Ukwaziswa ukuthi: ukuqhuba ukuhlonishwa, ukuthola ukuthi yini into, futhi ufike ngamazwi: "Nginconywa kuwe, njengesibalo sezibalo esiphezulu kunazo zonke eyunivesithi, ungasiza?" - ucabanga ukuthi lena yindlela enhle yokuzijwayeza esikoleni.
Empeleni, akavunyelwe ukukhohlwa ukulinganisa kangcono kunabo bonke abanye - othisha, abafundi esikoleni ngezikweletu, njll. Angase athokoze isihloko esithi umnike yona, kodwa wena ngokwakho uzoba ngu-100 emgqeni wabantu abathandayo, futhi kumamaki wengqondo yakhe evelele engafanelekile kuye. Futhi kungani kufanele akhulume nawe? Khona-ke nakanjani ngeke ukwazi umfana.
Futhi uma uzama: uma umbuza okuthile, ngokushesha unikele umfana ngokubuyisela usizo ensimini yakhe. Mtshele ukuthi uyintombazane enethalente futhi ungamniki kuye. Futhi ngaphandle kwalokho, ukusizana ngokubambisana kuyisinyathelo esiqinisekisiwe ekufinyeleleni okuncane kancane.
Thembeka isisindo sakho:
Uyalulekwa: qhubeka phambili, ngosizo lokuxhumana okungelona amazwi, uvumele umfana aqonde ukuthi unesithakazelo kuye. Kule nkambo kukhona konke: izingubo zokubulala, ezithathwe kumngane omdala, iso lokubiza kanye ne-lipstick elikhanyayo - ngokujwayelekile, ukwazi umfana kunamathuba onke.
Yiqiniso: unganqikazi, waphawula futhi ngokuqinisekile uzokwenza. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuthi uzozwa isipho sokuya kuma-movie. Ungathathwa noma ukukhethwa ekuzingeleni, noma kwentombazane ecabanga ukuthi ukuhamba nokuxoxa kuyinto engadingekile ngaphambi kobudlelwane "obuseduze" ngempela. Ingabe yilokho owafuna ukubukeka?
Mtshele ukuthi:
Ukwaziswa: ungakhathazeki nhlobo, yikhuphukele kuye - futhi uthando luzophenduka ngokushesha.
Eqinisweni: cabanga ukuthi uthanda i-tennis futhi udlala kahle. Phakathi nosuku emgwaqweni ubheka phezulu bese ubona ibhola lindiza kuwe. Ingabe uqinisekile ukuthi uzokwazi ukumshaya futhi uqhubeke ukudlala ngentshiseko? Futhi-ke lo mfana: emva kokushintshaniswa kwemibingelelo, yena angakwazi ukuthi angakhuluma ngani ngokubonakala ngokuzumayo, futhi ekubi kakhulu - angeke abe nesimo sengqondo, angathukutheli into ethile namaqabunga.
Futhi uma uzama: cabanga okungenani isizathu esivumelanako sokuphendulela, ngisho noma kuyinto encane "ukuthi-kuya-kuya-kulabhulali." Futhi kuye, futhi uyaqonda ukuthi lokhu kuyisizathu nje kuphela, kodwa kukhona inkomba yengxoxo. Futhi kungcono kuye ukuthi anqume ukuthi angayishaya kanjani ibhola: ukumangazwa ("yebo, ufunda lapha ngomnyaka weshumi!") Noma unikezele ngothando ukuhamba nawe.
UKsenia Ivanova , ikakhulukazi indawo