Intombazane enenjabulo iyayidonsa udonsa, iyondla ngesipuni, igubha esitulo sabakhubazekile futhi ifundisa imithetho yokuziphatha okuhle. Ngakho-ke, ngamunye wezingane ulungiselela impilo yabantu abadala. Futhi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi izingane zizizwele kulo mdlalo ziphumelele futhi ziqinisekile. Imidlalo yamantombazane, amadodakazi omama - isihloko sokushicilelwa.
Kusukela ekulandiseni kuya ku-improvisation
Umdlalo odolobheni lonina uvame ukuqala kusukela ngesikhathi sokusungulwa kokudla okuhambisanayo: ..Lady porridge i-mishutka, i-spoon - i-Ole. "Lezi zenzo ezilula, izinyane liziphindaphinda. Empeleni, umqondo wokuthi" ukunakekelwa "- into esemqoka yokudlala kumama, . Ngokushesha nje lapho i-crumb ingayinakekeli ama-pups, i-hare-harered hare, noma idoli (kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingasithwala kanjani ithoyizi kuphela futhi ilitye), omunye angasho ukuthi esinye isinyathelo sithathwe ukuze sikhule.
• Isigaba sokuqala somdlalo (iminyaka eyi-1,5-2) silingisa izimo ezilula kakhulu zansuku zonke: i-crumb inikeza idoli, i-lulls, i-bathes.
• Esigabeni sesibili (kusukela eminyakeni engu-3), ingane ayisekho nje amakhophi ezenzo zabantu abadala, kodwa futhi udlala izigcawu ngokwakhe. Idoli noma ibhere lingase livele lisuke ku-spoon nge-porridge, lingabi nakakhulu, liyesabe noma lihleke. Inkomo encane ixhuma, ijabule, ibajezisa.
• Ingane eneminyaka engama-4-6 edlala emadodakazini kamama, kanti abantwana asebekhulile sebevele badinga ontanga. Umdlalo uba indima yendaba. Kubonisa ikhono lomntwana lokuphindaphindiwe, ukukopisha ukuziphatha kwabanye. Ngezinye izikhathi umama wentombi udlala futhi abafana, noma kunjalo, indima eyabelwe yona ngeke ibe phakathi. Umdlalo ubaba uya emsebenzini, uhamba nohambo noma uya empini. Ngokuvamile, abanye abafana bayakujabulela ukudlala ngamadonki, kodwa lokhu kudlalwa kuvame ukuhlala isikhathi esifushane. Kodwa ngamantombazane eneminyaka engu-4-6 ubudala, umama-indodakazi ngumdlalo oyinhloko futhi oyintandokazi ozolahleka emdlalweni "repertoire" kuya kokuqala noma kwamuva - ekilasini lesihlanu.
Ubaba onakekelayo
Uma umfana edlala namadonki ... Kuhle kakhulu! Lapho uneminyaka engama-2-3 ubudala, abafana, njengontanga yabo, bangathanda "ukufundisa" ingane ngenkuthalo, bamondle nge spoon bese behamba nomgibeli. Lo mdlalo udonsa umntanakhe ukuba athuthukise ngokomzwelo.Uthola isipiliyoni esisha, ezama izindima ezihlukene zomphakathi: ubaba emdlalweni, indodakazi, unina, udokotela, uma izingane zidlala esibhedlela .Izimo ezinemibandela yezenzo (konke okwenzekayo kumnandi) kwenza umcabango usebenze ngokwengeziwe. Ngesizo samapayipi nama-pups, abafana, njengamantombazane, bafunde ukuqonda nokuxhumana nomhlaba. ithuba hamba wena kusukela ngaphandle ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuqonda ezinye, aqede uhlobo ezingokwengqondo, ngo "ulingisa" liphambana.
Thenga idoli
Idoli yokuqala kufanele inikezwe kungakapheli iminyaka engaphezu kwesigamu nesigamu. Kuze kube yileso sikhathi, ingane izoyiphatha njengeyinye into yokudlala, ezama ukuqonda ukuthi uthanda ukuthini. Ngakho maduzane i-doll ebiza kakhulu izoxoshwa kwezinye izingxenye. Kamuva inyane, libukele indawo ehlala kuyo, lithola ukuthi ngaleli thoyizi ungayenza imisebenzi eminingi enomlinganayo. Ukugeza, ukushintsha izingubo - ukuphathwa okunjalo ingane izophinda nsuku zonke. Ngakho-ke kulesi sigaba sokuqashelwa kwezwe, okulungile kakhulu akuyona into enhle kakhulu, kodwa njengamathoyizi asebenzayo. Isibonelo, amadokodo ama-rag, athambile futhi amnandi kulokhu okuthinta. Noma amathoyizi enziwe nge-plastiki eguquguqukayo ehlanzwa kahle. Intombazane engaphezu kweminyaka emibili kufanele ivele isithenge idonsa enenwele ende, engasuswa, icwecwe futhi iboshwe kuma-pigtails. Lapho ukhetha ithoyizi, cabanga ukuthi ngeke ibe ngumqhubi womzwelo kuphela, amafantasti wengane, kodwa futhi uzoshiya uphawu kumlingisi walo. Ukudideka kwezithombe zabesifazane nezingane, okufana nezidakamizwa zanamuhla, kuphazamisa okweqile: kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unakekele udonsa, noma uzame ukufana naye. Izazi zengqondo eziningi zezingane zincoma ukushiya amadokodo abonisa abesifazane abadala. Phela, u-Masha, uBarbie noma uKatya abadingi ukunakekelwa komama. Ngakho-ke, umdlalo wendabuko kumama-indodakazi nabo ngeke usebenze. Ekuboneni kokuqala, kulungile. Kodwa-ke, kusebuntwaneni ukuthi imodeli yokuziphatha komama esikhathini esizayo isethwe. Ukubusa okunye: idoli akudingeki ukuba nobulili. Ingane ngokwayo inquma ukuthi uzoba ngubani phakathi nomdlalo.
Ukuhamba nomgibeli
Emva kweminyaka engu-2-3 umdlalo kancane kancane uba nzima, kunesidingo sezifundo ezintsha. Isibonelo, ngosizo lwezinto zokudlala, ungakwazi ukuhlela itiye lokuphuza. Lokhu akuyona nje injabulo, kodwa futhi nesifundo esiwusizo. Ukuthuthukisa amakhono amancane omoto, ingane ithola umqondo wevolumu: ufunda ukuthulula amanzi, ukuma ngesikhathi. Enye into esetshenziselwa umdlalo kusukela esikhathini esifanayo umthambeli. Ukuhamba nomqhubi wesitokisi kuthuthukisa amakhono amakhulu omntwana wengane, kudala ukuxuba, ngoba umntwana kufanele aphenduke, wehla bese ekhuphuka.
Sibheka kokubili!
Abazali, umdlalo kumama-indodakazi kungaba yindawo yokugcina yangempela yolwazi oluwusizo. Ukubona okungaqondakali komdlalo wendodakazi (indodana) enehlengolo kuyokuvumela ukuba wazi kangcono ingane yakho. Kubalulekile ukungaphazamisi esenzweni futhi ukuphawula ngalokho okwenzekayo. Emdlalweni onodoli, ingane yenza izindima ezimbili - amadodakazi nomama. Ukukhuluma ngedoli, amazwi aphikisayo izifiso zayo ("Angifuni ukuya enkulisa!"), Ukwesaba ("Ngesaba ukuthi ubumnyama"), intukuthelo ("Uthembise ukuthi uzoya nami e-zoo!"). Kodwa ukunakwa okunye kufanele kufanelwe indima. ukhuluma nengane? Ingabe uhlale ezolile noma ephuma kuye ngokwakhe? Ingabe uyayinakelela ingane noma nje imnakekele? Ingabe umama uvame ukudumisa? Kuyasiza kakhulu futhi umdlalo ohlangene emadodakazini omama. Uma udlala idokodo, ingane izophendula imibuzo, okukhathalelayo (ungabuza udonsa lokho angakuthandi, ukuthi uzizwa kanjani). Isibonelo, uma ingane encane idonsa isitolo esitolo, ngosuku olulandelayo, mcele ukuba adlale indima yomzali.Ingagxiliswa ngokubonisa okungenasisekelo, kodwa akusizi ngalutho ukudweba okufana nemicimbi yangempela - indoda encane eqinile iyoziqagela.
Yini emdlalweni okufanele ixwayise?
• Ukuhlukunyezwa okuqinile. Ukuphahlazeka kuthinta noma kuphula idonsa. Lesi yisikhathi sokuzindla, mhlawumbe ukhethe umzila oqinile wokuziphatha nomntanakho, umjezisa kakhulu ngokungaziphathi kahle.
• Izindaba eziphindaphindiwe. Ingane ilahlekelwa isimo esifanayo. Isibonelo, indodakazi iphinda iphinde idonsa ngokuphindaphindiwe: "Uyintombazane embi, udinga ukucela imbiza!" Kungenzeka ukuthi, ngesifiso sabo sokujwayela ingane ebhodweni, abazali baye baqeda umthamo. Umdlalo ubonisa ukulwa, impikiswano, ingozi emgwaqweni, ukudlala lezi zikhathi kuzomsiza ingane ukuthi isuse izinkumbulo ezesabekayo.
• Izisusa zobulili. Uma kukhona "izigcawu zokulala" emdlalweni, akudingeki uthintwe yi-little-know-all, kodwa ukubuyela kwengqondo kwengane. Lolu lwazi oluthola ngaphambi kwesikhathi lungalimaza i-psyche.