Indlela yokuhlala uthanda futhi uthanda?
Qaphela ihlazo eliyisisekelo. Indoda ayiyona ingane kunoma yini umuntu futhi indoda yakho ihlukile, futhi owesifazane kufanele aqonde lokhu. Ngakho-ke, lona wesifazane uyalulekwa ukuba asuse izindlela zokuhlanzeka kwesifazane futhi indlu yangasese ingcono ukuvala i-nazamok. Umbulali oyinhloko wezocansi phakathi kobambisene usuke eba yi-stale kanye nalo lonke uhlelo lokuphila. Futhi ungikholelwe lokhu akuyona indlela yokugcizelela ukuthembela kokubili. Amadoda nawo akhathazekile - "ukulula okungokomoya" kanye nokwehla kwansuku zonke ngokushesha kususa yonke imizwa nokuthokozisa, ikakhulukazi uma iziphepho ze-hormonal zancipha.
Fihla umzimba wakho. Amadoda ahlobene kanjani nentombazane enezintombi ehambahambayo - indoda ekhululekile ingagxilisa amehlo akhe ngokujabula futhi iphakamisa izithupha zakhe, futhi indoda engashadile cishe ingasabela ngokudabuka ukuthi iyakhathazeka ngokushesha, ngisho noma intombazane inenhle kakhulu. Ngokuvamile, lapho siphuma emgwaqweni, thina, simi phambi kwesibuko, sizikhandla, sibheke izingubo, ama-blades kanye neziketi. Futhi lokhu konke ukuxubana nabantu abangajwayelekile, futhi, ngokuba nabathandekayo ekhaya, sibheka inhlanhla futhi siya kwenye into. Ngakho, sibonisa ukungahloniphi ekhaya. Ngaphezu kwalokho, singabonwa okwesikhashana, okuzayo esikhathini esizayo kungashintsha ukuwa kobuhlobo. Isixazululo esihle kakhulu kuyoba ukugqoka izingubo ezihle futhi ezinhle ekhaya futhi akudingeki kwenziwe nge-silika kanye ne-lace. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, izingubo zangaphansi zokugqoka kanye ne-negligee ecasulayo ayikhanseliwe. Ukuqaphela ukunemba, futhi okufanayo okudingwa kumuntu.
Ungabi nezinkinga zomunye nomunye. Ngokuvamile, abesifazane bakhononda kumuntu othandekayo. Kodwa-ke, uyakwazi ukulalela, ukugubha ikhanda, ukufaka ihlombe lomuntu njengendwangu yokugqoka. Kodwa ukugcoba kusihlwa akukwazi ukubuyisa isifiso ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwakho, ngisho nokugcoba okungenabungozi kubhidliza ubuhlobo. Thola izihloko ezithakazelisayo nezokuphila zokuxoxisana nabathandekayo bakho, ngokwesibonelo, wabelane ngokubona kwakho okuhambelanayo kokuvakashela i-movie, yaseshashalazini, ikhonsathi. Uma usutholile icala lokuzizwa, wabelane ngazo nalowo othanda wena, uma kukhona imizwelo eminingi emihle, izingxoxo mayelana nokuphila kwansuku zonke ziyokwehla. Ungafunda futhi ngokuzwakalayo, ungaqala, isibonelo, izincwadi ezithandekayo zezingane. Izindlela ezinjalo zizosiza ukubuyisela ubuhlobo obufanayo.
Funda ukuhlukumeza izikhalazo. Ukuthukuthela mhlawumbe ngumbulali onamandla kunawo wonke wezocansi, okushiya ukungaqapheli nokubhubhisa ukukhangwa ngokobulili phansi. Khona - ikhethini nentombazane. Kunzima kakhulu ukuya ocansini nendoda eyayikhohlwa futhi usuku lomshado, ikhuluma nentombi yangaphambili, ihlukumeza umama wakho. Ngakho-ke, ukulala nomhlukumezi, shiya zonke izono ngemuva komngcele wekamelo lokulala, noma nhlobo ungangeni ekamelweni lokulala. Ukulala nomuntu, qiniseka ukuthi awunayo imicabango emibi ngaye. Ngemuva kokuzama kanye ucansi, okuqukethe izikhalazo zakudala, ukuphinde ubone lokhu konke ngokuqinisekile ukuthi ngeke ufune. Kudingekile ukuthi ufunde ekuqaleni, thola ubudlelwane ngokukhuluma nendoda, bese kuthi lapho konke kulungiswa ukuya ekamelweni ukubuyisana okuthandanayo.
Qaphela ibanga elidingekile. Ngemuva komshado, iminyaka embalwa ungalala ndawonye, bese kungcono ukulala ematithini ahlukene. Akuwona wonke owesifazane ozwa kahle lapho umyeni wakhe ebona ubuso obusha obuhle nezinwele ezingenakulinganiswa zowesifazane wakhe. Kodwa ngokuvamile abantu abashadile balala ndawonye, ngoba bajwayele "ukuthathwa kanjalo", futhi lokhu kubi kakhulu ekubuthweni. Iqiniso elithakazelisayo ukuthi i-aristocracy kanye nezinye izikhulu zazo zonke izizwe nezikhathi zinezindlu zokulala ezihlukene. Le ndlela yayinezincazelo zayo - isikhala somuntu siqu sigcinwe. Ngakho-ke, uma uthola ithuba lokulala ngokwehlukana, sebenzisa.