Awazi ukwenza isinyathelo sokuqala?

Ukuzizwa othandweni kungumzwelo omuhle kakhulu emhlabeni. Ngaki kaningi sizama ukuthola uthando, futhi uma sithola, siyigcina futhi siyivikele kuzo zonke izinhlekelele zempilo. Uthando luya kunoma yimuphi umuntu oneminyaka ehlukene. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ngamunye wethu azi ukuthi imizwa yethu iyabambisana, kodwa ezimweni eziningi sisaba ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala ukuze sihlangabezane nesiphetho sethu esizayo. Uma ungazi ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala, izincomo ezilandelayo zezenzo zakho ezengeziwe zizokusiza.

Isinyathelo sokuqala sokufeza into yakho yesihawu yilona okuthiwa i-gloss procedure. Ngakho-ke uye esibukweni futhi mhlawumbe uzibheke ngokweqile ukusuka, isibonelo, izinwele zakho bese uzibuza ngokwengqondo lo mbuzo: Kuze kube nini uye waya kumculi wezinwele? Kunconywa ukuthi uvakashele ubuhle be-salon ukuze ugcine ukuziphatha okuhle, okwakwenziwa yizifundiswa ezivela ezinkambeni zezinwele kuze kube yilapho kudalwa khona i-pedicure emangalisa. Khona-ke, kufanele uqaphele ikhabethe lakho, yiziphi izinto ezihanjiswa ngaphakathi. Khumbula, bonke abantu bathanda, uma owesifazane egqoka ubulili, akwenzanga neze (Musa ukudideka), okusho ukuthi udinga ukulungisa kahle. Izindwangu ezincane zokuthutha kanye ne-trousers, kusukela manje kufanele ubonise futhi ugcizelele isithunzi sakho! Kulungile, manje ubheka konke okungu-100%.

Isinyathelo ezimbili. Njengoba ukuthuthumela emadolweni kudlulile, umuntu kufanele athole into yokufisa futhi athole ukuxhumana. Ngokuqondene nowesifazane lokhu kulukhuni njalo, kodwa lo muntu akaphenduli kuwe (mhlawumbe umatasa) kufanele abe nobuqili. Ngomzuzwana othize, kufanele uqale, ubuke into ethile esikhwameni sakho, bese uthola ukukhathazeka okuncane, bese uya kumuntu wakho wesikhathi esizayo nomgomo ophansi, ozolile ucele ukuthi usize. Ngokuvamile, usizo luzofaka ukuthayipha inamba yakho yefoni, ngoba awukwazi ukukuthola esikhwameni sakho, futhi uyayidinga okwamanje. Indoda elesi simo ngeke ikukhanye, thola ifoni yakho bese ushayela inombolo yakho, futhi uma ifoni yakho ishaya, kuyoba nenombolo yocingo ekulindelwe isikhathi eside kuyo. Hamba! Ibhuloho selihlelwe kakade.

Isinyathelo sesithathu kufanele senze ngosuku olulandelayo. Uthatha ifoni yakho bese uyidlulisela imilayezo kuye, ngomusa, kanje: "Sawubona. Ungubani? Nginekhululekile ngempela kulobubusuku, ngithemba ukuthi sizohlangana namhlanje e-cafe ... lokhu ke ... ngo-19-00. Ngizoba ngengubo ebomvu. Ngiyamanga uTanya. " Uma umuntu efunda umlayezo onjalo, uzomangala futhi, ngenxa yalokho, angathatha izinketho ezintathu, okungukuthi: shayela emuva, vele uze noma ungayinaki. Uma ebuyisela emuva, khona-ke kufanele udlale futhi uthande ukudlala. Uma ethi akakwazi wena nokuthi uphutha, ungesabi, umkhohlise ngomunye uhlobo lomlando wasisisekelo, bese uvala ingxoxo ngegama elithi "Ngithemba ukuthi sesivele sihlangane nokuthi kungakanani lokhu kusihlwa mahhala, woza yibambe ndawonye. " Ngokwehlukile kwesibili, konke kulula nakakhulu, sithemba ukuthi usuvele intombazane endala futhi uzokwazi ukuzimisela ezenzweni zakho. Kodwa uma engakunaki, ungambiza ngosuku olulandelayo bese ubuza: "Kwenzekeni?", Futhi ngesikhathi yengxoxo kufanele usebenzise amaqhinga okukhetha kuqala. Ngakho-ke noma ngabe ngubani ongasho, usezandleni zakho eziqinile futhi ezihlakaniphile!

Ngokwehlukana, ngingathanda ukusho amazwi okugcina wamagama ahlukanisayo ekusebenziseni konke okulotshwe ngaphambili. Uma umuntu oyifunayo engakunaki zonke izinyathelo namaqhinga, kubalulekile ukucabanga ukuthi akakhululekile yini (oshade) noma enhliziyweni yakhe kukhona omunye wesifazane ojabule naye, futhi izenzo zakho zizomlimaza kuphela. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunjani - kuyiseluleko nje, futhi impilo yakho kufanele uyilahle ngokuhlakanipha kwakho.

Uma kusenzima nokuzikhethela, futhi awukwazi ukwenza isinyathelo sokuqala, bese uphatha konke kulula futhi uxazulule inkinga ngokwayo iyodlula kuwe.