Uma sibheka izingane eziphambanisa zisencane, ukukhulumisana ngokomzwelo nomama akusho ukuthi kuthuthukiswe ingane. Ingane ayiboni umama wakhe njengomlingani ekukhulumisaneni. Ubungqayizivele besimo sengqondo yengane ngokunciphisa okuncane ekuthuthukiseni ukuthi ekuqaleni kusadingeka ukuthi izinto ezidingekayo zokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo yakhe zingasetshenziswa. Lesi simo sikwenza kube nzima ngaye ukuba athuthukise phambili.
Izingane ezinjalo zibuthakathaka futhi ngokuvamile azikwazi ukubhekana nemithwalo yengqondo nengokwenyama ehambisana nonyaka. Basheshe bakhathele, futhi ngokumelene nalesi sizinda kukhona ukungahloniphi noma ngokuphambene nalokho, futhi abakwazi ukugxila ukunakwa.
Izingane ezineziphambeko ekuthuthukiseni ngokomzwelo nangomuntu ngeminyaka emithathu azilungele ukubambisana nabantu abadala futhi zixoxisane neontanga. Kunzima ukuthi izingane ezinjalo zisuke esimweni esisodwa ekuphileni komunye.
Ngenkinga yezingane ezineminyaka yokuqala nezinyanga zasenkulisa ngezigaba ezahlukene zokuthuthukiswa, ukwakheka kwemisebenzi kwenzeka ngeziphambeko ezihlukahlukene kanye nokulibaziseka. Izingane ezikhubazekile zingasizwa kuphela ngokuqeqeshwa okunenjongo nokuzimele.
Ngesikhathi sokuqala kweminyaka yobukole, izingane ezinokuphutha azikho ukubonakaliswa komuntu siqu, zincike kumuntu omdala. Uma ungabheki nengane enjalo ngokuthuthukiswa okukhethekile nokuqeqeshwa, khona-ke izinguquko ezingxenyeni ezingokomzwelo ezingezansi zomntwana ngeke zenzeke.
Ingane iya esikoleni. Kuye kuyinkathi enzima kakhulu, ikakhulukazi esimweni sengqondo. Ukucindezeleka okuhambisana nezigaba zokuphila kwesikole, okudingayo okwenyuka kwengane, kubangela ukungezwani kwengqondo ethile, okuyinto evame ukuholela ezingqondweni. Lesi simo sihlanganisa ukuwohloka okuvamile kwezempilo.
Lokhu kuzothinta ngokuqondile ukufunda, ukwedlula ukunakekelwa, ukulahlekelwa inkumbulo, izinkinga zokukhuluma (ngisho nokuthungatha), kanye nokwesaba kokomfundisi. Ngenxa yalokho, ukungenzi umsebenzi wesikole, ukungabikho emsebenzini, njll. Ngesizo esifike ngesikhathi, konke kuzobuyela ekujwayelekile.
Lo mntwana unenkinga kubangane bakhe nakubantu abadala. Ingane enesihluku isenzo esibucayi, i-morose noma i-vice versa. Ukunciphisa umzimba kubhekwa odokotela njengesigaba esiyingozi ekuthuthukiseni ukuphazamiseka ngokomzwelo (DISTRESS). Uma ungalungisi izimbangela ze-dezaptaty ezingokomzwelo ngesikhathi esifanele, lokhu kungaholela ekubukeni kwezici ze-pathological.
Esikoleni, uthisha ngeke akwazi ukulungisa isimo esiyinkimbinkimbi esakhiwe, isibonelo emndenini. Kungabonakala ukuthi ingane isesimweni esicindezelekile futhi kubonakala ukuthi abazali bakhe bokuphuza bahlala ekudleni. Noma elinye icala - ingane encane ibonakale emndenini, futhi umane nje unomona wengane. Kodwa kunezimo lapho imbangela yokungalahleki ikhona esikoleni. Izizathu zingaba eziningana - ingane idluliselwe esikoleni esisha noma kwenye iklasi. Esiqeshini esidala walala nobungane bakhe, futhi wayengumfundi ongcono kakhulu. Futhi ekilasini elisha eqenjini elikhona kudingeka livunyelwe. Ngisho noma kungekho ukungqubuzana okubonakalayo, ingane ihlangabezana nokucindezeleka kwengqondo. Kulokhu, uthisha kufanele asize ingane ukuba ijoyine iqembu lezingane. Lokhu kuzosiza ukukhomba izici eziwinazo zomntwana, okuzokwaziswa yizingane ezifunda nabo.
Futhi ekuphetheni, amathiphu ambalwa kubazali. Ukuphila esikoleni kwengane yakho kuyinkimbinkimbi ngokwemibono engokomzwelo. Ngakho-ke, bonisa ukubekezela nokuqonda. Ungenzi izidingo eziphakeme, mhlawumbe angaphezu kwamandla akhe. Lawula imizwelo yakho, ukusabela okuvuthayo ngesibonakaliso esibi kuyoholela ekungeneni-kuphela ukucindezeleka. Qhathanisa nezinye izingane ngesimiso - ungalungile, kodwa akulungile. Kungcono ukuqonda isizathu futhi usize ukulungisa isimo. Uma ulungisa ukuziphatha kwengane, zama ukuthembela ezikhathini ezinhle. Emkhayeni kufanele kube nesimo esihle, ngokuvamile udlale nomntwana emidlalweni yeselula. Ngakho-ke, nikeza ukuphuma kwemizwa futhi unciphise ukucindezeleka.
Umphakathi wanamuhla wukuthi ukuhlukumeza komndeni sekuye kwaba yinkinga ejwayelekile eminyakeni yamuva. Emindenini enjalo, ukukhuliswa nokuphila komntwana akulula futhi lokhu kubonakala ngokuphelele ekuqaliseni kwentuthuko yakhe siqu. Ngemuva kokuwa komndeni, isimo sengqondo somntanakho sibuhlungu, njengokuba ukuzibheka kanye nesimo sengqondo sokushintsha kwabantu. Emindenini enjalo, izingane ezinokuphutha ekuthuthukiseni ngokomzwelo nokuziphatha zivame ukukhula. Kodwa uma ukulungiswa okwesikhashana kokuthuthukiswa kwengane kwenziwa, ngakho konke kungalungiswa.