubani.
E-USA
I-America ayidonseli kuphela ama-expanses ayo, kepha futhi iqiniso lokuthi ngokungafani ne-Spain, izakhamuzi zakhona zinekeminteresuyutsya encane. Lapha awukwazi ukukhathazeka ngenhlebo nakho konke okunye. Kodwa isiRussia, ejwayele ukwabelana nabangani bayo izinsizi kanye nenjabulo futhi ikhulumisana kahle ngokuphila komndeni, kungase kube nenkinga yokuzivumelanisa. Uma ukhetha umyeni waseMelika, khona-ke lapho abangane bakho bebuza mayelana nebhizinisi lakho, ungabatsheli okuthile, njengoba nje kuyisibonakaliso sokunakwa, hhayi isithakazelo esiqotho. Okukodwa okubaluleke kakhulu! Wena, njengomMelika weqiniso, kuzodingeka ube nobungane futhi uzwela, ngisho nalapho uzizwa ucasuke kabi. Kodwa kukhona ama-pluses kulokhu, abaseMelika bazohlale bekukhombisa indlela futhi bakutshele ukuthi benzeni, kuphi ukunye nokunye.
Ngokuvamile bakholwa ukuthi abaseMelika bangabababa abalungile, ngakho-ke kuzodingeka ubelethe izikhathi ezintathu, noma ngisho 4. Umyeni angakwazi ukubeka, ukudla, ukuthenga nokujabulisa ingane eyedwa. Futhi, basuke beqine ngomshado, basebenzela kanzima ukugcinwa komndeni futhi bakhathele kakhulu. Uma ufuna ukwakha umndeni onomdabu waseMelika, ngakho-ke kufanele udale ukuzithokozisa komndeni onokuthula, ngakho ungakhohlwa ngokuhlukanisa kanye nhlobo. Uma ushada ne-Texas cowboy, khona-ke ulungele isigwebo esilandelayo sokuphila: indoda, izinkunzi, ama-mustang, amapulazi, umsebenzi oqhubekayo nobusuku bebukele i-TV ngaphambi kokulala.
Amazwe aseScandinavian
Amadoda aseScandinavia anjengeSilav: abanobungane, abanomusa. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo babukeka njengethunzi emlandweni wethu: ayikho inkululeko yomphefumulo, ukukhwabanisa, imikhosi, kanye namadoda aseScandinavia abazwa uhlobo oluthile lwe-phlegmatic, ubukhulu obungakunikela uma ungumuntu wesifazane othukuthele.
Emazweni aseScandinavia, ukunakekelwa kwamadoda kubhalwa ikakhulukazi ekubukeni kwabesifazane: bangabesifazane abalungile nabalungile. Ngokuqondene nokuphila okufuywayo, umyeni uzohamba ngekhefu lokubeletha kanye nekhefu lokubeletha, futhi isigamu somsebenzi wesikole ngokwakhe uzothatha. Kodwa ukulingana kunolunye uhlangothi, ngokwesibonelo, kufanele uhole inani elilinganayo, umsebenzi omningi nokunye okunye: ngokuphelele konke kulingana.
Finland
I-Finns ikhetha ukukhokha lezo zokudlela ngokwazo. Ukuvakashela, ukushayela ucingo kuqala nokukhuluma ngomhlangano. I-Finns inesimo sengqondo esikhethekile empilweni yangasese, ngakho bayabanakekela ngokucophelela. Ngakho-ke, ezokuthutha zomphakathi kuwe akukho muntu we-podsyadet. Yebo, futhi mayelana ne-sauna yaseFinland, kukhona bobulili bobabili kulo, kodwa le ndawo akuyona isizathu sokuzijabulisa ngokobulili.
EJalimane
Uma ubuza umyeni wakho ukuba aye esitolo sokudlela futhi ebuza ukuthi ubani ozokhokha, ungapheli amandla - lokhu kuvamile kubantu kuleli zwe. Ukunquma ukuba ngumkami waseJalimane, zilungiselele ukuthi kuzodingeka ujwayele ukujwayela le nuance nabanye abaningi: awukwazi ukuphuza, udinga ukuba umuntu ohamba ngezinyawo, njll.
E-England
Abafazi baseNgilandi bangathenga into enhle, kanye nalabo abasesigaba sabantu abalungile. Kodwa ukhohlwe imikhankaso yokuphoqa esitolo, okusho ukuthi, "ezintweni ezincane", uma umyeni ebona kudingekile ukusebenza, khona-ke usizi alukwazi ukugwema. Okuyinkimbinkimbi, abesifazane abaqhakazile bayoba nzima: eBrithani, aboni ukukhwabanisa, ukugqoka, izingubo kanye nezinto. Amadoda angamadoda angeke aphakanyise isandla sakhe ngokumelene nowesifazane, angeke amcasule izilwane futhi azokuhlonipha udumo lwabo. Kodwa uzilungiselele ukuthi uvula umnyango kuwe futhi umboze ingubo yakho futhi.
Ungakwazi ukushada ngempumelelo owesifazane waseZaanglian uma ukwazi ukuhola umnotho wekhono futhi uzigcinele umkhuba.
Isilinganiso samadoda kuya kwabesifazane
Ubuhlobo obuningi kakhulu phakathi kwabesifazane buhlala ngamadoda avela emazweni anjenge-Israel, i-Italy, i-France, i-Australia ne-Finland. Kuyadingeka ukuthi e-Australia naseFinland, abesifazane bancane kunamadoda, ngakho-ke ungakwazi "ukugibela" ebukhulu bothando nokukhuleka.
Uma ungumngane omkhulu we-Moydodyra, khona-ke amadoda avela eHolland naseJalimane azokuthatha ngendlela engcono kakhulu.
Amantombazane abathanda ukugcina izilwane ezifuywayo ekhaya azophila kahle namaDashi, ngoba kuleli zwe imikhuba enjalo isivele isendabuko.
Abesifazane akuzona isikhathi sokugcina noma i-vkoem akufanele baxhumane namaJalimane nabaseBrithani. Uzosondela emaNtaliyane, ahluke ekungapheli kwabo: uzophuza ndawonye. Kodwa uma i-Italy ifika kusenesikhathi, khona-ke isikhathi esithile sizocasuka ukuhlaselwa, kodwa ngokushesha uphole futhi uthethelele. Isimo sengqondo esiqotho sokubamba abesifazane sesabelwe amaFrance nabase-Australia.
Isiphetho
Besifazane, khumbula: bangaki amadoda, izinhlamvu eziningi nezici eziningi. Kodwa isizwe sonke sithinta umuntu, umndeni wakhe, indawo yakhe nokunye. Akudingekile ukwahlulela abantu ngokuqinile, kodwa ukuxwayisa ngeke kube okungenakuqhathaniswa. Ukuze uthole umkhwenyana ongase abe khona, udinga ukumazi futhi ungasheshi iziphetho.