Ukucindezeleka kuhlanganisa ikhanda futhi kungaba isifiso sokunyamalala emhlabeni wonke. Inkinga ukuthi akukho ndawo. Ngakho-ke ukusebenza emsebenzini wonke kuya phezulu, izingxabano ezihlala ekhaya. Indoda eseceleni kwekhanda lakhe yaphuka efuna impendulo, okudingayo. Kodwa kuzo zonke izinto ezinjalo ezijabulisayo nezokudala ozizwayo ... akekho.
Inkinga yengxenye enhle yesintu impela ukuthi iyinto enhle, ngakho-ke idinga ukuvuselelwa njengento enhle njengoba injalo. Inkinga yobuhle ifika ngokushesha noma kamuva ekuphileni kwabesifazane noma intombazane. Iqiniso liwukuthi nakuba singashadile, sihamba nabangani ngemiboniso, iminyuziyamu kanye nemidwebo, njll. Kodwa uma owesifazane eshada, uhlu oluphuthumayo lwamacala luvele ngokushesha, ngenxa yokuthi amahle angabonakali. Yebo, futhi phakathi kwamadoda awutholi ngokuvamile ukuthola abathandi bokuhle. Bayawusebenzisa kangcono imali bese beya endaweni yokudlela, noma bazothenga amathayi amasha emotweni, "kuhle, futhi," bafilosofi. Kodwa, ngalokhu, amadoda angalungile, uma ayeka ukudla imbali yabo, umkami, amanzi kanye namanyolo, ngokushesha maduze.
Uma indoda yakho ingeyona isigaba sabamele abesilisa abaqine ubulili abangenakuphikisa ukuya egalari noma embukisweni wezithombe, ngakho-ke kufanele nakakhulu ucabange ngendima yobuhle bezwe elizungezile ekuphileni kwabesifazane bonke. Ngakho-ke, yenza uhlelo, yiziphi izindawo ongavakashela futhi ngokujwayelekile okufanele ukwenze ukuze uhlangane nehle.
1. Kubalulekile ukuvakashela amamyuziyamu, imibukiso nemiboniso. Akuxhomeke ekutheni kuyimfashini, yanamuhla noma ethandwayo, kufanele ugxile ezidingweni zangaphakathi, hhayi ngezwi elivamile. Ungaya emnyuziyamu we-lore wendawo, ngaphandle kokuthi ugijimele ngokugcwele, uhlole izinto ezithakazelisayo kakhulu, futhi ekhaya ufune imininingwane eyengeziwe. Ilukuluku lwakho luzoqeqesha inkumbulo yakho futhi lube namandla okuzithuthukisa.
2. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufunda ama-classic. Into eyinhloko ukunqoba izinkolelo, okuyinto enhle futhi engathandeki. Ngemuva kwalokho, bafaka kithi esikoleni, ngoba saphoqeleka ukuba sifunde, futhi konke okuphoqelelwe ukuba kwenziwe ngokucindezela kubhekwa njengokungathandeki. Futhi ngokuvamile umbono uphutha ukuthi i-classic iphathelene nezindaba eziphakeme nezinye izinto ezingenangqondo. Lezi zincwadi ziphathelene nemizwa, ubudlelwane babantu, mayelana nokuhlangenwe nakho kanye nezinkolelo ezinhlobonhlobo ezahlukene.
3. Akudingekile ukuba ucabange ukuthi konke okuhle kufihliwe emazentweni nasemamyuziyamu, kanye namanothi obuhle angatholakala emaphandleni asezindaweni zasemadolobheni.
Esikhathini esithile esidlule umculi, ebona owesifazane osekhulile owayehamba emanzini okudosa, egxuma ngokubonga. Ngoba lapho ephendukela kuye - ezandleni zakhe kukhona amanothi, endala nokuzibamba, omunye umuntu owakhipha. Lesi simo sabangela ukukhathazeka okungavamile ngokomzwelo, ngoba ukungathembeki ngabantu abasebenzisa lesi sikhundla sekusekhona kakade, kodwa izenzo ezingalindelekile zidukisa. Yenza ucabangisise impilo yakho yonke. Ngakho-ke, akufanele ucabange ngokuqondile futhi ubheke ubuhle kuphela ezindaweni ezikhethiwe.
4. Ukuhamba eduze komuzi wasekhaya, hlela uhlobo lwamabhononi, okungukuthi, khumbula ukuthi yini futhi ubone kuphi lapho uhle khona. Kungaba yisikhumbuzo, futhi mhlawumbe isikwele esijwayelekile, konke kuxhomeke emandleni emcabango wakho. I-plus enkulu nenhlonipho ngawe owazi ukuthi mangaki amanani omlando womlando asemadolobheni akho. Futhi uma ungazi, ke hamba uhambo lomuzi wendawo. Kuzwakala ukuthi, kungenangqondo, kodwa uzomangala ngenani lezindaba, izimfihlakalo ezifihla izindonga zomuzi. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ungabonisa ulwazi lwakho uma izivakashi ezisuka kwenye idolobha ziza kuwe, ziyamangala ngokumathwala kolwazi lwabo.
5. Uma ubuyela ekhaya, akudingeki ukhethe umzila, endleleni owazi ngayo bonke abadlulayo kanye nawo wonke amagatsha asemgwaqweni, bakhethe into entsha neyinkimbinkimbi.
6. Endleleni eya ekhaya, ungaboni nje kuphela amahle amahle namagugu okwakhiwa, ukubuka abantu. Thatha umthetho ukuze ungabizi abantu ababi, hhayi ukubheka amaphutha, ngoba ayikho ekahle futhi bonke banamaphutha. Futhi kuwo wonke umuntu kunento ekhethekile, enhle kakhulu. Zama ukuthola lokhu futhi uhloniphe ubuhle bamehlo omuntu obonakala sengathi akahle kakhulu.
7. Ungakhohlwa, enhle kunazo zonke, yilokho okwenziwe yimvelo. Qaphela izinguquko esibhakabhakeni ngaphambi kwemvula ... Khumbula ukuthi ebuntwaneni ungase ugijime ngamapuludle afudumele bese uthola injabulo enkulu kangaka. Ukukhumbula lesi simo esibucayi, maduze uzofunda ukuthi ungabuyisela kanjani, buyisele kusukela ebuntwaneni.
Futhi uma zonke lezi zici zingaphefumulelwe noma zinconywa ukuba ziphefumulane ngokubambisana nobuhle bezwe elizungezile, khona-ke kufanele ziqinisekise amanothi okungazithembi ngezansi.
Ihlelo lobuhle nokuntuleka kwalo
Ngeshwa, indima yobuhle bezwe elizungezile empilweni yowesifazane isithole incazelo ehlukile namuhla kunangaphambili. Ngenxa yombono owephutha, ubuhle bobuhle buphumelele emphakathini. Ukuvakashelwa nsuku zonke emasimini e-gym kanye nobuhle kuye kwaba yinto evamile kwabesifazane banamuhla. Sizungezwe abesifazane abalungile, abahlanzeka kahle, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, bona, nabo bonke abantu bezwe, babhekana nokungabi nokucindezeleka ngokomzwelo, ukwehla kobuhle obungokomoya. Emva kwakho konke, uma ubeka ukukhetha phambi komuntu wesifazane, hamba egalari noma uya ezitolo, ngeke akhathazeke ukukhetha okulandelayo.
Yiqiniso, kukhona okukhethwa kukho okwesibili, okusikisela ukuthi abesifazane abazinikeli isikhathi sobuhle, ngoba abanaso isikhathi esanele nemali yokuya emyuziyamu nemiboniso. Kodwa, ngeshwa, ngisho nalokhu iqiniso alulungiseli muntu, ngoba akekho ovimbela ukufunda izincwadi zakudala noma ukuhamba kusihlwa. Khumbula okungenani imbongi ukuthi, ngenkathi ehlala emaphandleni, athole isikhathi sokwakha, abazange bafunde nje, bayidala, ngakho-ke namhlanje sasizungezwe ubuhle.
Ngokwebuciko besikhathi esidlule, noma kunjalo, umbono wobuhle uphambene, nakuba kungadingeki sikhiphe iqiniso lokuthi namuhla akudalwanga. Dala! Futhi asiwamukeli ezimweni eziningi ngokuqondile ngenxa yokucabanga okungafani, kodwa uma uthanda ukuthi abadwebi bezanamuhla bapende bese babhala izinkondlo, ungabi namahloni ngakho. Kusho nje ukuthi unesimo sakho sokuphila.