Uqobo!
Kuyinto edabukisayo ukuthi embuzweni obabuzwe ngokucacile: "Futhi ukuthi ungayiphendula kanjani ukunyanyisa okungenangqondo nokungajabulisi?" Iningi labaningi liphendule ... "Emuva!" Iyini ukuphela kwezigameko ezinjalo, futhi, ngokuqinisekile, ukuqagela. Cha, uma ufuna ukuphuma isikhathi eside, kodwa akukho ndawo, lokhu kuyinto eyodwa. Kodwa uma ungabantu abangakhululekile ukugcoba ngodaka, khona-ke kulesi simo ukulwa nalesi sifo ngesimiso "ngokumelene ne-scrap no reception, uma kungekho ezinye izicucu" akusizi ngalutho. Okokuqala, i-boor izoqala ngokushesha futhi ikhuthaze ngentshiseko emathunjini. Futhi okwesibili, uzothola umuzwa omubi wokuthi ungadonselwa ku-squabble engathandeki. Ake sizame ukuthola izindlela ezingcono kakhulu ekuphikeleni ukunyanyisa, kuye ngokuthi indawo yalesi senzo.
Well and obstanovochka
I-Rudeness inombolo 1 - okuthiwa i-tramway. Ikhula emaphuzu okuhlanganiswa kwabantu: ukuthutha okugcwele, ukuqhuma kwezimoto, izitolo ... Kungani? Yebo, ngoba ezimweni ezinjalo, i-plaque efihlakeleyo yempucuko, ikhulile ihlushwa izinkulungwane ezimbalwa zeminyaka ehlukumezayo, izimpukane. Futhi kutholakala uhlaka olukhulu lwezilwane, okungekho isigidi esisodwa esivele sigcwalisekile. Ngokushesha kuphuma: zalayat, bonisa amazinyo-ukuqoqa insimu yendawo. Futhi kusukela lapha umzabalazo wendawo ngaphansi kwelanga awukhohlisi (emva kwemizuzu engu-20 ukuphela kokugcina, futhi konke kuzokwenzeka phakade), akusizi ngalutho ukuzivikela ekupheleni kokuphumelela. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi abanye abantu basabela kanjani ekunyameni okubi futhi okungajabulisi, okuvinjelwe futhi okuzolile ngaphezu kwakho.
Indlela
Ngesiqingatha sokuphendulela - thinta izinzwa zakho. Vala - bese ukhathazeka ukuthi awuzange unikeze i-troglodyte. Okubi kakhulu-ke-ke isikhathi eside ukucabanga ukuthi ungaphila kanjani. Isiphetho? Ekuqaleni, ukuthula okuthukuthele. Amathumba okuhlukumezeka, futhi wena, ekubhekeleni njengembukiso wekhabhinethi yezicuriosities, ucabangela ukuthi uphendule. Kakade ngaphambi kokuhlukaniswa, ngokuthula futhi ngokuzithoba uveza iphuzu lakho lokubuka. Futhi uphume, ujabule ngokunqoba kwakho kokuziphatha.
I-Rudeness inombolo 2 - "ukugwaza phansi". Kusukela kubasebenzi bokuthile okubalulekile, izikhulu, amaphoyisa, abalindi bezokuphepha ... Leli yinkinga yeklasi yenxephezelo ngenxa yokwehla kwabo kwangempela - ngokuhlazeka kwabanye.
Ngisemncane ngashaywa. Bangiklolodela esikoleni. Umfazi akakwanelisi. Futhi konke lokho. Indlela. Into esemqoka - ungayitholi. Ukuthi yonke le mibono enesizotha kanye nama-tirade amahlaya aqondiswa kuwe. Lesi sidalwa senza ngale ndlela kuwo wonke umuntu. Lezi yizinkinga zakhe ezithandana naye. Futhi uqaphela ukuthi lo mboniso "wawungaphansi kobuncane", futhi uziphatha nawo - ngendlela eyiyo. Ngomqondo wokuthi awunandaba ukuthi ucabanga ngempela ngakho, kubalulekile - ukuwuqeda futhi uwuthole. Abazijwayele bakho basabela kanjani ekuhlambulukeni okungenangqondo nokungajabulisi, isibonelo? Kwamanye, kukhona ukubethelwa okuqondile futhi okungenangqondo: "O, yilo kuphela ongakwazi ukunquma!" Abanye babo bluffing mayelana namandla akho, ukuxhumana emaphephandabeni nohulumeni. Zizwa ukuthi yikuphi ubuthakathaka bakhe.
Ukuduka # 3 - isitayela somsebenzi. Kukhona isigaba samakhosi okucindezelwa abasebenzi, ukukhwabanisa ngisho nokuhlambalaza - indawo yendalo. Indlela. Unenhlanhla ukuhlangabezana nalokhu? Masinyane qinisekisa ukuthi lokhu kuyesikhashana. Ukuthi ngeke ube naye kuze kube ngumhlalaphansi, kodwa uzitholele indawo ekhudlwana. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, yakha ukuzivikela kwengqondo, isihlangu sokucabanga: "Masizikhandle, njengesizinda, njengemvula yamanzi kubantu abavamile." Uma ukhubekile futhi uhlambalaza ngobuqotho, ngokushesha ulungise ngandlela-thile - noma okungenani uzenzele. Une-dictaphone edeskini yakho, futhi kukhona ofakazi abathathu abaseduze: udinga noma yiziphi izinkinga? I-Hama akudingeki ukuba imemeza, kodwa kufanele uyibonise ukuthi awuyikuthuthumela phambi kwakhe. Phela, uthola ukuthi kwakuyisilwane sakhe. Futhi izilwane zizwa kahle ukwesaba - noma, ngokuphambene, amandla.