Ezimweni ezinjalo, indima enkulu ingowomuntu. Ukukhuthazela okubi komuntu kungaholela ekuphikeleni ama-coitus, vaginismus, njll. Umqondo wokuqala awukwazi ukusulwa noma ukhohliwe. Ucwaningo lubonile ukuthi abangaphezu kwesigamu sabesifazane babheka ukuqina komphumela wezocansi zabo ezingaphumelelanga kuqala. Ngenxa yalokho, amadoda ahlukene angenzeka, kodwa akakwazi ukushintsha okuningi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthando nomuntu othandekayo uhlangabezane naye esikhathini esizayo, akanayo okudingeka akwenze.
Ungacabangi umbono wabanye mayelana nalokhu, ngoba umbono walesi senzakalo ungumuntu ngamunye. Intombazane ngayinye inayo eyakhe kanye nobulili bayo bokuqala.
Ake sikhulume ngobuhlungu. Iningi lamantombazane ahlambalaza adlula cishe kungenabuhlungu. Khumbula imithetho esemqoka yezocansi zokuqala zentombazane: isimo somzwelo sithatha indima eqinile, kuqala kuqala amandla okufisa .. Uma uzizwa ukuthi isifiso sakho sihle, usulungele ukulala nalo muntu, ngeke kube nokuhlupheka. Ukwesaba kudlala indima engafanele. Ukwesaba okukhulu kungavimbela ukukhangwa. Kulesi simo, kungenzeka ukuthi uvumelane nemisipha yegciwane lesifazane, okuvimbela ipenisi futhi kungabangela ubuhlungu. Kwanele ukuba le ntombazane ihlale phansi futhi konke kuzohamba ngokuhlukile. Kwezinye izimo, owesifazane uzwa ubuhlungu okwesikhashana. Ezenzweni zobulili ezalandela lokhu akukwenzeki. Yiqiniso, phakathi kwezenzo zobulili zokuqala nezalandela kumele kudlule isikhathi esanele sokuthola.
Ngokuvamile lokhu kwenzeka ezinsukwini ezintathu kuya kwezinhlanu. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, izinyembezi ziphethwe ngamakhoba. Kulokhu, uma i-psyche ingalimala okokuqala, ukuzwa okujabulisayo kungenzeka. Ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi owesifazane uthola ukwaneliseka, ezimweni eziningi kuphela ngenxa ye-caresses yendoda,
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi ukuhlaziya akudingeki kwenzeke ngesikhathi.
Uma ubuhlungu bukhulu, ungenza imizamo eminingana.
Izinzuzo zemizamo eminingana zilandelayo:
Ngomzamo wonke, ukwesaba kuyanyamalala, umgodi we-hymen ukwanda, okunciphisa ubuhlungu. Ezimweni eziningi, uma uhlukanisa nobuntombi kukhona ukuphuma kancane, kodwa ezimweni eziyishumi ngaphandle kwekhulu akukwenzeka .
Kunoma yikuphi, owesifazane nowesifazane kufanele baqaphe ngokucophelela ukuhlanzeka.
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi ikhondomu nayo iyadingeka kulezi zimo. Le ntombazane yalimala, nakuba ingenasidingo, kodwa ihlukumezekile. Ikondomu izokuvikela ezifweni. Ngokombono wokuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ukhulelwe okokuqala akufani neze kwabanye ukuze ikhondomu ibuye futhi, uma ukukhulelwa kungathandeki.
Ithuba lokubamba ukutheleleka ngokokuqala ngqa alikho kunezinye izenzo zobulili.
Ngenxa yalokho, izifo ze-venereal, ukuvutha okuhlukahlukene, njll kungenzeka.
Ukuphepha - lokhu kuyimfuneko eyisisekelo okumelwe ihlangane kunoma yiliphi isondo, ubulili bokuqala bentombazane kule ndaba akuyona into ehlukile. Ngakho-ke kulandela ukuthi kufanele kube nendawo efanele lapho uzobe ukhululekile khona, kufanele uqiniseke ngendoda, kufanele ukhumbule ngokuphathelene nokuhlanzeka nokuvikelwa komuntu siqu. Ukuphepha nokuhlanzeka kumele kube yimithetho esemqoka yezocansi zokuqala zentombazane.
Kunomthetho owodwa obaluleke kakhulu wezocansi zokuqala ezingekho. Kuyadingeka ukuba uhlolwe yi-gynecologist. Kubalulekile ukwenza lokhu njalo, kodwa emva kokuqala kocansi, lokhu kufanele kwenziwe, ngoba kuwe kube khona ushintsho olukhulu. Uzoqiniseka ngokungabikho kwezifo, ukulimala kwezitho zangasese. Udokotela uzakutusa indlela efanele yokuvikelwa. Lezi yimithetho esemqoka. Zama ukuzikhumbula.