Imidlalo enkulu noma imidlalo kuwe
Umbuzo wokuqala, okufanele abazali baphendule ngawo, umbuzo wezemidlalo ezemidlalo nemidlalo "wena ngokwakho." Uma ufuna ingane yakho ingenele emidlalweni yezempilo kanye nenjabulo - lokhu kuyinto eyodwa, futhi nakwezinye, uma uphupha kuso kwi podium.
Nansi indaba evamile evamile. Abazali banquma ukuthi ingane yabo iyoba, isibonelo, i-Skater skater. Bayakhetha esikoleni sezemidlalo nomqeqeshi ngokucophelela. Umntwana uphuthukiswe kahle ngokomzimba, idatha kulo mdlalo onayo, njengoba umqeqeshi esho. Ingane ibhekene nenjabulo, yenza inqubekela phambili, isivele ikhuluma emincintiswaneni. Kodwa ... Ekuqaleni, amakilasi ayephindwe kathathu ngesonto, amane, futhi manje ayisithupha. Ezifundweni zengane kumele zihanjiswe, zilinde ukuphothulwa kwazo. Kunemincintiswano ehloniphekile. Iqhwa linikezwa namhlanje ngo-6 ekuseni, futhi kusasa ngehora leshumi nanye kusihlwa. Khona-ke uhambo oluya kwelinye idolobha. Ingane idinga ukuhambiswa. Umama kwakudingeka ayeke umsebenzi wakhe, ngoba ugogo kakade akalondolozi isigqi esinjalo. Suit, skates ... Njalo isikhathi udinga okuthile. Lapho ingane yami eneminyaka engu-7 ubudala isinconywa esikoleni se-Olympic, abazange bakwazi ukuma futhi banquma ukuthi imidlalo enkulu ayiyena kubo. Umfana ohlakaniphile onesimo esivele esakhiwe ngesikhathi sokuqeqeshwa, uzothola indawo yakhe empilweni.
Ngakho, lapho benquma umbuzo wezemidlalo, abazali kufanele baphendule imibuzo emibili:
- Ingabe ingane inezinhloso zemidlalo yezemidlalo?
- Ungakwazi yini ukuzidela ngokuziphathisa nokuziphatha ngenxa yendodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho impumelelo?
Uma unquma ukuthi umdlalo omkhulu awusiwo kuwe, futhi ufuna nje ukuthi ingane yakho ikhule kahle futhi ithuthukiswe kuzo zonke izikhombisi-ndlela, khona-ke ungayinika noma yiliphi isigaba sezemidlalo elikufanisa ngesizathu esisodwa noma esinye. Ungashintshi - shintsha. Into eyinhloko ukuthi izifundo ziletha injabulo kumntwana, nawe. Futhi lapha into esemqoka akuyona umphumela, kodwa inqubo.
Uma ungafuni ukuthi ingane ibe umdlali, yifinyelele kakhulu.
Ukuze wenze uhlobo oluthile lwezemidlalo kuyadingeka ukuthi ingane ikwazi ukukwazi ukusebenza ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Ngalokhu okusho ukuthi ingane kufanele iqonde imiyalo yomqeqeshi nomthetho, uma lokhu kungokwesibonelo, umdlalo weqembu. Zama ingane yengxenye eyodwa nesigamu ukufundisa imithetho yomdlalo webhola lebhola. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi uzophumelela. Kulesi sikhathi ingane ayikwazi ukuhlanganyela emidlalweni yezemidlalo noma ezemidlalo yokuncintisana. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abaqeqeshi abasebenza nezingane, futhi, hhayi kakhulu.
Nini ukuqala
Ukumiswa kwengane emdlalweni othile kubonakala eminyakeni engu-5 kuya kweyengu-7. Kodwa-ke, ungakwazi ukunikeza ingane engxenyeni engaphambili, kepha isipiliyoni sikhombisa ukuthi ngokuvamile ukukhetha umdlalo osemncane kuyiphutha. Ngakho-ke, eminyakeni engu-3-4 ungakwazi ukuzibandakanya kulezo zemiidlalo ezithuthukisa ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba, futhi ungagxili ukuthuthukisa uhlobo oluthile lwamakhono ngabanye. Yingakho kunganconywa ukubhekana "nemigomo eyodwa" noma "impi eyodwa" ehlomile (badminton, tennis). Nakuba namuhla kunabaqeqeshi nezinhlelo ezixazulula le nkinga, kodwa hhayi kakhulu.
Isimiso nemidlalo
Uma ukhetha isigaba sezemidlalo kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuziphatha komntwana. Isimiso sinikezwa kumuntu wemvelo futhi sihlala naye ngokuphila, sinezinguquko ezincane kuphela, kuye ngezimo zangaphandle.
I-Sanguine
Umntanakho uyaphila futhi unomzwelo. Ngokushesha uphendula kuzo zonke izenzakalo ezenzeka nxazonke. Sibiza lo mntwana umuntu onamahloni, futhi umane nje ufuna ukungenela ezemidlalo. Angaba umdlali ohle kakhulu. Uma ungacabangi ezinye izici zomzimba, angakwazi ukuzibandakanya kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lwezemidlalo. Kodwa okuningi kuzomheha, lapho angabonisa ngokucacile izimfanelo zakhe. Ama-sanguinists anqoba ukunqoba izithiyo futhi afakaze ukuthi "angcono kunawo wonke." Ingane yakho cishe iyoba nemidlalo nekarati. Kungaphinda kuphumelele kulezo zemidlalo ezibandakanya ingozi kanye nenjabulo, isibonelo, ukuphumula kwezintaba. Ithimba lezemidlalo nalo lifanelekile kubantwana abanjalo, ngoba bathola kalula ulimi oluvamile nabanye abantu.
I-Choleric
Umama wakho unomlingani ongalingani. Uhleka giggly, futhi ngemva kwesikhashana uyakhala. Isimo sengqondo sishintsha ngaso leso sikhathi, futhi kunzima ukubhekana nokudabuka kwakhe ngokomzwelo. Ingane yenza konke masinyane, ngentshiseko, ngokuphazamiseka. Ingane yakho i-choleric. Udlalwa kalula yibhizinisi elisha, kodwa uchitha amandla akhe futhi usheshe akhathele.
Ingane enjalo ivame ukuthinta kakhulu. Abantu abathandekayo bathanda imidlalo yeqembu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, azikhathaleli ezemidlalo ezinobudlova - ibhoksi, ukulwa nokunye. I-Choleric idinga ukushaywa kwamandla, ngakho-ke idinga imidlalo ukuze ichithe.
I-Phlegmatic
Ingane yakho ihamba kancane, unomuntu ozolile, ongenakwenzeka. Akathandi ukuveza imizwa yakhe ngamandla. Uze wambize ngokuthi "ifilosofi yethu". I-phlegmatic. Ingane enjalo ibonisa ukuphikelela njalo nokuphikelela ekufinyeleleni umgomo, ngenkathi uhlala uzolile. Ukuphuza kwakhe kunxephezela ngokuzikhandla (noma ukubekezela).
Abacwaningi bezemvelo ngokuvamile baqinile. Ngakho-ke, imidlalo efanelekayo, lapho ukukhuthazela kusendaweni yokuqala. Igijima amabanga amade, ukuphumula, ukulinganisa umzimba. Mhlawumbe, uzothanda ubuciko bokulwa empumalanga.
Enye yeziphambeko ze-phlegmatic ingabhekwa njengenkani, ngakho-ke kudingeka uqaphele ukudlala kwezemidlalo ukuze angadluleli futhi ngenxa yalokho akazange anqabe ukungena emidlalweni.
I-Melancholic
Umntanakho uzwela kakhulu, unokwethenjelwa, uyalimala ngokomzwelo, uhlale ezwa. Kuyinto encibilikisayo. Kunzima ngaye ukuba ahlanganyele emidlalweni esebenzayo. Kodwa uma ebonisa isithakazelo kunoma imuphi umdlalo, makenze lokho. Abazali kufanele babheke isimo sakhe sengqondo nesimo sengqondo. Ukuhlambalaza umqeqeshi, ukuxabana nezinye izingane kungamholela ekuphazamiseni kwemizwa. Kodwa-ke, uma ethatha isinyathelo esisodwa, angaphumelela, isibonelo, abe ngumfana omuhle.
Izilwanyana ezincelisayo, ngakho-ke zingakwazi ukuya emidlalweni yama-equestrian.
Kakisvestno, kusukela kunoma yikuphi ukubusa kukhona okuhlukile. Qaphela ngokucophelela ingane ngokucophelela cabanga ngamakhono akhe.
Ukukhula!