Imikhuba nokuqeda ukukhulelwa ekukhuleni

Amathrendi ekuzalweni kwezingane ashintshile emashumini eminyaka amuva. Ukukhulelwa eminyakeni yobudala kuyafana kakhulu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi imishado engasekho, ukuqala komsebenzi wabafazi, noma isimo sezempilo besifazane akuyazi. Kodwa kusobala ukuthi abesifazane abaningi banquma ukuba nabantwana emva kweminyaka engama-35-40. Lo mkhuba uqhubeka njalo, ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukuthatha isikhundla kusengaphambili, uma ufunde zonke izinzuzo nezindleko zokukhulelwa ekukhuleni.

Izinzuzo

Enye yezinzuzo ezinkulu kakhulu zokukhulelwa kwesikhathi esikude ukuthi kubonakala sengathi uvuthiwe kakhulu, owesifazane ulungele ukubeletha nokunakekela izingane. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi abesifazane asebekhulile babhekana nezinguquko ezincane kakhulu noma ukucindezeleka, okuvamile ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Okuhlangenwe nakho kokuphila okukhulu "omama" kuyabenza bakulungele kangcono izinkinga kanye nezinguquko zezinto eziphilayo uma kuqhathaniswa nabasikati abasha abasakhetha indlela ekuphileni.

Abesifazane abakhulile baqeqeshwa futhi banokuzithiba okukhulu ukuze bangadli ukudla neziphuzo ezingamlimaza yena nengane yakhe yesikhathi esizayo. Bakwazi ukubhekana nokucindezeleka kalula futhi bazi ukuthi bangaphumelela kanjani ekukhulelweni nasekubelethweni ngokukhululekile. Ziyakhathalela kakhulu izinkinga ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, okungenakusho ngabesifazane abasebasha. Ngakho-ke, bayakwazi ukugwema izinkinga ngokuzalwa kwengane, ngokuthuthukiswa kwezifo ezibelethwe.

I-Cons

Yiqiniso, kunezici eziningi ezimbi zokuqala kokukhulelwa ekukhuleni. Abesifazane abasebasha bayashesha kakhulu ukuphumula ekubelethweni kunabesifazane abaneminyaka ekhulile, efuna isikhathi eside. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngemva kokuzinakekela iminyaka eminingi, owesifazane ovuthiwe kunzima ukuzivumelanisa nendima eyengeziwe yomama wengane encane.

Ukukhulelwa esikhathini esilandelayo akubandakanyi ukuthi kungenzeka ingane yesibili, ngoba iwashi lezinto eziphilayo liyabheka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuthambekela kwezingane ezikhungethwe ngabazali abaneminyaka yobudala kuyingozi ekusongeni ubuhlobo babo emva kweminyaka eminingana. Ukukhulelwa kwesikhathi eside akukaze kubhekwe njengesiqiniseko sokubhekana nezinkinga, nakuba amathuba okuba nezinkinga aphansi uma owesifazane eqinile ngokomzimba, ehlangenwe nakho uma engakaze ahlaselwe isisu noma ukungabi namntwana.

Kungase kube nezinye izinkinga ekukhulelwe emva kweminyaka engama-35. Lokhu kuyisisu sokuqala, ingozi yokuba umntwana azalwe nge-chromosomal engavamile noma ingozi yokukhulelwa kwesisu. Ingozi yokuthuthukisa isifo sikashukela, ukucindezeleka kwegazi noma isimo sezokwelapha zesisu kukhula nangesikhathi semama.

Kunezinye izici eziningi ezingozi ezithinta abesifazane abangaphezu kuka-35 abanquma ukuba omama. Ngakho-ke, kuyinto efiselekayo ukufunda izincwadi ezengeziwe ngalesi sihloko, ukutadisha yonke inzuzo nokuziqhenya ukuze wazi kahle izimpikiswano ezahlukene futhi wenze isinqumo esifanele.