Imiqondo enjalo njenge-female libido nokubandisa kwamantombazane yaqala ukuchazwa nguSigmund Freud futhi yakha isisekelo se-psychoanalysis. Ukuhunyushwa kusuka kwisiLatin "libido" kusho isifiso, ukukhanga, isifiso, isifiso. Ukubanda kwamabesifazane, nakho kwalokho, kuyinto ehlukile.
Kukholelwa ukuthi i-libido yesifazane ayinasisekelo futhi incike ezintweni eziningi. Izitho zangasese zesifazane, ngokungafani namadoda, azikho endaweni eyodwa, kodwa zihlakazekile kuwo wonke umzimba. Ngenxa ye-psychology efihlakeleyo, inhlangano yengqondo, i-libido yabesifazane ingashintsha futhi incike ezintweni eziningi ezingahlukaniswa ngamaqembu amabili - ngokwengqondo nangokwenyama.
Izici zengqondo
Zonke zigxilwe esitatimendeni esithi "i-orgasm ekhanda lomfazi." Ukukhangwa kocansi kowesifazane kuthonywa isimo sengqondo, ukutholakala kwengane eduze kwekamelo lokulala, kanye nemisindo, iphunga, izigqoko, njll.
Izici ezingokwemvelo
Lezi zihlanganisa izikhathi zokujikeleza kokuya esikhathini. Kwavezwa ukuthi owesifazane uzizwa ekhanga kakhulu ngaphambi kokuya esikhathini, kunokulandela. Ngaphezu kwalokho, indima ebalulekile idlalwe ubuzwe obunamandla. Ngisho ne-banal-day bristles yomlingani ingabalulekile.
Izinto ezibangela ukuvela nokugcinwa kwe-libido kwabesifazane
Izici eziyinhloko ziyi:
- Ubuhlobo besethemba nomlingani
- Ukungabikho kokushintsha okungazelelwe emlandweni we-hormonal.
- Isimo sengqondo esizinzile, akukho ukucindezeleka (akulula noma ukumisa).
- Ukuphila ngokocansi njalo. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina i-libido yowesifazane, ikakhulukazi njengoba umthetho "ukubekezelela okungcono kakhulu kwabesifazane" akusebenzi.
- Ukuhlukahluka ngokocansi. Yenza izinto ezihlukahlukene ekuphileni kwakho okusondelene, ukushintsha indawo, isikhathi sokuzijabulisa ngokocansi.
- Impilo enhle yomzimba. Isifo sanoma yiluphi u-etiology yisitha sokukhangwa ngokocansi. Futhi akunandaba, kuyinto ebandayo noma isifo esingapheli.
- Ukuqeqeshwa kwemisipha yesikhumba esincane. Kubonakala ukuthi ukusebenza okuqhubekayo kokuzivocavoca okukhethekile okuhloswe ekuqinisekiseni imisipha ye-vagina ne-perineum, kubangele ukwanda kwe-libido yowesifazane.
- Ukuphila okunempilo. Ukuphila ngokweqile, umsebenzi wokuhlala phansi ehhovisi akusizi ukwandisa ukuheha owesifazane. Ngakho-ke kunconywa ukuba uhambe, ugijimi, ukudlala imidlalo esebenzayo. Lokhu, ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuzokwandisa kakhulu i-libido, futhi ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuzokwenza ukuqeqeshwa kwemisipha.
Ukuzikhukhumeza kwabesifazane ngokobulili
Ukushisa ngokweqile noma ukucwiliswa, okubizwa ngokuthi ukungahlali ngokuphelele kwesifiso sobulili kwabesifazane, kanye nemizwa yobulili njengenjabulo, ifantasy ne-orgasm. Ngokwezibalo, abesifazane abangamaphesenti angu-0.5 kuphela abahlukunyezwa. Ungasheshi ukuzitholela inombolo yakho emva kokubekwa okubili noma ezintathu embhedeni. U-Frigid wesifazane uhlala engazi izinkinga ebhedeni, ngoba uhlala ngaphandle kocansi. Kulabo besifazane, ngisho nomqondo wobudlelwane obuseduze awamukeleki, akumane umthakazelise kuye. Ngendlela efanayo nomama ojwayelekile wezindlu akafuni isitatimende se-synchrophasotron.
Izizathu zokuntuleka kwesifiso socansi kwabesifazane
Okokuqala, yisifo sesistimu ye-genitourinary. Uma kungenandaba nokusola kokutheleleka noma esinye isifo, kufanele uthintane nodokotela ngokushesha. Mhlawumbe, emva kokwelashwa, owesifazane uzomuzwa ukunambitheka kokuphila.
Okwesibili, izinkinga zengqondo. Bangabuyela ebuntwaneni lapho intombazane ikhuliswa ngokuqinile emndenini. Kungaba umphumela wokuba nesipiliyoni sokuqala socansi esingaphumelelanga, umlingani onamahloni noma ongekhohlisayo. Kulezi zimo kungcono ukuphendukela ku-sexologist.
Okwesithathu, ukwehla kokukhangwa kungokwemvelo. Ngokwesibonelo, ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, abesifazane abaningi balahlekelwa sonke isifiso sobudlelwane obuseduze, kanti abanye, ngokuphambene nalokho, bayasifisa. Ukukhangwa ngokobulili kungase kungabi khona iminyaka emibili. Ungakhathazeki, kubuya emuva emva kweminyaka engu-1-2 ngemuva kokuthi ingane imise ukondla.
Okwesine, imithi yokwelapha. Khumbula ukuthi eminye imithi inganciphisa i-libido. Futhi ukukhangisa mayelana nokwanda kokulangazelela ngosizo lwamaphilisi e-hormone kuphela ukunyakaza kokumaketha.