Ukukhulelwa konke umama wakho akunakekele, wanakekelwa, waletha konke okumnandi kakhulu futhi ewusizo, wakondla umkhwenyana wakhe ngesikhathi esesibhedlela, njll. Kodwa emva kokubeletha, waqala ukucasula ukunakekelwa kwakhe okuncane nokuphazanyiswa kuzo zonke izinto. Kubonakala kuwe ukuthi akaqondi isimo sakho sezinzwa ngemuva kokubeletha, kodwa akahlanganyeli imibono yakho yamanje ekunakekeleni nentuthuko yengane! Futhi umama, naye, uyacasuka ngenxa yokuthi wena, ngokombono wakhe, wenza konke okungalungile, awunamakhono futhi ucabanga wena ngokwakho. Nonke niyesaba, futhi isimo esisesendlini sinzima. Ugogo nomama lapho benakekela ingane bese bezama ukuletha into entsha emfundweni efanele. Ukungezwani phakathi kwakho akuyona indlela engcono kakhulu yokuthinta ingane. Ake sizame ukuthola ukuthi isizathu siyini. Ungasindisa kanjani umhlaba?
Singakwenza ngaphandle kokucindezeleka!
Ukukhathala, isifiso esiqhubekayo sokukhala, umuzwa ozwakalayo wecala phezu komntwana ngoba awukwazi ukuthi ungamnakekela kanjani manje - lezi zimpawu zibonisa ukucindezeleka kwangemva kokubeletha. Futhi ingxenye ebaluleke kunazo zonke ukuveza abathandekayo bakho ukuthi imizwa yakho ayinqunywe yi-whims, kodwa ngesimo esikhethekile se-psychosomatic esibangelwa izinguquko ze-hormone emzimbeni. Khumbula ukuthi isimo sakho sokukhathazeka sinomthelela omubi ku-lactation.
Zama ukuyichazela ngokukhululekile kunogogo wakho . Bonisa izincwadi zakhe kumagazini noma ndawonye uvakashele isazi sengqondo esizokusiza ukunqoba isimo esicindezelekile.
Ngokusemthethweni, ugogokazi bayazicabangela ochwepheshe abangenakulinganiswa kuzo zonke izindaba eziphathelene nokunakekelwa nokukhuliswa kwengane, kanye nokugcinwa kwezindlu. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo akunakunqatshwa, ngoba bakhulisa izingane zabo futhi benza kahle ngempumelelo! Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kuvela ukuthi ngisho nokufika kwabazukulu, umama uyaqhubeka ekuphatha njengesiwula futhi uhlale egxeka izenzo zakho. Kumele uzwe kuye: "Uzoyichitha ingane!" Futhi umbono wakho nomyeni wakho ngalokhu noma kulokhu okukhathalela ingane akugcini nje ukucatshangelwa. Ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi lezi zingxabano azidonseli ngaphandle futhi zingatheli ezinkingeni zomndeni, zama ukucacisa ngokucacile phakathi kwezindawo zethonya. Chaza ugogo ukuthi usizo lwakhe oludingekile ngeke lube nomntwana nomama, ngisho noma bengenalwazi futhi behluleka njengowe nomyeni wakho!
Umthwalo wengane ulele ngokuphelele emahlombe abazali, ngakho-ke ukhetha izindlela zokukhulisa nokunakekelwa! Chaza kukagogo ukuthi olunye ulwazi lwakhe lungase lusebenze iminyaka engamashumi amabili futhi sekuyisikhathi sokuzicubungula.
Siphakamisa futhi sifunda kabusha
Kuyadabukisa, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nabagogo abahamba phambili kakhulu abakwazi ukunyathela izinkolelo zabo. Isibonelo, akuvumelekile ukuthulula amanzi emva kokugeza okuhlwa noma ukuphikelela ekunceliseni ingane ngokuqondile ihora. Ukuthula, ukuhlupheka nokucasuka akufanelekile: zama ukuthula ukhulume nogogo. Izazi zengqondo zincoma zonke izindlela zokushintsha ukuziphatha okungathandeki kwabantu abaseduze kwethu. Okokuqala, zama ukuqonda ukuthi yini oshayela ugogo. Ngokuvamile lezi yizinhloso ezinhle kakhulu: uyakuthanda ngobuqotho, futhi udinga kakhulu ukuqashelwa, ukunakekelwa nokuhlonishwa. Ngesikhathi sokuthatha umhlalaphansi kwabaningi, indlela kuphela yokuthola konke ukusiza ekunakekeleni abazukulu bakho abathandekayo. Ungaba kanjani kulesi simo? Impendulo ilula: kuvame ukukhombisa uthando lwakho nokubonga kumama wakho noma umkhwekazi, ukufudumale ngomfudumalo wakho ukuze ahlale ezwa sengathi uyadingeka futhi othandekayo.
Ungamangaleli isizukulwane esidala ngokunakwa kwabo ngokweqile, ngenxa yamaphutha akukho muntu ogwemekile. Izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi abazali bavame ukugqophelisa ithonya logogo nomkhulu futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo bazinaki ukuhluleka kwabo kwezemfundo. Eqinisweni, ukungahambisani komama, ukwesaba, "ukuqashwa" okungapheliko kanye nobaba "ukuhlukunyezwa okufundiswayo" kuyalimaza ingqondo yengane kunzima kakhulu kunokuba "ugxilile" futhi "ukuvumela" kukagogo. Ubuciko bokuba ugogo wangempela ngokuqondile ukuthi bobabili abazali kanye nomntwana banombono wokuthi ngubaba nomama abafundisi abaluleke kunazo zonke.
Uzwa uthando lwakho , ugogo uzolalela kancane kancane umbono wakho. Futhi-ke ngisho nokungavumelani okunzima kakhulu ekunakekeleni ingane kuzoshabalala ngesikhathi!
Umama wanamuhla ongenqabile ukuhlala isikhathi eside enqumweni, ngokuvamile uphoqeleka ukuya emsebenzini. Futhi kulokhu, yiqiniso, umsizi omnakekeli wokunakekelwa kwengane ngumkhulu. Phela, ngubani, uma kungenjalo ugogo wakho, uzobe enakekela kahle ingane yakho ngobumnene nangomusa! Nokho, ngokuvamile kule nhlabathi kukhona umuzwa womhawu. Umama osemncane unomuzwa wokuthi ugogo wakhe uzoba nolwazi oluhle futhi unolwazi ekunakekeleni ingane yakhe, uzobona izinyathelo zokuqala zengane kuqala, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzoyishintsha enhliziyweni ye-crumb.
Ukubhekana nalesi simo akulula kakhulu . Kodwa khumbula ukuthi nguwe ongu umama, futhi akekho omunye ongakwazi ukukufaka esikhundleni sakho. Umcebo wakho uzobe ulindele kuwe emsebenzini, ukuthinta, ukwamukela, ukuhogela iphunga lakho lomdabu.
Ukuzalwa kwengane kuguqula izimiso zokuphila nezinto ezibalulekile. Futhi kwabesifazane abaningi abaphumelele ngebhizinisi, umndeni usuqala. Ungazibeki icala ngokuhlukana kusuka ekuguleni, uma uphoqeleka ukuya emsebenzini. Ingane ngeke ikuthande kancane uma uchitha naye amahora angama-24 ngosuku, kodwa kuphela 6. Ngikholelwa, uthando alulinganiswa ngamahora, kodwa ngokujulile kwemizwa nobuhlobo. Khumbula ukuthi into esemqoka ayiningi, kepha ikhwalithi!