Ngokushesha intombazane iphakamisa umbuzo: kodwa ngingakwazi kanjani kuqala umfana, ukuze angalimazi idumela lakhe. Uma ungomunye wabantu abagulayo, ke lesi sihloko senu. Kuzobhubhisa ngokushesha konke ukungabaza kwakho.
Ake sihlaziye lesi simo ngezimpaphe:
Isigaba 1: ukuhlanza kwezinpaphe
Usenqume ukuphuma empini ukuze ulwele abantu. Lokhu sekuyisinyathelo esikhulu ekufinyeleleni umgomo. Kodwa lokhu, ngokwemvelo, akwanele. Kudingeka sisebenze ekubukeni kwethu kuqala, yiqiniso, akekho izingxabano ukuthi imvelo inikeze owesifazane konke okuveziwe, kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi ngeke bakwazi ukukhanga nakakhulu. Lapha Konke kufana nezibalo: uma owesifazane ehleleke kahle kakhulu, amathuba amaningi kufanele athole umlingisi ongcono. Yiya endaweni yokuzivocavoca eseduzane, kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele uziqede ngokuqeqesha, manje nje indlela yokuphila enempilo ifaneka, futhi umoya onempilo, njengoba uthi, emzimbeni onempilo.
Yebo, usebenzise imali mahhala ukuya ejimini, kodwa akusiyo isizathu sokuphonsa izinqubo ezinjengokuhlukumeza umzimba, ukuhamba ngezinyawo nezinye izinqubo ezizuzisa wena. Kodwa ungakwenza ngokwakho. Futhi ungakhohlwa ngokukhishwa kwezinwele, intombazane enhle kufanele ibe yinto ephelele kukho konke. Lokhu akusho ukuthi ngosuku lokuqala uzoya kumuntu oyedwa, kodwa lokhu kuzokwenza uzizwe uqiniseka kakhulu.
Futhi manje mayelana "nempaphe." Yiqiniso, ngeke sikunikeze iseluleko ukuthi ungabheka kanjani imfashini kule nkathi, nguwe ozinqumelayo, kodwa kunesici esisodwa: kufanele ugqoke kancane okungavamile, mhlawumbe ngisho nokucasula kunokujwayelekile. Futhi kungcono ukubheka isitayela kukho konke ukuphuma ekhaya, ngoba awukwazi ukuthi lowo mfokazi uzokuhlangana nani.
Ikhanda lezinwele . Yebo, ngingathanda ukuba nezinwele ezinjalo, okuvame ukuzibona ekukhangiseni i-shampoo elandelayo. Kodwa uzodinga nje ukusebenzisa i-mask, ingapheka ngisho nasekhaya, ne-balm for hair. Ukuthinta kokuqeda kuyoba yi-perfume oyintandokazi yakho, pshink it izinwele zakho.
Isikhali sentombazane enhle ubuhle bayo, ngakho sebenzisa !!!
2step: Ukuphuma ukuzingela: kuphi nokuthi ungazijwayela kanjani
Sikhetha indawo yokuzingela. Hamba lapho kukhona khona amadoda amaningi. Ungashintsha ngisho nemisebenzi kwenye lapho kuzoba khona amadoda amaningi eqenjini, isibonelo, isitolo sekhompyutha nokuningi okuningi. Yiqiniso asikho amanoveli enkonzo, njengoba ngokuvamile enomphumela omubi, kodwa esebenza eqenjini lesilisa ovele ukhulise ukuzethemba kwakho, uzozizwa ukuthi uyathandeka futhi uyathandeka yini.
Uma ungafuni ukushintsha imisebenzi, khona-ke uhlukanise umzila wakho wesiko ukuze usungule abajwayele ukuxhumana nabafana. Kungaba amakilabhu ebusuku, ama-discos, amaqembu ezemidlalo, ukuqeqesha. Yiqiniso, kulula ukujwayele into yezifiso zakho, kodwa awukwazi njalo ukucela ubuhlobo besikhathi eside. Kodwa awukwazi ukuthi ukuphela kwakho kuzokulindelaphi, ngakho-ke yenza! Intombazane enhle ayidingi ukwesaba lutho.
Ungaphuthelwa ithuba lokuzijwayeza lo mfana, uma kubonakala sengathi uyamjabulisa kancane. Sebenzisa ukumomotheka kwakho okuthakazelisayo!
Thatha isinyathelo! Yiqiniso, lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele uthathe umfana ompofu nahab, kodwa ngokuzumayo uzoba nomuzwa omubi kuwe. Ngakho-ke, isinyathelo sakho kufanele sibe ukumomotheka, ukubukeka okuthakazelisayo, indawo evulekile.
Nikeza uphawu kumuntu ukuthi unesithakazelo kuye, ukuze yena ngokwakhe akwazi ukwenza isinyathelo sokuqala sokuzijwayeza.
Enye iphuzu elibalulekile ukuthi ufuna ukuhlangabezana nani. Yiqiniso, isikhulu sehhashi elimhlophe liphupho lokungane. Ungacabangi ngempela ngokukhetha kwakho esikhathini esizayo! Emva kwakho konke, ungumuntu ojwayelekile nokuthi unayo kanjani izici zakho zombili ezinhle nezimbi. Yiba nesineke.
Isigaba sesi-3: Indlela yokuziphatha phakathi nomhlangano
Kulungile, ukujwayele kwenzeke, futhi yini okumelwe ukwenze ngokulandelayo? Kulula kakhulu: sebenzisa amasu okusebenza kwengqondo evamile kakhulu. Le nqubo ibizwa ngokuthi ukulungiswa kwamanani abantu. Ngale ndlela usondelana futhi ujwayele. Futhi ulalele ngokucophelela! Bazise! Ngempela, amadoda athanda ukubonakala eqinile futhi ehlakaniphile phambi kwentombazane. Ungayithinta ngengozi, ubone imizwelo emihle ebusweni bakhe, qiniseka ukuthi uhamba ngendlela efanele.
Ukushintshaniswa kwezingcingo kuyisibopho somhlangano ohleliwe kahle, okwenziwe ngumuntu, futhi akukho cala abanikezayo ukuthatha inombolo yakho kuwe. Isinyathelo ngumsebenzi wezandla zamadoda!
Lapha usuvele uthola imfundiso yesinyathelo ngesinyathelo sokukhohlisa umuntu, ngakho uhlalaphi, ngokuzumayo kakade ulindele wena.
Kodwa ngokwanele ukuphupha, yisikhathi sokuthatha isinyathelo. Abangane abaphumelelayo!