Iningi labazali bezingane ezisanda kuzalwa likholelwa ukuthi i-kid uqobo uyayazi nokuthi nini uyayidinga. Ngezinga elithile, lokhu kuyiqiniso ngempela. Isibonelo, ingane esanda kuzalwa iyazi kahle lapho ilambile. Futhi kulokhu, abazali bangazethemba ngokuphelele ingane yabo futhi bayondla ngokufunwa. Nokho, ngokulala konke kunzima kakhulu. Indlela yokubeka kahle ingane eneminyaka eyodwa ukuze ulale? Funda ngalokhu esihlokweni sethu samanje.
Izinga lokuphila komuntu wendawo yasemadolobheni wanamuhla, ngqo umndeni onomntwana, kuthinta kakhulu ukuvumelana kokulala. Futhi akuyona nje ukuthi ingane iphazamiseka yimisindo engaphandle (ithelevishini, amakhompyutha, imishini yokuhlanza). Esinye sezimbangela ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuphazamiseka kokulala yilombuso womuntu omdala, kude nemvelo. Sithanda ukuhlala sekwephuzile futhi sivuke sekwephuzile (ikakhulu lapho kunokwenzeka khona).
Kusukela ekubukeni kwezokwelapha, ukulala kufanele kudale izimo ezithile zezwe lokuvuka. Ngamanye amazwi, umuntu kufanele alale hhayi ngoba udinga, kodwa ngoba ufuna, futhi avuke ngoba elele, kodwa hhayi isikhathi sokusebenza noma ukutadisha. Kodwa-ke, lokhu konke kulungile, empeleni, konke akunjalo, futhi umphakathi wesintu awufuni ukucabangela zonke lezi zici eziphilayo.Izingane, ngokuphambene nalokho, zikhetha ukulala nokuvuka ekuseni. Iqiniso liwukuthi umzimba wengane, kanye nanoma yimuphi omunye umzimba, uhlala ngesimiso esikhethekile esinqumayo isidingo sokulala, kanye nesilinganiso sezinsuku zokuvuka nokulala. Isifiso sokulala isikhathi esithile asibangeli ama-biorhythms kuphela, kodwa nezimo zezulu, indlela yokuphila nempilo. Ingane encane ayihlukile.
Ezinyangeni eziyishumi zokuqala, iphupho lomntwana alilona unomphela. Ikwazi ukugcina imizuzu engu-20-40 kuphela. Lokhu akuyona into evamile, kepha uma ubusuku bokulala buqhubeka njalo, abubheki njengesifo. Ngokuvamile isikhathi esifushane sokulala singenxa yokuthi ingane isondelene kakhulu ngesikhathi semidlalo noma umama akaqapheli isikhathi lapho umntwana efuna ukulala. Phela, akudingekile ukuthi ingane ikwazi "ukukhombisa" ukukhathala kwayo, ikakhulukazi ekusebenzeni umdlalo othakazelisayo. Kodwa kuyadingeka ukuthi ufunde ukuthi ungabona kanjani ushintsho ekuphatheni komntwana, ukhuluma ngokukhathala kwakhe. Ingane engalokelwe ukulala, lapho isivele ikhathele ngokwanele, isimo esingenasipiliyoni singakwazi ukuzijwayeza. Lokhu lapho umuntu esemdala kungabangela ukulala. Izingane ezincane ziyakuthanda ngempela uma zibona umyalelo othile. Kubaluleke kakhulu kubo. Ngakho-ke, lesi sici sokuthuthukiswa singasetshenziselwa ukuzolalisa umntwana osondelene kakhulu. Ingane ingabeka kanjani embhedeni, ikakhulukazi uma isivele ikhululekile? Into ebaluleke kakhulu lapha akumele imbangela ingane (kanye nomuntu omdala) ukuba abe nokucindezeleka. Phela, ngesikhathi ubeka ingane ukuba ilele, kuyithuba elihle kakhulu lokuthola ukuxhumana okungokomoya phakathi kwabazali nengane uqobo. Beka inkambo ethile yezenzo ozoyenza nengane ngaphambi kokulala. Isibonelo: ukuqoqa amathoyizi emtholampilo bese ufisa ingane "ubusuku obuhle"; uthathe okugeza okufudumele; Hlabelela i-lullaby bese unyakaza ingane kancane; ngitshele ukuthi kudlalwa ithoyizi (mhlawumbe ngothandekayo kakhulu, yilale nengane). Izingane ziyakuthanda kakhulu ukwenziwa komsebenzi othile wezenzo, okuthiwa "amasiko". Yimihlahlandlela ebasiza ukuba bazizwe beduduzeka futhi bezinzile. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane ingakanani iminyaka noma izinyanga ubudala, ngisho nengane eneminyaka eyisikhombisa iyokwazi futhi ilale ngokushesha uma ilala embhedeni nsuku zonke elalela inganekwane noma i-lullaby.Nakhu kuyadingeka ukuthi usho ngethonya elikhulu le-lullaby empilweni yengane. Ochwepheshe bathi abantwana abangabalwa yi-lullabies abaphumelelanga kangako empilweni futhi kungenzeka ukuthi banenkinga yokugula. Isizathu esiyinhloko salokhu ukulahlwa kwengane yezihlobo ezikhethekile ezingokomzwelo ezithuthuka ngesikhathi sokucula phakathi kwengane nomama. Umama, ukukhukhumeza umntwana, ukumkhathaza, kumnika ukufudumala nokuzwela. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ekushintsheni okuthulile ukulala. Akumangazi ukuthi izingane ezikhulile ezikoleni zokugibela, ezingenakufudumala, zizizwa zingalondekile konke ukuphila kwazo.
Ngesikhathi sokuqala ingane ingayiqondi incazelo, futhi into esemqoka ukuhambisana kwesigqi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuningi lokumemeza nokushaya umsindo emgqeni we-lullaby, okusiza ukukhuphula imvuthuluka:
Hush, izinkukhu, ungenzi umsindo,
Ungavusani i-Shura yami.
Isikhathi sifikile, abafana namantombazane bakhula ngama-lullabies, kepha ukufudumala nokubandakanyeka kothando lomama ingane eyitholwa ekusaneni kuyasala. Futhi ingabe kukhona okunye okunamandla kunothando lomama? Hlala izingane zakho lullabies!