Indlela yokuziphatha nomama-mkhwenyana odabukayo

Kungakanani okwakushiwo mayelana nomamazala, nezikhalazo, amahlaya angalungile kanye nenzondo eqondile kaningi kuthunyelwa emlonyeni wethu. Futhi kunalokho, ubuza, bonke laba besifazane abathandekayo abaye bazalwa, baye bakhuphula futhi cishe cishe nge-saucer bakunikeze bonke abayeni bakho abathandekayo nabayeni kuwe? Sizokutshela ukuthi ungaziphatha kanjani noninazala onomunyu.

Umamazala "Feudal"

Ngokwemvelo, uyinkosi yama-feudal, nabo bonke abasebenzi bayo basekhaya. Uma ucabanga ukuthi uyisitha "paratrooper" esithembele ngqo enkukhu yakhe yenkukhu enokuthula, uyingozi engozini yakhe. Futhi noma ngabe ingubo yokubandakanya isivele ihlotswe ngomunwe wakho, akazange akhohlwe ngakho. Kulokhu, akusho ukuthi umamazala uhlale efuna ukuxhumana nabesifazane bendodana yakhe. Uvele engakwazi ukukuthethelela ukuthi indodana yazama ukukhetha umkakhe ngaphandle kokuhlanganyela kwakhe okusebenzayo nomkhandlu kamama. Kuyacaca ngisho nendoda eyimpumputhe ukuthi uninazala uyazi kangcono kunendodana yakhe ukuthi injabulo yakhe iyini.

Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Indlela engcono kakhulu yokwenza ubudlelwane nomamazala omdabukisayo "inkosi yama-feudal" ukuzenza sengathi ulalele ngokucophelela lokho akushiwo, uxoxe ngakho konke okuncane futhi uhloniphe ikhono lakhe lokuphatha umnotho. Noma kunjalo, yenza lokhu ngendlela yakho. Uzokuthola kancane kancane futhi aqale ukuzwa njengenye ingane engenakuzivikela. Ekugcineni, akabi. Ukuncintisana okuncane nje.

Uninazala "Isikrini"

Umkhwekazi walolu hlobo lwengqondo usolisa kumuntu. Le nkosikazi enamandla izoletha noma yini "emanzini ahlanzekile". Kusukela kumzuzwana wokuqala wokuzijwayeza kwakho, uzoqala ukuchofoza okuthile bese uqoqa ukungcola kuwe. Ngani, angabingelela ngamazinyo akhe, noma ngabe uhlala efulethini elifanayo. Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo bekhalaza indodana yakhe nsuku zonke: "Ngibone umkakho emgwaqweni namhlanje. Ukhulume nendoda ejwayelekile kakhulu. " Ngakho-ke ungamangali uma ngelinye ilanga ubona umthandi wakho ngentukuthelo. Ngomane, unina endaweni ethile "uyabamba" ukuthi unomuntu ophethe umphathi wakho, futhi usuvele wakhipha izisu ezintathu kuye. Le nhlebo, ngokungangabazeki, yayiyobe ihlekisa kakhulu kumphathi wakho. Kodwa akukwenzi kube lula kuwe.

Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Akekho icala elingenakufaneleka. Akusizi ngalutho! Futhi ngisho nesitifiketi osibuyisele emaphoyiseni mayelana nokungabikho kwezinkolelo kuyoba ubufakazi bakhe obungenakuphikwa ukuthi uthweswe umthetho. Yenza ngokuzethemba nangesithunzi. Ungahlanganyeli ezingxabanweni ezingenalusizo. Lowo othanda wena, futhi uyazi ukuthi ungubani ngempela.

Umkhwekazi "uNasedka"

Umkhwekazi onjalo wenqabe ukwamukela ngokucacile ukuthi indodana isivele iba yindoda endala. Uyamnakekela njalo ngomzuzu, ekholelwa ukuthi uvele egcwalisa umsebenzi wakhe ongcwele. Angenaso isixwayiso angakwazi ukungena egumbini lakho nganoma isiphi isikhathi sosuku lokuletha isobho esisha. Angakwazi ukumba ngaphakathi kwezingubo zangaphansi zakho, futhi, efuna ukunikeza isipho, uthenga umcamelo owodwa kuphela. Ubani? Yebo, akunjalo. Umkhwekazi onjalo, isifiso sakho sokwakha iyunithi yezenhlalakahle evame ukuhlangana nesimo sokuzikhukhumeza ngokuzikhukhumeza: "Angiyidingi muntu, ungangingena endlini yabantu abadala." Futhi uma ngandlela-thile ekwazi ukubekezelela ukuhlala kwakho (nje indodana ejwayele ukulala nebhede le-teddy, futhi manje nenye intombazane elele), khona-ke kusukela kulo mzuzu uzokuzonda ngokukhululekile. Emaceleni omtholampilo, uzothola indebe yakho i-lapel potion esikhundleni setiyi kanye nenothi "Hamba, amandla angcolile!".

Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Ukukhuluma nomkhwekazi onjalo akusizi ngalutho - kuzophela nge-validol kanye nezinsolo zokungahloniphi. Nakhu kuyadingeka ukuthi uthathe isinyathelo ngokushesha futhi ngokunqumayo - ukunciphisa ukukhulumisana nokuhlonishwa kweprotocolally, ngokushaya ucingo usuku olulandelayo ngocingo. Kule mpikiswano ngeke ungene futhi ungatholi ukuthi ubani othanda kakhulu "umfana ompofu". Kumyeni kumkhwezala ukuba angamnyundeli! Ukumthumelela ngezikhathi ezithile ukuxhumana nomama okwenziwe ukuthi, ngeke kube khona lapho kungabikho ukulwa nawe. Uma, yiqiniso, uzophumelela.

Uninazala womViper

Uninazala nomklamo we "Viper" ngumuntu ohlambalaza futhi ohlambalaza. Ngokusobala akakuthandi. Kodwa ngeke akhulume ngokuqondile. Uzolinda ngesineke lapho wenza iphutha ukubuza indodana yakho ngokuzwakalayo: "Futhi uliphi lapho?" Uma umyeni wakho wesikhathi esizayo ekuyisa ekhaya, uzozizwa njengesithameli, njenge-powder keg. "I-Viper" izokwenqaba izinkulumo zakho, ibhekisela endodaneni yakhe kuphela, njengokungathi awukho ekamelweni. Futhi lokhu naphezu kwesicelo sesivele sithunyelwe kubhalisi! Futhi uma wena, ufundiswa ngokuhlangenwe nakho okubabazayo, zama ukugwema ukuxhumana, khona-ke uthatha isinqumo sokuthi ucabanga ukuthi akafanelanga umphakathi wakhe. Linda, lizobe likhona.

Yini okufanele ngiyenze ? Ungase ucabange ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuyiphatha. Isibonelo, ukudla okuvamile kwesifo sodoti. Nokho, lo wesifazane empeleni - isidalwa esingathandeki, esicasuliwe yizwe lonke. Kubonakala sengathi konke okukuzungezile kumatasa kakhulu kangangokuthi kufanele abhekane naye. Into esemqoka akufanele ukwesaba umkhwekazi onjalo. Isikhali sakho esiyinhloko ukubukeka okufudumele nokumamatheka okutholile. Khumbula ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kuvame ukucela usizo. Ngakho msize. Uma umcimbi uphumelele, ungaba umngane wakho othembekile. Ngempela, izwe linonya kakhulu, kodwa uyaliqonda kahle kakhulu.

Uninazala "Fox"

Ekuboneni kuqala, kubonakala sengathi umyeni wakho unomama wezwe. Ngokushesha uphakamisa ukuzibiza ngegama nokuphuza ingilazi yokwazi. U "thinta" futhi uxoxe njalo naye, njengentombi, mayelana nazo zonke izinhlobo zezintombikazi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, besaba ukucasula umama "wezwe," ulalela izindaba zakhe ngesineke ngendoda yangaphambili yomyeni. Ungase futhi abonise ukwesaba ukuthi indodana yahamba yonke eya kuyise: "Futhi ungabala ukuthi bangaphi izintombi!". Umphefumulo wakho uqala ukuhlushwa ukungabaza okungaqondakali, awusayikujabulela umqondo womshado. Uninazala "Fox" wanezela umlilo futhi unqoba ngokuthula. Naphezu kwakho konke, ufaka isicelo ehhovisi lokubhalisa futhi uhlala nomamazana wakho endaweni eyodwa. "Fox" ibonisa injabulo yonke, kodwa uyazi ukuthi ulahlekelwe kuphela okokuqala. Futhi ukuthi imvume yeVatican yokuhlukanisa ngeke kudingeke uyibuze.

Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Qaphela futhi uhlale kude. Ungaphenduli ekukhonzeni futhi ungayinaki izambulo zakhe - ingxenye yabo - ayiqiniso. Kusuka kuwe, uzolinda "ukuvuleka" okufanayo nosuku olulodwa ukuze abe ngumphakathi kumyeni wakho. Ngakho-ke ukudidisana nokudibanisa! Akulona igama elilodwa elingathandeki. Enye iphuzu elibalulekile - ngaso sonke isikhathi ube eceleni komuntu wakho futhi ungavumeli noma ubani akhulume ngaye ngokuhlekisa. Ngisho nonina!

Lona kuphela uhlu olungaphelele lomukhwekazi onobungozi ongase abe khona. Kodwa-ke, ungacabangi ukuthi bonke omama bahle kakhulu. Ukuziphatha ngokufanele noninazala, ungacela ukusekelwa kwakhe futhi ube abangane abangcono kakhulu. Sikufisa ngobuqotho ukuthi ube ngumkhwezala omnene, othandekayo, onothando. Futhi bayakuqonda kahle indlela indodana yabo enenhlanhla ngayo, eyathatha isibhakabhaka esinjalo. Futhi uyini ukungaqiniseki ngokumomotheka? Ucabanga ukuthi akunangqondo?