Ekuphenduleni umbuzo: "Indlela yokwenza umfana akholelwe ukuthi mina ngingcono kakhulu? "- akukho lutho oluyinkimbinkimbi. Into esemqoka ukukholelwa kuwe kanye namandla akho. Kodwa okokuqala, okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukwenza lo mnumzane aziqhenye ngawe. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu, okokuqala, kudingeka wenze konke okusemandleni ukuze uthakaze umfana futhi umbonise ukuthi ungowona, kakhulu kakhulu .... Umbuzo kuphela oshiywe ukuthi ungakwenza kahle kanjani lokhu nokuthi uziphathe kanjani, ukuze isoka liqaphele konke okushiwo ngenhla. Ngakho-ke, masizame ukwenza umthandi wakho aqaphele ukuthi "uyindlovukazi."
Ukubukeka kuyisiqinisekiso sokuqala sokuphumelela .
Khumbula ukuthi ukuze ube ngcono, kumele ulandele lesi simo. Ukubukeka okuhle nokugcinwa kahle lapha kumelele kwenye yezingxenye zokuqala. Yiqiniso, akukho mhlaba wonke ozobeka ngokuqondile ukuthi kufanele ubheke kanjani. Futhi ngokukhethekile, ukuthi yenze ngokungaqondakali kwalowo mfana. Amadoda ahlale ehlukaniswa ukunambitheka okuhlukahlukene nokuqonda kwabesifazane. Kodwa, uma ekhona nawe, usuke usenomusa wakhe. Kuhlala nje ukwenza izichibiyelo ezimbalwa ukwenza izimonyo zakho, izinwele ngisho ne-wardrobe futhi ngokuqinisekile uzokholelwa ukuthi uyindlovukazi. Ngendlela, kumuntu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uluphi uhlobo lokubonakala ophuma naye kubantu futhi uvakashele abangane bakhe. Yena, njengokungathi "wayengeke amemezele, ngokuphithizela komhawu" njalo ehlaba umxhwele ekujuleni komphefumulo wakhe lapho wenza u-complement, noma uqaphele ukuthi umngane wakhe uthanda ukudlula wonke umuntu. Ngenxa yalokhu, zama njalo ukugcizelela isithunzi sakho futhi ufihle ukungaphumeleli (uma kukhona). Ngaphandle kwalokho, uma unambitha kahle futhi uhlale ugqoka kahle futhi kunoma yisiphi isimo ongabheka kufanelekile, ngokuqinisekile iyokwenza ukuba inhlonipho yakho iqhayise ngawe. Ngakho-ke, ungaphumuli futhi ungayeki ukunaka ngokufanele ukubukeka kwakho. Nika othandekayo wakho ithuba lokukuhlonipha futhi akholelwe ukuthi eceleni kwakhe intombazane ethandeka kakhulu futhi ekhangayo, "ngokuhaha" ibheke bonke abanye abantu, kodwa ingumnikazi kuphela!
Akukhona nje umzimba, kodwa nomphefumulo ...
Akumangalisi, kodwa abantu bayakwazisa ngempela umhlaba ocebile we ntombazane, futhi ikhono lakhe lokuba ngaphandle kokuzama ukuzimela "izicathulo" ezingafani. Kufanele ujabule, kulula futhi athakazelise nawe ukuba uchithe isikhathi kunoma yisiphi isimo. Kumele ukwazi ukuzolalisa umfana lapho ecasulwa ngento ethile, unikele iseluleko, uhlanganyele naye izinto zokuzilibazisa nokuzilibazisa. Lokhu konke kuqinisekisa ukuthi uzoba ngowona mhle hhayi nje kuphela intombazane, kodwa futhi njengomngane.
Intombazane enhle kakhulu intombazane enhle kakhulu .
Yikuphi indoda eyayikukhumbuza futhi igqoke ezandleni zakho, kufanele ukhumbule nemithetho emibili yokugunyaza yokuphila okuseduze, efundeka kanje: "Ubulili bekungukuthi, buyobe buzoba" futhi "Ukuhlolwa kobulili kungenxa yobuhle obude." Khumbula ukuthi noma yimuphi umuntu uthanda ukuhlukahluka kobulili. Yingakho akufanele ukwesabe ukulinika othandekayo wakho. Khululeka futhi ukhulume ngesibindi ngokuzwakalayo ngezifiso zakho zobulili. Amantombazane abathanda ngempela lamantombazane futhi ngenxa yalokhu abathanda kakhulu.
Yenza imali engqondweni yakho ngezingcingo ezincane, okwenza kube mnandi futhi ungakhohlwa njalo ebusuku, futhi umfana wakho uzokutshela kaningi ukuthi ungumuntu ongcono futhi uzobonga ubuhlobo bakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lo mfana uzozizwa njengomlingo wangempela, futhi ukubonga lokhu kuzowela emahlombe akho.
Ubudlelwane obungenza umfana aqaphele ukuthi ungcono kakhulu .
Umfana njalo ufuna ukuzizwa enamandla, ehlakaniphile futhi enhle. Ungakhohlwa ukumsiza ukuba aqiniseke ngakho. Phela, ngubani, uma kungenjalo wena, nge-complement yakho noma ngezwi lomusa, ungamqinisekisa owesilisa wakhe "Mina" kangcono kunabo bonke abanye. Ngakho-ke ungakhohlwa ukuthi, okokuqala, kufanele uziqhenye isoka lakho ngokwakho, ungakhohlwa ukumtshela ngalokho, futhi ngesikhathi sakhe, uzoziqhenya ngawe. Dala isimo sakho ozithandayo induduzo egcwele kuzo zonke izinzwa zaleli gama futhi uqinisekise ukuthi ungubani ngempela. Into esemqoka ukuthi kumele aqaphele futhi akholelwe ukuthi kuhle kuye kuphela. Lokhu konke kusho ukuthi ubulale ubudlelwane lapho umfana engekho nje kuphela obheka intombi yakhe, kodwa ngokufanayo.
Ngendlela, obani, njengoba singeyona eyinqaba, yiqhinga lobufazi. Awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwalo lapha. Ngosizo lwakhe, ungasebenzisa okukhethile kwakho kancane ngosizo lwe-caress nokubukeka kahle. Ngakho-ke ungenza abathandekayo bakholelwe ukuthi ulungile. Kodwa, okubaluleke kakhulu - ungaphenduli induku futhi ungabeki isimo.
Ukubeka izifundo ezitholwe "kumakhosikazi . "
Ekugcineni, sanquma, ngokusekelwe ngenhla, ukuba sithole isiphetho futhi sikunikeze amathiphu azokwenza umfana akholelwe ukuthi uyintombazane engcono kakhulu engake yazi.
Umfana akasoze akutshele ukuthi ungcono, uma uthanda:
- ukuhlala kuphela impilo yakhe, ukumthanda yena kuphela nokulandela umfana emasontweni akhe;
- iningi liyamtshela njalo ukuthi wena ungcono kakhulu;
- qhathanisa namanye amadoda (ikakhulukazi abafana besikhathi esidlule);
- eboshiwe futhi eboshwe embhedeni;
- Ungazibukeli wena nokubukeka kwakho;
- cindezela kuye ngokuhlaselwa njalo komhawu nokungazethembi;
- ukubeka imibono nezinqumo zakhe kuye.
Umfana uzokubonga futhi acabange okuhle kakhulu, uma uthanda:
- ziqaphele njalo nokubukeka kwakho;
- thatha isithakazelo empilweni yakhe futhi uqaphele konke okwenzeka kuye;
- Ungesabi ukuxoxa naye ngezifiso zakho zobulili nemicabango yakho;
- engavuli ngokugcwele phambi kwakhe, abe nesithakazelo sakhe siqu, esizogcina othandekayo ekuthandeni;
- ungamkhathazi lo mfana futhi wenze kanjalo ukuthi unesikhathi sokukukhumbula;
- ukumnika i-caress egcwele, ukunakwa, uthando nenduduzo, efakazela ukuthi uyindoda yangempela;
- ukuba wena futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi ungowesifazane!