Kusukela ebuntwaneni sibona abazali bethu, ukuziphatha kwabo, imikhuba, bese bekhulile, bavame ukuphindaphinda amaphutha abo. I-Psychogenetics yisayensi ezokusiza ukuba ubone ukuthi ngubani othandekayo wakho olinganayo naye. Kule akhawunti, kunezigaxa kanye namazwi: "Endlini ngayinye lapho", "Ngaphansi kwephahla ngalinye izigaxa zabo" njalonjalo. Kusho ukuthini? Yebo, ukuthi ithonya lokhokho ekufeni kwethu laqaphela isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuvela kozalo lozalo. Futhi ngisho nangaphambi kakhudlwana ngaphambi kokuvela kwengqondo ye-psychogenetics, okuyinto uhlobo lwe-fusion yezinzalo zofuzo kanye nezakhi zofuzo. Nasi isibonelo: wena, eqinisweni, uqaphele ukuthi ezweni lakithi omama - ngisho ncane kakhulu - ngezinye izikhathi ngezinye izikhathi bahloswe ngesifiso sokondla ingane yabo. Uma umfokazi efaka isiteleka esinjalo, akakwazi ukuqonda lo mama nogogo. Ingqondo yakhe ibonisa ukuthi umuntu angeke afe ngenxa yendlala eduze nesiqandisini esigcwele - ukusimama kokuzivikela ngeke kuvumele. Ngakho-psychogenetics ithi lokhu ukuziphatha kwabesifazane bethu kubangelwa "umlayezo wabokhokho" mayelana nokuntuleka kokudla, indlala, ukuvinjelwa, ukuphuma, isikhathi sekhadi, okwenzeka emlandweni waseSoviet. Ukuqaphela inkinga, ingaxazululwa. I-Psychogenetics - ukuziphatha okungahambisani nabantu, i-genotype noma imvelo - sizophendula lo mbuzo kulesi sihloko.
Ukwesaba kobaba
I-Psychogenetics ingaba efanele kakhulu emsebenzini wakho. Ngezinye izikhathi lapho, esikhathini esedlule, faka izizathu zokuhluleka kwakho okwamanje, ukungavikeleki kanye ne-tab. Inkinga nge-Angelina yilapho engakwazi ukuhlala ngokuthula eduze kompheki. Cha, le ndoda ekhangayo, indoda emndenini omuhle kanye nomphathi omuhle akafuni ukuphishekela umcwaningi ompofu nhlobo. Futhi isazi sezomnotho, esesemhlanganweni ngamunye, saqala ukugoba futhi sibheke ephaketheni lakhe ibhaluni le-asthmatics. Ukuba khona komuntu onesizotha kwakumvimbela. Ngokuphambene, inhloko yendoda ka-Angelina yayiyindoda enomoya omnene, onamahloni. Nginaye heroine yethu yayinethezekile futhi ihlelekile, ayikhumbuli ukuhlaselwa kwesifo. Kodwa uma ufika ukusebenza ... futhi waqala. Ukuze othile aye kumphathi, wayekulungele ukwenza noma yimuphi umsebenzi owengeziwe. Futhi kwakuzoqhubeka isikhathi eside uma u-Angelina engawa phansi nokuvuvukala okukhulu kwemiphaphu. Kuhle ukuthi umngane wami wathola isazi sengqondo esaziwayo esasilutha umqondo we-psychogenetics. Waphoqa u-Angelina ukuba axoxisane nazo zonke izihlobo zakhe futhi akhulise izindaba eziningi zomndeni. Kuthiwa umama wakhe useyintombazanyana encane yabona idrama yeShakespearean ngempela: ubaba wakhe, ngokulandelana, umkhulu ka-Angelina, ephethe umona wesintu wayevele ebopha umkhulu wakhe. Akuzange kuphinde kwenzeke futhi, akekho owakhulume ngakho ngakho. Unina ka-Angelina wakhumbula ukuthi uqobo lwakhe wayebhekene nokuxabana nomyeni wakhe, umuntu onamandla futhi onamandla. Kodwa u-Angelina wathola lesi sici kulelifa ngendlela ecacile.
U-Pedigree uzokutshela
Lungiselela ukuthi akuzona zonke izimfihlo zomndeni ezingasulwa ngokushesha. Kodwa uma ubonisa ukubekezela, uzofunda izinto eziningi ezithakazelisayo ngawe.
• Zama ukudweba umuthi womndeni.
• Thola ukuthi yikuphi okhokho abaye bashiya izinkumbulo ezicacile kakhulu, ngubani emndenini owayengumuntu okhulelwe, ongumfel 'ukholo, ongumuntu onenhlanhla.
• Cabanga ukuthi isiphetho senu sinikeza izinkinga zakho zamanje.
• Uma kunokwenzeka, vakashela i-seminar ekhethekile "Ukuhlelwa Komndeni" ngokuya ngendlela ye-psychoanalyst yase-Austrian uBert Hellinger. Le ndlela isekelwe emithethweni yomhlaba wonke yomndeni nobulili. Okubaluleke ngokukhethekile ukuhlangenwe nakho komsebenzi kaHeringer ngezindaba zomndeni ezimbi. Idume kakhulu ezweni lakithi.
• Khumbula ukuthi ungathola ugqozi emlandweni womndeni wakho. Ekuphileni, akukho lutho olungenakwenzeka, ngoba uvela kulo mndeni!
Ukuphulukisa
Ukwelashwa kwakunzima futhi kudla isikhathi. Ngokwesisekelo salo sibeka isimiso - udinga ukwenza (ngokwengqondo noma ngokoqobo) isenzo esivinjelwe futhi uthole umphumela omuhle. U-Angelina wacabanga ngezigcawu ezivela ehhovisi le-office ngokuhlanganyela komphathi futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo wayekhumbula izikhathi ezimnandi zokuphila kwakhe, ezama ukuwaxhuma. Lapho enza, ukuhlaselwa kwesifo sokuqubuka kwanyamalala.
Isibonelo esiphilayo
U-Eugene kusukela ebuntwaneni kwakubonakala sengathi umhlaba wonke umelene naye. Wabhekana nokungabi nabulungisa kwabanye, futhi ngenxa yokuzithoba kwakhe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo wayeyintombazane engenazinkinga, futhi abantu abaningi, beqala ngowesifazane ohlanza ehhovisi, osebenza nabo emsebenzini, beqedela nabangani abaseduze, basebenzise lokhu. Ngesikhathi u-Eugene eba nesithakazelo emlandweni womndeni, kwenzeka ukuthi ugogo wakhe wayenabantwana abayisishiyagalolunye futhi, ngokwemigomo yomndeni, wayengumuntu onomusa, omnene, wazama ukusiza wonke umuntu futhi enze ukuphila kube lula. Umama u-Eugenia wayengumama wendlu futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo wabasiza bonke ababaziyo: behlezi, behlezi nezingane, behlezi ekhishini ngesikhathi sokugubha komndeni ongajwayelekile. Kwasithatha isikhathi esiningi futhi akuzange kulethele ukwaneliseka, njengoba umama njalo etshela indodakazi yakhe. U-Eugene ngokwakhe uphinda isimo esifanayo somndeni kakade esizukulwaneni sesithathu. Kule ndaba, okuhlangenwe nakho okubi kuhanjiswa ngezindaba.
Iskripthi sakho
Uma uhlale unomthelela ekulimaweni okuncane nasezikhungweni zomzimba, hlaziya umlando wabazali bakho, ugogo nomkhulu, kanye nabo bonke abahlobo bakho. Yiziphi izigameko ezimbi futhi ezingathandekayo ezimpilweni zabo futhi badlala indima ebalulekile? Ungavumeli ukuba abe script nokuphila kwakho. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, mhlawumbe unomama onokuzethemba waya kumyeni wakhe eSiberia elikude, othile unogogo owayesemfelokazi, kodwa wabeka izingane zakhe ezinyaweni - kunokuba kungesizathu sokuphefumulelwa futhi uthathe njengesibonelo empilweni yakhe.