Ukufuna injabulo ngokuphelele
Impendulo iyinganekwane, kepha, iqiniso, ukuphila kunzima kakhulu. Indoda, elele embhedeni ene-nymphomaniac, iyakhathazeka. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukwaneliseka kwakhe akukhathazi yena. I-Nymphomaniac igxile kuyo. Udinga kaningi futhi okuningi, kodwa emgqeni awukwazi ukugijima. Umzimba wakhe ungumnandi ongatholakali. Kufana ne-oasis ehlane, lapho nonke niya khona futhi niya khona, bese kuvela ukuthi akunjalo ngempela. Futhi uqhubeka uhambo lwakho ehlane, elingenamkhawulo nangenhloso.
Umngani wami wayenomngane, intombazane eneminyaka engama-20. Waziqhayisa ngokuthi waphuma waya emgwaqeni, "uhlanganisa izidakamizwa" futhi uzihudulela ekhaya. Kuyinto enesifiso sokuthi isimo salo wesifazane omncane sasihlale sihle kakhulu: ukujabula, isimo sezinto ezijabulisayo. "Nginguye ohlakaniphile kakhulu, omuhle, omncane!" - uthe ... Iziguli ezinjalo zivame ukulethwa kudokotela ngezihlobo. Bona ngokwabo abaqondi ukuthi yini engalungile kubo.
Isifiso socansi esinesifo esinjengesimo se-nymphomania (emadodeni - i-satyriasis) singavela ngenxa yokuphazamiseka kwe-hormonal ekuqaleni kwezinyathelo zokudemeka kwengqondo (kodwa ukuvame ukucindezeleka), kodwa kaningi kunokuba kungenye yezimpawu zokucindezeleka kwengqondo yomuntu, "kusho isazi sezocansi uGeorgy Selyukov, lapho isimo sokwemvelo sishintsha kabi. Iziguli ezinjalo zibekezela, zingenele, zingenasiphi isinyathelo senye esithintana nabo, ziyakuthanda ukukhuluma ngezocansi zabo.
Ekuphileni kocansi kanye nomndeni , abesifazane abancintisana nabo badla kakhulu, bazizwa benamandla okuzikhandla njalo nesifiso socansi ngokweqile, abafuna ukuwanelisa noma kuphi nanoma ubani. Abakwazi ukuzilawula ngokwabo kanye neqiniso elizungezile.
I-Nymphomaniacs bacabanga ukuthi bayajabula kakhulu. Injabulo yabo iyimpi engapheli, ifuna injabulo engatholakali, efuna ukuthola ukuthola ukwaneliseka okungavamile.
Abantu abanenkinga ejulile ye-hysterical, njengomthetho, bancane. Abesaba ngaphakathi kwangaphakathi kokuzihlanganisa ngokomzwelo, abafuni ukuthatha imithwalo yemfanelo yomunye umuntu. Ubulili bubeka phansi konke. Ngihlale ngibahawukela - Ngiyazi ukuthi bazozizwa kanjani uma belashwa futhi bangahlola ngokucophelela izenzo zabo. Ngandlela-thile, ngemuva kokululama, owesifazane angaphinda ahlangane ne-orgasm, athole ukwaneliseka ngocansi, ekudleni, ekuphileni okuvamile.
Isifo esinjengesimiso se-circular of the mood-depression (manic-depression) sibi kakhulu futhi sibi kakhulu, ngakho-ke siyaphathwa ngokwemithi, futhi, ngokusemthethweni, esibhedlela. Kungenxa yesiteji se-mania ukuthi iziguli zingabonisa ubulili obufanayo.
Yini engaba usizo lochwepheshe lapho kuvuselelwa isikhathi? Okokuqala, ukuchaza: akunakwenzeka ukuba umuntu asolwa ngokuthi uyagula (ngendlela, ukukhathazeka komuntu-ukucindezeleka kuyimvelo). Ngabe unecala, isibonelo, ukuthi ubambe umkhuhlane, ukhwehlela futhi uphazamise? Kulokhu, izidingo zobulili zingafaniswa nokukhwehlela okungalawulwa okungalawulwa.
Oxhumana nabo abanonya
Ngezinye izikhathi i-Nymphomaniacs ibizwa ngokuthi yibo abaholayo impilo yokuziphatha ngokocansi futhi bayinaki yonke imiqondo yokuziphatha kanye nemigomo. Eqinisweni, laba besifazane baphile kahle - bayazi izenzo zabo, ezihlale zikhuthazwa. Isibonelo, owesifazane ufuna ukwenza umsebenzi - futhi aphule "ngameva kuya ezinkanyezini" ngenxa yombhede. Emaphephandabeni naku-intanethi, ungafunda eziningi zezimpawu zezinkanyezi, lapho zijabulela khona imininingwane, zichaze ucansi nabakhiqizi.
Noma, uthi, owesifazane wadlwengulwa noma wahlukumeza ngokocansi. Ukucindezeleka okunjalo kungabangela i-vaginismus (ukuphazamiseka okubuhlungu kwemisipha ye-vagina ne-perineum eyenzeka lapho uzama ukwethula i-penis) noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukusabela okuphelele kwe-polar njengokuthi "Ngizozibonakalisa ngingenanzuzo kubo bonke abantu!" Umuntu onjalo unabathandi abaningi abashaya ngokushesha.
Kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwe-nymphomania nomthethosisekelo oqinile wezocansi umuntu anikezwe wona kusukela ekuzalweni. Owesifazane oyedwa ukwanele ngokobulili obulodwa ngonyaka, kanti kwabanye, ama-orgasms amaningana ngosuku adingekayo. Abesifazane abanomthetho omkhulu wezocansi bangathola i-orgasm kusukela eminyakeni yobudala emithathu, behlala phansi esihlalweni. Futhi lokhu akusho ukuthi bayagula. Zinezinga eliphakeme le-libido.
Ngokwemvelo, amandla ezocansi, ukuphakama kwabesifazane ngokuvamile okufinyeleleka kuneminyaka engamashumi amathathu, kumele kubekwe endaweni ethile.
"Siya" ebuntwaneni
Ukushintshwa okuqhubekayo kwabalingani ngezinye izikhathi kubonisa isifiso sokuzifakazela nokwandisa ukuzethemba. Owesifazane ubonakala sengathi ngale ndlela uzothola ukuzethemba. Kodwa lokhu kuyinkolelo nje. Njengengxenye yekhofi: iyakuthanda njengekhofi, kodwa ngaphandle kwe-caffeine. Ukuzihlonipha kuthuthukiswa kuqala nokubaluleka ngobuhlobo obugcwele nomuntu onothando.
Uma owesifazane onjalo efika kimi, okokuqala, ngibuza ukuthi uzizwa kanjani manje. Njengomthetho, amahloni, isifiso sokushintsha, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - unecala. Kodwa obani ngokuqondile? Lapha, owesifazane cishe uzothi ngewayini kubazali bakhe, ngiyakuqinisekisa lokhu, ngokusekelwe ekuhlangenwe nakho kwami njengengqondo ye-psychotherapist. Khona-ke kufanele uzicwilise ebuntwaneni bakhe, ungene ezinkampanini zentsha. Uhlobo olunjani lobuhlobo ababenalo nabazali bakhe? Impendulo yalo mbuzo izosiza ukuthola: kungani edingayo abathandi abangu-20, nakuba ngokuvamile umuntu oyedwa onothando anele? Futhi owesifazane udinga ukuqaphela futhi azithanda yena ukuthi ungubani. Ngokuvamile, isisekelo salo sibekwe ebuntwaneni endlini yabazali.
Kuze kube iminyaka emine le ntombazane isensimini engokwengqondo, engokwemvelo, engokwenyama engumama. Kusukela ku-4 kuya kweyisishiyagalombili - emkhakheni wabazali bobabili. Ngemuva kweminyaka eyisishiyagalombili, ubaba ubaluleke kakhulu. Umama ngalesi sikhathi wenza indima yomeluleki, intombazane iyomlingisa, ikhophi. Futhi ubaba unikeza indodakazi impendulo: uzokufunda okuningi kangakanani. Uma ubaba emgxeka: "Wenza kanjani? Uhlobo luni lwezingubo ozigqoke? ", Futhi umama uphawula nganoma yikuphi ukubonakaliswa kobulili:" Hlala ekhaya, hhayi ngenxa yokuthi ngakhulisa ukuze uchithe isikhathi kwenye iVasya! "Noma" Ungowesiketi esincane, ! "- le ntombazane inesizotha esincane. Omunye wabangane bami, onomlingiswa ongavamile ngokungavamile, ngandlela-thile wavuma: "Ngichitha konke ukucabanga kwami kwengane ngokwami, nginamahloni ngisho nokuphuma. Futhi manje ... Niyazi, angikhumbuli ngisho negama lomuntu wami wesibili. O, bangaki babo ababekhona! "
Ubuntu bendawo yokugcina impahla yilezi ziphupho ezimbi nabaqambimanga. Ukungavikeleki kanye ne-infantilism yengqondo akuvumeli ukuba balwe.
Uma owesifazane onjalo efika kimi, okokuqala, ngibuza ukuthi uzizwa kanjani manje. Njengomthetho, amahloni, isifiso sokushintsha, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - unecala. Kodwa obani ngokuqondile? Lapha, owesifazane cishe uzothi ngewayini kubazali bakhe, ngiyakuqinisekisa lokhu, ngokusekelwe ekuhlangenwe nakho kwami njengengqondo ye-psychotherapist. Khona-ke kufanele uzicwilise ebuntwaneni bakhe, ungene ezinkampanini zentsha. Uhlobo olunjani lobuhlobo ababenalo nabazali bakhe? Impendulo yalo mbuzo izosiza ukuthola: kungani edingayo abathandi abangu-20, nakuba ngokuvamile umuntu oyedwa onothando anele? Futhi owesifazane udinga ukuqaphela futhi azithanda yena ukuthi ungubani. Uma ulawula ukuzithanda wena, ungase ukwazi ukuthanda omunye.