Esikhathini sethu, kube khona umkhuba ophawulekayo lapho izivakashi eziyinhloko ezithandweni zamasayithi zingamadoda ashadile.
Umbuzo ozwakalayo ukuphuza: yini indoda eshadile engayibheka endaweni yokuphola? Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, lokhu, okuyiqiniso, kuhlotshaniswa nesifiso sabantu besilisa kanye nesifiso sokusebenzisa amandla abo "ladies" ". Okusho ukuthi, uzame ngokusobala, ngasese kumkakhe ukuba anqobe futhi anqobe noma iyiphi intombazane. Ngokuvamile, ngokukhula, ngisho nakancane kunakho. Ngezinye izikhathi, lo muntu, ngokumane nje, ngale ndlela uzibuyisela ngokungabi khona kwenkosikazi empilweni yangempela noma, isikhathi nje esingenakuqhathanisa, uhlola ukuthi ulahlekelwe yini ubuciko bakhe bokukhohlisa. Ngokuvamile, ukujwayela nokuxhumana okunjalo akufinyeleli emhlanganweni olandelayo nhlobo. Le ndoda ihamba ngesikhathi, iqinisekisa ukuthi ifeze umgomo wayo futhi iqala ukufuna "isisulu" esisha secebo lakhe lokukhohlisa. Lapho amantombazane angena emanxuseni akhe ahlukumezayo, wabe esebeka encwadini yakhe ethi "Mina", indoda. Futhi kuthiwani, kunani hhayi umdlalo wekhompyutha. Unayo inqubo yakhe lapha, isu lokuwina-win kanye namasu akhe akhethekile. Kunezimo lapho umyeni ezinikele kulezi zindaba, ngisho nomkakhe. Ukwabelana ngempumelelo yakhe futhi ngaleyo ndlela uthole intengo emehlweni akhe. Kukhona, yiqiniso, amacala uma indoda eshadile ifuna nje ukudlala ngothando nje kuphela noma ngisho nobulili obufanayo. Mcindezela ukwenza lokhu, ngokuvamile izizathu ezimbili. Okusemqoka kokuqala kusekelwe ekutheni unesithukuthezi sokuphila futhi yena, ngokuqondile, ubheka ezinye izinto ezikhethekile ezivela ekuphileni kwakhe. Isizathu sesibili, esiseduze nathi besifazane - akuyona into engaphezu kwesazi. Ngokuqondene nalezi zinsuku, ilukuluku lwamadoda alukho ngaphansi kwesifiso sesifazane. Lokhu kuyisimo esinamandla kakhulu nesishukumisayo, esilulaza lo muntu, simcindezele ngezinto ezingaqondakali futhi ngezinye izikhathi ezimangalisayo, okwakungonyaka odlule, yena ngokwakhe akakwazanga ngisho ukucabanga. Ngakho-ke, ake sibuyele embukisweni wakhe wezithombe ezinomzimba wezocansi. Yena, ngenxa yolwazi lwakhe, wezwa ngala mazwi amasha, kubangane bakhe noma osebenza nabo. Futhi, ngokuqondile, nganquma ukuhlanganyela kulo ngokwami, ngifaka isandla sami kwigundane lekhompyutha. Ngenxa yalokhu, othembekile wakho, wakhetha intombazane eyodwa futhi le ndaba yahamba yodwa. Kodwa lesi simo, futhi asisho ukuthi khona konke lokhu kuphela ngomhlangano empilweni yangempela, futhi ubulili babo obubonakalayo buyokhula bube yinto yangempela. Kodwa, ukufuna intombazane noma owesifazane ngendima yendoda yenkosi yangempela, lokhu sekuvele kubangele ukukhathazeka. Lapha indoda isivele isinyathelo esithile nesingenasisekelo, isiqiniseko sokuthi kungani ivakashela leli sayithi futhi ngayiphi injongo. Futhi ekugcineni, ake sithi ukuxhumana okuvame kakhulu nokungenabungozi kwi-inthanethi. Amadoda kaningi akakwazi ukuthola umuntu obalalelayo noma okuhlangenwe nakho okungaqondakali kumkayo, esebenzisa ukuzitholela yena nabangani bakhe abazohlala bemlalela, baqonde noma bamsize ngeseluleko sokuphila. Esinye isizathu esihle sokuthola umngane ngokubhala kungase kube ukuthi wayesekhathala yizo zonke izindawo ezizungezile, ngendlela yabangani. Noma yena, umane, akanandaba ukukhuluma ngomuntu obuhlungu, ngokuqondile nendoda engakaze ibone empilweni yakhe. Ngendlela, lokhu okuvame ukuqhubekela phambili kubhekwe ngombono we-psychology yethu, futhi akunandaba ukuthi ungowesifazane noma indoda. Ngakho sithole izizathu ezicacile zalokho umuntu oshadile abheke ku-website lapho abantu bazana khona.
Ungayibona kanjani ngempela ukuthi umuntu ulindeleni kumngani wakhe we-Intanethi? uma umyeni engabelani nawe ngalokho akwenzayo ngempela kulezi zingosi, futhi imibuzo yakho ayiphenduli nhlobo, ubavumele ukuba badlule ngezindlebe zakho. Waba kude kakhulu kuwe. Ukungezwani kwakhe kwemizwa kwaqala ukuzizwa, ngokuqondile, nawe. Futhi ngesicelo sakho sokungayivakashele lezi zingosi ze-inthanethi, uphendula nge-scandal. Futhi ngokujwayelekile, uya khona kuphela, ngasese, evela kuwe. Lezi yizibonakaliso ezinkulu ezisabekayo ezidingekayo ukubeka impilo yayo eyiqiniso iphuzu elikhulu. Mxubane naye, futhi kangcono ukubhekana nebhizinisi elinjalo elingavumelekile njengokuvakashela isayithi elingenhla. Ngikholelwa, lapha uzocabanga. Nakuba kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi uma umyeni wakho ezama ukuguqula ngale ndlela, akusilo neze ukuthi uzokwenza ngokushesha noma kamuva ngaphandle kosizo lwesayithi lokuphola. Ngakho-ke, okokuqala, thola ubuhlobo bakho bese uthola ukuthi yini engalungile kuwe nokuthi yini eqhubekisa abathembekile bakho kwisenzo esinjalo. Mhlawumbe lithi incwadi yakho, ebizwa ngokuthi "Umndeni", isiyifunde kakade isikhathi eside. Uma ufuna ukulondoloza i-idyll yomndeni wakho, uthando lomyeni wakho nesithakazelo kuwe, qala ukusebenza. Okokuqala, qaphela ukuguqulwa kokubukeka kwakho, futhi emva kokuthuthukisa umhlaba wakho wangaphakathi. Zama, uzitholele uhlobo oluthile lokuzilibazisa okuthakazelisayo. Zibonise ngendlela engakakuboni okwamanje. Into eyinhloko akukaze ibe sevila ukubangela isithakazelo kumyeni wakho. Futhi-ke, hhayi lokho kuguquka, kodwa noma yikuphi intombazane enkundleni yokuphola, ngeke umane kangakanani.
Futhi njengesiphetho, ngifuna ukungeza, unikeze ingxenye yakho yesibili isikhathi esiningi, uxhumane naye, zama ukuxazulula izinkinga zakhe, futhi ungesabi ukumnikeza iseluleko sakho futhi. Mvumele asebenzise isikhathi sakhe samahhala hhayi ngekhompyutha, kodwa nawe. Ngenxa yalokhu, lungisa okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka okuthiwa ngamaholidi "umphefumulo nomzimba." Futhi-ke, egcwele ukukhulumisana empilweni yangempela, akasoze avula ukuvakashela indawo yokuphola. Emva kwakho konke, kaningi kunalokho, uhlala ezinkundleni ezinjalo, ngokuqondile ngenxa yomuzwa wedwa nesihlukumezeka. Hhayi, uma nje ngenxa yelukuluku, ungamcindezeli, ake anelise isidingo sakhe, into esemqoka ukuhlala naye njalo.