Imikhuba ingaba "ukwakhela" impilo yethu ngokweqiniso ngokwezitini: ngokuba kwasekuseni singadli njalo iphariji, ithebula lokugubha lingenakucatshangwa ngaphandle kwebyakiaki, sihlanza indlu ngeMigqibelo, futhi sichitha amaholide olwandle ... Futhi kungani singacabangi. Noma kunjalo, impendulo akunakwenzeka ukuthola - ngoba nje yayakhiwe ekuqaleni ...
Yokwezifiso noma imfundiso?
Kukhona omunye umsebenzi wemikhuba emihle yomndeni, nakuba ekubonweni kokuqala kungase kubonakale kuyinhloko: banquma izinga lokuphila "kwezinto" ezizisekelayo.
Kulapha ukuthi "umfula" phakathi kwamasiko abaphilayo nabafileyo kwenzeka. Lokhu okushiwo kusho ukulandela okungaqondakali umyalelo obekwe omunye umuntu ngolunye usuku. Ngokuvamile, bahlala nalabo abanesilonda noma abanomatasa kakhulu ukuba bangathatha isinyathelo, ukuzakhela okuthile okwabo, ngoba noma yikuphi okusha kuyodingeka ukuthi kube nomthwalo wemfanelo.
Amasiko okuphila, ngokuphambene nalokho, enza impilo ibe mnandi, ivuse ukucabanga futhi iqinise ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu.
Ngomthetho wayo ...
Umndeni ngamunye unamasiko awo. Bathinta konke: indlela yokuhlomisa indlu, ukusabalalisa imisebenzi, ukufundisa izingane, ukuthi yini yokupheka itafula lokugcoba, lapho uzophumula khona ... Futhi kubonakala ngathi ngenye indlela nje ngeke kube khona. Sijwayele lokhu - yilokho kuphela.
Lokhu kubonakala ikakhulukazi ekuqaleni komndeni womndeni, lapho abashadile bedinga ukujwayela omunye nomunye. Emndenini "wabo" abavela kumzali, lapho kutholakale khona imiyalo ethile. Futhi umyeni wakhe uthola kunzima ukuqonda izimfuno zomfazi: kungani kufanele alandele eminye imithetho, hhayi labo ajwayele ukukwenza. Uma ungavumelani ngesikhathi, ungalungisi, ungatholi ukuyekethisa, ukucasuka nokudumazeka akunakugwemeka. Uma umndeni wakho ungakabi namasiko, musa "ukuhudula" bonke emgqonyeni ekhaya. Zama ukuthuthukisa ngokwakho, ucabangele izithakazelo zomyeni wakhe.
I-Renaissance
Kulula kakhulu, amasiko omndeni omuhle "tie" ngamaholide nangezimpelasonto, ngoba lezi zinsuku zicabanga ukuthi wonke umndeni usemibuthweni futhi ephezulu (igama elilodwa liphumula). Khetha elinye lamaholidi ongathanda ukuguqula, isibonelo, usuku lomkhosi lomshado. Vumelana nabangani bakho ukuthi uzokwenza zonke lezi zinsuku "zezwe": omunye uzohlela iqembu ngesitayela sesiNgisi, elinye lisesiJalimane, owesithathu ngesiJapane. Khetha umculo, izingubo, ugcobe indlu, ulungise izitsha ezifanele, usebenzise "imidlalo" yabantu.
Emndenini womndeni, thola amasiko wansuku zonke. Cabanga ngenye indlela yasekuqaleni yokwamukela u-hello bese usho okuhle kumyeni wakho.
Ngomntwana, umkhuba wokulala ulungile: izingane ziyakuthanda ukuhlekisana nomama wazo, zilalele inganekwane noma i-lullaby elula.
Isiko lomgqibelo singaba umndeni "ophuma ekukhanyeni": ukuvakasha, i-cinema, yaseshashalazini, i-Bowling ... Isimo esibalulekile: ukuphindaphinda okucacile kanye ... into eyamangalisa. Futhi nokho: kufanele ujabulise wonke umuntu!
Ngamaholidi kaMeyi, ungaya ehlathini - umlilo, izakhelo, imidlalo yangaphandle. Ukuthandana nokuzijabulisa - okungaba ngcono!
Izikhathi ezingakhohlwa
I-albhamu yomndeni. Ngeshwa, iningi lethu lazi kancane ngezihlobo zabo ngaphesheya kwesizwe sesithathu. Qoqa izithombe zogogo nomkhulu wakho, banikeze okungenani ulwazi olufushane - vumela izingane zakho, bese kubazukulu bekhumbula umndeni wabo.
Ukunyakaza kwamanje. Skena izithombe ezidala eziphuzi bese udala i-albhamu yewebhu kubo. Qiniseka ukuthi uhilela izingane kule nqubo - bayoba nesithakazelo ngebhizinisi, ngesikhathi esifanayo bazizwa beyingxenye yomndeni omkhulu.
Izincwadi ezidlule
Uma unolwazi lokuthandana phakathi kogogo nomkhulu wakho, omama nobaba, ungasheshi ukulahla le miyalezo. Beka emafolda efayela evulekile ukuze isikhathi singalimazi iphepha, phrinta izinsuku. Ngikholelwa: kuyothakazelisa ukuthi inzalo yakho "yekhompuyutha" ijwayele ukujwayele uhlobo lwe-epistolary lwabazali babo - lokhu akuwona umsebenzi oqanjiwe we-classic engaziwa, kodwa inoveli yangempela.