Noma kunjalo, izazi zengqondo zisikisela ukuthi sicabanga umndeni namalungu ayo ngendlela yemipiramidi. Lowo osendlini ubaluleke kakhulu, kuzoba phezulu, wonke amalungu omndeni azodansa nxazonke. Futhi abazali akuzona njalo abayinhloko yomndeni. Baba, Mama, ngingumndeni oseduze - futhi lokho kusho okuningi.
Konke okungcono kakhulu kwezingane!
Amehlo amathathu, amane, ayisithupha ayisithupha "emndenini" amehlo akhe agxile kuye kusukela ebuntwaneni. Lapho umntwana ehlezi emgodini we-cottage, ugogo omabili ogijima emgqeni ukubeka ama-pads: ama-hemps apholile. Lapho ingane idonsa isiyingi sakhe empilweni, umndeni uyabhala: "Ngokuzumayo ...", futhi ubaba ugoqa ngezandla ngunina: "Ngiyabonga ngale ndodana." Kulungile, njalonjalo. Isikhathi sihamba, isimo sengqondo somndeni kumuntu ohlakaniphile omncane asishintshi, ngisho nalapho kuba sobala ukuthi ingane ayinayo amathalenta akhethekile.
- Izinzuzo. Ingane kusukela ebuntwaneni ivikelekile kuyo yonke into engalungile uthando olukhulu lomndeni wakhe. Yilokho okuqinisekisayo ukuthi endlini enjalo nasendongeni isitha sezitha siyakunqamuka. Uma kukhona okungenani ukwehla kwanoma yiliphi ithalenta kulo, kungashiwo ngokuqiniseka ukuthi izihlobo zizoletha leli phula libe liphelele futhi lizokhula umuthi oqinile.
- I-Cons. Izwe elizungezile alinandaba kakhulu nothando lwezihlobo ezithile ezingaziwa kwezinye izihloko ezingaziwa. Abanye ngeke basisekele lolu thando ngokuqinisekiswa kobuhlakani bakhe, uma umuntu engaboni. Uma abazali besemncane befaka ingane ukuthi iyingqayizivele futhi iyingqayizivele, ekukhuleni kwakhe kuyoba nzima ngaye ukuthi azicabange ngandlela-thile ngendlela ehlukile. Uzoqiniseka ukuthi ukugxekwa abanye kuyisisusa sokuqala. Abaningi baphila impilo yonke enomkhawulo owanelisayo futhi baphile kahle!
Ugogo ungumsizi wethu
Kwenzeka ukuthi phezulu kwiphiramidi yomndeni kungummeleli wesizukulwane esidala - ugogo. Uyinkosi futhi unkulunkulu, uzoba nomusa, uzolahla. Izwi lakhe ngumthetho, akunjalo nanoma ubani ongamlaleli. Eholidini lezingane, uhlala endaweni efanele yomfana wokuzalwa, etafuleni letafula. UZorko ubheka abangane bomzukulu wakhe, omunye umuntu uyavuma ngokucacile ukuthi kukhona umuntu obala naye. Uvula isabelomali somndeni futhi, ngezinye izikhathi, unikeze ngisho nokudla kwasemini nomalokazana nendodakazi. Baye baxoxisana isikhathi eside ukuthi bangamthinta kanjani ugogo ukuba bathenge ikhompyutha entsha, incazelo engayiboniyo, nokuthi bangakha kanjani ingxoxo ngokudayisa umshini omdala nokuthenga okusha. Ugogo unzima, akavumeli "izingane" ukuba zihlale eTurkey, ngoba zikhona "olwandle" oluMnyama nolwase-Azov, futhi ngokujwayelekile, akukho lutho olungcono kune-dacha endala emadolobheni futhi angeke kube khona.
- Izinzuzo. Emndenini lapho ugogo elawula khona, kukhona njalo ukuhleleka nokuphendula ngokugcwele. Abazukulu baqaphela ukubusa kwalolu suku, imali yomndeni ihambelana futhi iphephile. Ugogo - kuzinzile futhi kungenakuphikwa amandla.
- I-Cons. Umbuso kaGogo awuhlali phakade. Ngokushesha umuntu uyaphuma, ngoba ugogo usekhulile, futhi izingane kanye nabazukulu bakhula futhi bathola amandla. Izingane ezincane ezakhulela emndenini onjalo zakhiwe ngombono ongalungile mayelana nobuhlobo phakathi kwabantu abadala nokuthi "ngubani oyinkosi yendlu." Kulaba bantu abadala abakhulile futhi abacindezelweyo bavame ukukhula, noma, abantu abanobuqili nabanobudlova abahlonipha "ukukhanga" hhayi kuphela empini, kodwa nangomsebenzi ovamile.
Inkululeko kuze kube phakade
Kwenzeka ukuthi indawo ephakeme yompiramidi yomndeni ihlala ... engekho. Ingane, yebo, inomama nobaba, kodwa iphakamisa phezulu amaqhawe asungulwe. NjengoCarlson. Abazali emsebenzini, banalo igama eliyimfihlakalo "umsebenzi". Umfana oza futhi ophelele kuzo zonke izinhlangothi, kodwa unomzukulu wakhe futhi uthanda okuthile, ungumuntu wakhe nje, futhi lapha nje uthola imali. Futhi uma abazali bengayiboni lokhu, ingane izwa ukukhathazeka okubandayo ngesikhumba nenhliziyo. Akukho ukushisa! Futhi udala umngane ofudumele, umngane ojabule, umxhumanisi nomfana ongeyena. Ngomngane owenzelwe kalula kangaka! Uhlezi eceleni kwami emotweni, lapho umntwana ethathwa ekamu labantwana eholidini, futhi uyama isibindi eceleni kwakhe lapho izinyane liphendula ebhodini. Nge "umngane" akusizi kakhulu kusihlwa, lapho abazali bebiza ngezikhathi ezithile, bakhathazeke futhi bacele "ukulinda kancane", ngoba banomhlangano obalulekile, uhambo olude, kamuva umhlangano. "Ungacasuli, baby, umama wakho uyakuthanda, ubaba uyakuthanda." Futhi ukholelwa ngobuqotho ukuthi uyathandwa, kepha igama elithi "uthando" ekugcineni liba umbala omhlophe obandayo, kuhle kakhulu futhi kude kakhulu ... Okuhle. Ingane isheshe ibe yedwa, iyaqonda ukuthi abazali bakhe abasibo abantu bokugcina kuleli planethi, bayakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi kanye nendlela yokuhola abantu. Izingane ezinjalo zihamba ngendiza endizeni nabantu abangabazi abangababani nonogwane abaceliwe ukuba banakekele ingane, abazange bahlale bekhala futhi behlonipha ama-plaxes, abanikeza umama endlini yangasese. I-Cons. Ukuzizwa nomngane owenziwe kungaqeda ukuzijabulisa kakhulu. Izazi zengqondo zezingane ziyazi izibonelo eziningi lapho umntwana ehlubuka kakhulu kuye ngokwakhe ukuthi kwakudingekile ukuba "athole" kusukela lapho ukuya ezikhanyisweni zezokwelapha. Ukuvuthwa kokuqala kuyisungulo. Izinguquko zethu ezihlobene neminyaka zivela kuphela eminyakeni ephilayo, hhayi ngenxa yokungabi nabantu abasondelene nathi-abazali. Ngakho-ke, ukuzimela okunjalo akuyona into ngaphandle kokudumazeka kubaba nomama, ukufutheka, intukuthelo nokusabela okuyisisekelo kokuzivikela. Uhlobo luni lomzali oluzoba ngumlobi wabangani abakhelwe? Ukubanda okufanayo nokude? Noma ungafuni ukuba nezingane, ukhumbule ukuthi isikhathi esingenamusa nesikhathi eside, esibizwa ngokuthi yingane?
Futhi kuyadingeka kanjani?
Kulula ukuphendula lo mbuzo. Ayikho uhlelo oluhle, olungafanelana nobuhlobo bazo yonke imindeni ngaphandle kokuhlukile. Kodwa nokho kukhona inketho eyodwa. Yiqiniso, abazali kumele babe phezulu kwipiramidi. Uthando lwabo ludluliselwa komunye nomunye, bese lufakwe ezinganeni. Izingane ziyabona njengento yonke. Abazali baxazulula zonke izinkinga, "bangabantu". Ugogo nomkhulu bayamukelwa, futhi bangasondelana nezingane, kodwa igama lokugcina lihlale lihlelelwe umama nobaba. Lokhu kuhambisa ngaphandle kobudlova, ukuhlonipha ngaphandle kokwesaba, ubungane ngaphandle kokusebenza. Futhi ebuhlotsheni obunjalo ngeke uthole noma yikuphi ukungalungi. Ukuhlanganisa okuqinile. Kuyasihawu ukuthi abahlangane kaningi.