Ukuhlelwa kwezinsuku zokuzalwa kwezingane ekhaya kubhekwa abazali abaningi njengendlela yokubheka. Okokuqala, ingane yakho ihlala njalo, ngokuqondile, ngaphansi kokuqondiswa kwabazali bayo; okwesibili, ungakwazi, ngokukhanyisa iphutha lakho ukwenza okuthile okhethekile futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi ngeke kubonakale ihlanzekile futhi iyingqayizivele nhlobo futhi iyoletha ingane injabulo ngempela. Futhi okwesithathu, kunganciphisa kakhulu izindleko zakho zezimali zenhlangano futhi ngaleyo ndlela, imali esindiswe, ongayichitha ngesipho esibizayo somuntu wokuzalwa. Ngakho-ke, ake siqhubeke nendlela yokuhlela iholidi labantwana ekhaya. Ukuze wenze lolu suku lube lukhumbuleka futhi lubala kakhulu wena nomntanakho.
Okokuqala, ake siqale ngokukhetha ikamelo (igumbi). Lapha kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuthi kule holide uzoqiniseka ukuthi umeme abangane bakho, futhi izingane, njengoba wazi, zidinga isikhala esikhulu samahhala. Ngakho-ke, lapha, kufanelekile ukudela umkhulu kunendawo (indawo yokulala). Uma kusekhona isikhala esincane kuso, zama ukuyikhulula, ngokulungisa kabusha ngisho leyo ifenisha. Izinto zefenisha ezivumela ukuthi zihanjiswe kwelinye igumbi noma zihlelwe kabusha ukuze zengeze isikhala esengeziwe. Ungakhohlwa ukukhipha, ngangokunokwenzeka, izinto zonke zokushaya ezivela egilasini noma ezenziwe nge-ceramics.
Ngokuqondene nokuhlobisa nokuhlobisa igumbi, lapha kufanelekile ukusebenzisa imibala nemidwebo ngangokunokwenzeka. Khumbula, empeleni, izindonga embala wombala awufanelekile. Kuzokwanela ukuthi uthenge amabhaluni amaningi anemibala, uwafake futhi uwahlanganise lapho kungenzeka khona. Futhi ungakhohlwa ngamafolda amabalabala, ongayenza ngezandla zakho. Yebo, uma ungakwazi ukudweba kahle. Uma kunjalo, lesi sipho sidlulile iqembu, sebenzisa indlela elula ye "izikhali ne-glue". Sika emakhasini wezingane ezikhethekile ezifanekisayo nezithombe ezimibalabala zezimbali, izilwane nokunye. Ukungeza konke lokhu, wathola ngendlela efanayo, izinhlamvu ze-cartoon futhi unamathisele konke kumapheshana amakhulu we-Whatman. Lapha une-poster ekulungele. Beka kuzo ezindongeni, ungeze, okufanayo, amabhaluni. Manje thina, ngokuqondile, siqhubeke nomklamo wetafula lokugubha. Ake siqale ngendwangu yetafula. Lapha kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi kufanele ukuthi kube nokukhanya nokuhle. Thenga, kusengaphambili, ibhizinisi elinjalo isendwangu esikhethekile ngephethini elijabulisayo. Futhi, njengoba bekusho, umbuzo obhekwa ngendwangu yetafula uyonqunywa. Mayelana nokukhonza nokuhlobisa itafula, kufanelekile ukwenza into encane ngendlela ehlukile kunejwayelekile. Noma kunjalo, izivakashi eziyinhloko zingabantwana futhi kufanelekile ukukhumbula. Ngokuphambene ne-plate ngayinye ungafaka ithoyizi elincane elitholile, lokhu kuzokwenzisa ingane ngayinye. Emaphongolweni, ungenza izibalo ezihlukile, ngendlela yokubamba kwazo. Kodwa, izitsha kufanele zifakwe ngemidwebo. Yonke ingane ithanda into encane, kodwa enhle. Khumbula lokhu ngokwakho uma useneminyaka leyo.
Ukulungisa zonke izintaba zezitsha ezihlukahlukene akufanele neze. Izingane azidli okuningi kakhulu, into eyinhloko iwukugcina impahla, ngokusemandleni akho ngama-juice neziphuzo ezihlukahlukene. Ukugcizelela okuphawulekayo kugcizelela inhlangano yengxenye enhle yeholidi, ngoba izingane ziyakuthanda kakhulu. Yonke into oyiphekayo futhi uyenze etafuleni, ungakhohlwa ukuyihlobisa ngemvelo enemibala kanye nezinye izindlela zokupheka. Kodwa nokho, liyini igama ngaphandle kwekhekhe. Ikhekhe lomuntu wokuzalwa kufanele libe mkhulu futhi ungakhohlwa ukunamathela amakhandlela kuyo, ngenani elihambelana nokuthi ingane ingagcwaliseki kangakanani. Yenza ume lapho izibani zivaliwe, ukhanyisa wonke amakhandlela, vumela izinyane lizishaye, zenze isifiso.
Iholide ngokwayo kufanele isethwe cishe ngesidlo sasemini, isikhathi esingamahora angu-12 kuya kwangu-11. Into esemqoka ukuthi izingane azihlali isikhathi eside futhi ziba nesikhathi esihle. Ngesikhathi sokugubha uqobo, thatha isinyathelo sonke hhayi nje njengomama, kodwa futhi njengengane "glown" yengane. Cabanga ngakho konke ngokuthola izivakashi ukuze uzibone. Isimo esihle kakhulu futhi esimnandi salokhu kuyoba, ukushintsha kusihlwa sibe yinto enhle kakhulu. Ngenxa yalokhu, kufanele uthole i-costume efanele (amafairies, indlovukazi enhle, njll). Indwangu enjalo ungakwazi ukuzithunga, noma, ukubonisa iphutha, lenze, limbozwe izingubo ngendwangu. Letha kulokhu nopapa, ngisho noma okungenani umqhele wenkosi ugqoke.
Uma ucabanga umlingisi wezinganekwane, ungakhohlwa izimangaliso. Vula iholidi lonke kule ndaba yezinganekwane, futhi indlela eyinhloko yokwenza ngayo, kuyoba nemincintiswano nezipho. Esikhathini esiphakathi kwetafula eliyinhloko nelithambile, noma nje lapho izingane zigcwele, ukuze ugcine umkhathi ojabulisayo, bameme ukuba badlale umdlalo "ukuqagela bese udweba" kulokhu kuzodinga iningi lama-whatman, izimpawu nolwazi lwezimfumbo zezingane ezihlukahlukene. Nika amaphepha amaphepha kwisimenywa ngasinye futhi unikeze impendulo kulo mfumbe hhayi nje ukusho, kodwa ukudweba. Kuphela ngale njongo, uzobe ubeka izingane endaweni enjalo kangangokuthi azikwazanga ukubuka omunye komunye nomunye. Uma usuxazulule lokhu noma leyo mfumbe, nizinike isikhathi sokwenza impendulo yabo bese uphakamisa ukuthi wonke umuntu kufanele abonise ukuthi kwenzekani kuye. Kumnqobi, ngokuqondile kumklomelo - isikhumbuzo esincane noma ukhiye okhishwa esikhwameni semilingo esizoba nawe. Uma izimpendulo ezithombeni zihambisana, ngakho-ke, ngokuncintisana, cela izingane ukuba zikhethe umdwebo omuhle kakhulu, futhi ibhonasi kuyo yonke into, ngesimo somklomelo wesikhuthazo se talenta, unike i candy kwesinye isikhwama. Njengoba usuvele uqonda, izikhwama zakho kufanele zigcwaliswe ngokuqukethwe okuhlukene, i-trinkets eyodwa, enye-amaswidi. Lapha unomncintiswano ojabulisayo, ozoba mnandi kakhulu futhi ungakhohlwa izingane.
Indlela yokuhlela iholidi labantwana ekhaya? Akunzima nakancane, ukuzikhumbula nje ngesikhathi owawufana ngaso leso sikhathi kuphela, uzokwazi ngempela lokho ingane yakho ifuna ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa.