Indaba yokuphila kwe-heroine, ogama layo labizwa ngokuthi lesi sifo, libuhlungu kakhulu. U-Adel Hugo, indodakazi yomlobi odumile waseFrance, wabhekana nothando olungathandabuzeki ngesiphathimandla saseBrithani u-Albert Pinson. U-Adele wayengumuntu ohlakaniphile futhi onolwazi, ongase abe nekusasa elimangalisayo, ngoba uzuze ubaba kuye kuphela igama, kodwa futhi nethalenta lombhalo. Ngeshwa, uchitha wonke amandla akhe ekushushiseni umthandi wakhe. Njengomsebenzi we-Pinson wadluliselwa eCanada, wabe eseya eNdiya, futhi yonke indawo u-Adele wayethandana naye. Nakuba kwakungeyona uthando, kodwa kuyisidingo esikhulu.
U-Adele akazange ashade, wayengenayo umndeni, waqeda impilo yakhe endaweni yokukhosela kwabagulayo abaneminyaka engama-85 ubudala. Kodwa kubonakala sengathi empeleni impilo ka-Adele ompofu yaphela ngisho nangaphambili lapho eseneminyaka engaba ngu-30 futhi waya kude eCanada, elandela i-Pinson. Wabhala izincwadi ku-Albert, ozibiza ngokuthi ngumkakhe. Ngezenzo zakhe, u-Adele uphazamisa ukuzibandakanya nendodakazi yompristi. Ekugcineni, njengoba echitha yonke imali, wahola ukuphila okudabukisayo esiqhingini saseBorneo, lapho u-Pinson akhonza khona, waze wafunyanwa wabuyela eFrance.
Izimpawu
I-Syndrome I-Adeli ihlukanisa kusuka othandweni oluvamile olungathandwayo. Uma umuntu engaboni nje ukunamathela ngokomzwelo kumuntu okhethiweyo, futhi imizwa iqala ukuqondisa impilo yakhe yonke, lokhu sekuyisikhathi sokuzwakala i-alamu. Uma ngabe izwe liqalisiwe, sekuvele kungenakwenzeka ukushiya ngokuzimela.
Izisulu ze-Adélie syndrome ikakhulukazi besifazane. Ubudala, ukubukeka noma isimo senhlalo akubalulekile. Kuyiphutha ukuthatha ukuthi abesifazane abathandekayo kuphela abacatshangelwa imizwa ehlukene. Ngokuvamile, isisulu sale syndrome sithandana nomuntu ongaziwa njengombhangqwana futhi ongakwazi ukwakha ubuhlobo nanoma ubani omunye. Izazi zengqondo zibiza ukuthi abathandi abangenakujabula futhi abafuni ubudlelwane bangempela obungabhubhisa ngokushesha inkohliso yabo.
Isisulu sika-Adelie's syndrome singabonakala ngezenzo ezingenangqondo ezenza egameni luthando olungekho. Kodwa ngenkathi konke kuqalwa nje, i-Adelie's syndrome iguqulwe kahle njengokujwayelekile. Isibonakaliso sokuqala sokucaca kwengqondo yengqondo - yonke imicabango igxila kubantu kuphela. Umuntu angeke acabange noma akhulume nganoma yini enye ngaphandle kokukhanga. Ngenxa yalokho, abangane bayanyamalala kancane kancane empilweni yakhe, futhi ukungabi nokukhulumisana okwenzayo kugcizelela kuphela isimo.
Abantu abane-Adela's syndrome bavame ukuguqula isimo sabo sengqondo ekucindezelekeni okukhulu, kuze kuthokoze injabulo. Qala izinkinga ngokulala, ungafisi ukudla. Isisulu sithinteka kakhulu ekuzwa ukuthi akakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yasendlini, ayihambisani nemisebenzi yokusebenza. Iyakwehla ngokuphelele ezweni langaphandle, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo yonke into ehlanganiswe nabathandekayo iba yinto ebaluleke kakhulu. Imininingwane ehlukanisa njengama-postcard, izithombe ezingahleliwe zigcinwa ngokucophelela futhi zigcinwe, njengophawu lothando.
Ukwelapha
I-Adele's syndrome inokwethenjelwa ngokwemvelo, futhi isebenza kumuntu kanye nophuzo oludakayo, i-nicotine noma i-narcotic futhi iholela ekuhambeni okudabukisayo okufanayo. Kodwa uma indoda ibonisa amandla anesifiso nesifiso, ingakwazi ukuzihlukanisa ngokwakhe nabathandekayo bakhe ekuhluphekeni.
Ngakho-ke, njengoba imbangela eyinhloko yazo zonke izifo kuwukukhathazeka ngomuntu oyedwa, kulandela kuwo ukuze kuvezwe, noma kunzima kangakanani. B. Shaw wayeqiniseka ukuthi sihlupheka ngenxa yokuthi sinesikhathi esanele sokucabangela ukuthi sibi kangakanani. Ngakho-ke, kufanele uhlele impilo yakho ngendlela yokuthi kunesikhathi esincane sokukhululeka ngangokunokwenzeka. Zitholele ukuzilibazisa, qala ukufunda okuthile okusha, njengezilimi, uye emakilasini agibele. Into esemqoka ukuthi umsebenzi wakho uyinto entsha kuwe futhi udinga ukubuya okugcwele.
Ukuze ususe imicabango engacabangi, gxuma izinkumbulo. Khipha ngokuphuthumayo yonke into ehlotshaniswa nento yokufisa: izinhlamvu, imiyalezo efonini, ezithombeni, emakhadikhadi. Zama ukugwema izindawo lapho ukhona ndawonye. Ngokuvamile umuntu othandekayo ongathandabuzeki ubonakala enhle, engenamaphutha, kodwa lokhu akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Zama ukukhumbula ngokushiyeka kwakhe, mhlawumbe, lesi yisikhathi kuphela lapho kusetshenzwa khona ukukhumbula ama-allobeds kanye nezingxabano. Okokugcina, zama ukuziqhenya, futhi ucabange ukuthi ubuhlobo bakho buzuzisa kangakanani, futhi ngubani empeleni owawuthola ekuphumeni kwawo.