Izinzuzo ezicacile zowesifazane phambi komuntu


Ukuphikisana nokubambisana ngokobulili sekuvele kunabantu abaningi. Ukungqubuzana okuphakade, onokuqonda, noma oqhuba kangcono, ufika ekupheleni. Sekuyisikhathi sokuphawula i "i" ngokutshela ukuthi izinzuzo ezibonakalayo zowesifazane ziphezu kwalowo muntu.

Iqembu labacwaningi eliholwa nguNkulunkulufrey Pirlson ovela kuJohns Hopkins Medical Institute sekuyisikhathi eside efunda izici zesidumbu sowesifazane nesilisa. Abacwaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ukuthunjwa okuphelele ngamadoda abaphathi bazo zonke amagatsha okuphila komphakathi kuzoholela ekuqhekekeni kwempucuko. Ngakho-ke akumangazi ukuthi abesifazane bahamba kancane kancane kodwa ngokuqinisekile bayaqonda izici zesilisa - kusukela kumshayeli wetekisi ukuya kumongameli. Futhi lena inqubo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo yemvelo. Phela, kwakukhona isikhathi emlandweni lapho abesifazane bebusa impilo emphakathini - umlando owaziwayo.

Ngenkambiso yokuthuthukiswa kokuziphendukela kwemvelo, yaba yingozi kakhulu engokwengqondo nangokwenyama - "ubulili obuqinile". Abesifazane, ngakolunye uhlangothi, banesikhathi eside sokuphila. Ikakhulukazi emazweni ahluphekile, afaka neRussia. Ngaphandle kokungabaza, lokhu kuyinzuzo ecacile yowesifazane phambi komuntu. Kanti futhi abesifazane bancane amathuba okugula, baningi kakhulu emvelo futhi bavulekile. Ngakho umbono wokuthi abesifazane bacabanga okubi nakakhulu futhi abazi lutho akuyona intokwane kuphela. Abesifazane bangaphansi kokucindezeleka kunesigamu esiphezulu sabantu. Njengoba kungekho ukuthambekela ukuphefumula nganoma yisiphi isizathu futhi wenze inhlanzi iphele.

Inzuzo ecacile yowesifazane wukuthi ubulili obuhle banikezwa ithalenta ukuze ahlele imicabango yakhe ngokucacile. Abacwaningi bathola iqiniso elilandelayo. Kubonakala ukuthi okubaluleke kakhulu ekukhulumeni komuntu wengqondo ku-cortex yesikhashana nangaphambili kuyathuthukiswa kakhulu kwabesifazane. Ngakho-ke, abesifazane abahle akuzona ama-interlocutors amnandi kuphela, kodwa futhi nabalingani abafiselekayo kakhulu ebhizinisini. Umholi wesifazane angakwazi ukusetha ubuhlobo obuhle nomuntu wokuqala owazi naye. Abesifazane baphatha ngendlela eguquguqukayo futhi enenzuzo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abaholi besifazane bayathandeka futhi bavuleke kunabalingani babo besilisa. Abesifazane baqondwa kangcono ngenxa yokucaca kwesimo sabo kunoma yikuphi ukukhishwa. EJalimane, isibonelo, amafemu angaphezu kwama-40% namabhizinisi aphakathi nendawo yibesifazane.

Akekho olindele usongo kusuka kowesifazane. Ngakho-ke, namuhla bafuna abaqaphi. Banikeza okuthiwa "ukuvikelwa okufihliwe". Ngaphambi kwamadoda, banezinzuzo eziningi. Isibonelo, abazigxila. Ziyabonakala ngabantu abangaziwayo njengobhala noma izikhulu. Ngokuvamile, abaqaphi besifazane balinda abafazi nezingane. Abamabhizinisi abacebile ngokuvamile baqasha abaqaphi besifazane njengabangane bomfazi. Okuhlangenwe nakho kubonisa ukuthi lo wesifazane, kunokuba umuntu, uqonda umsebenzi wezobuchwepheshe ngokuqondile. Akazijiki phansi ngaphansi kwezibhamu, kodwa uzozama ukuvimbela lesi sigameko ngendlela engenagazi.

Inzuzo engenakuphikwa yowesifazane phambi komuntu kufanele ikhulunywe iqiniso elilodwa. Ngaphandle kwezinzwa eziyisihlanu ezijwayelekile, "umqondo wesithupha" oyingqayizivele ubonakala kwabesifazane. Ayikwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi intuition (ngokuvamile ivame ngamadoda). Lona yimizwa lapho inhliziyo yenina ivumelana, uma kwenzeka kwenzeke ingane yakhe endaweni ethile kude. Abesifazane bangase bazizwe behlupheka ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Lokhu kuqiniseka kungaba namandla kakhulu, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuyichaza. Owesifazane uzoqaphela kalula amanga emehlweni e-interlocutor. Ungaqonda ngesimo sobuso nesimo sokuthi umuntu ufihle okuthile. Abesifazane bangama-physognomists amahle. Bangatshela shazi ukuthi ubani okufanele agcinwe kude.

Abesifazane banomthwalo wemfanelo womndeni nabantwana ngaphezu kwamadoda. Ngakho-ke, bazokuvuma umsebenzi okhokhelwayo ophansi kunokuba bahlale embhedeni futhi balinde okunikezwayo okuhle kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, iningi lazo ngokuziphendulela libhekene necala. Futhi emva kwesikhashana baqala ukuthola okuningi. Abesifazane ngokushesha bavumelane nanoma yimuphi umsebenzi, bafunde kangcono futhi baqede eqenjini.

Ebudlelwaneni obuseduze, lo wesifazane ungumpetha ongamangalelwa. Ngesinye isikhathi angathola ama-orgasms amahlanu. Isikhathi sabo nobuciko kunoma yikuphi ukufaniswa akuhambisani nenjabulo yamadoda e-trisecond. Ngendlela, i-champagne encane yandisa kuphela ikhono lomfazi lokuthanda. Kodwa abalimi emva kokuphuza ngokuvamile kukhona ukuphazamiseka.

Ubulili obuthakathaka buyaphumelela empilweni yakho yangasese. Phela, abesifazane abahlupheki ukuthi umlingani wabo awunayo imilenze ende noma umgudu omncane. Ubuhle bomyeni noma lothando kuthathwe owesifazane "ngokufana". Into eyinhloko ukuthi kufanele kube khona umuntu omuhle. Ngakho-ke, lapho besifazane bekhulile abafuni ukuphunyuka kubantu abasha nabangenalwazi. Ngaphandle nje ngokuphelele okwesikhashana.

Nguyena wesifazane othatha umthwalo wemfanelo kulokho umhlaba oyoba khona esikhathini esizayo. Ngoba ukukhuliswa kwengane ngo-80% kungukufaneleka kwakhe. Ngesikhathi abantu bakha inqaba kusukela esihlabathini futhi bakhulume ngekusasa lezwe labo, abesifazane basebenza ukulungiselela ukuphila okuzimele kwezizukulwane ezizayo. Ukuqhathaniswa kwezikhungo zezemfundo zabesifazane kwaholela ekutheni abantu abasha bafunde kabanzi. Kusukela kumbono wesilisa, lokhu akusihle kakhulu. Kodwa nabesifazane - inhlanganisela enkulu. Akukhona nje kuphela ukuthi emazweni amaningi ukuhlukunyezwa emphakathini kwehle. Ngakho amadoda aqala ukuqonda abesifazane kangcono kakhulu. Ososayensi bathi eminyakeni eyikhulu eyizinkulungwane, amadoda azoshabalala ngokuphelele. Njengoba ihlazo le-chromosome ye-Y yindoda. Futhi kuyofika abesifazane besibhakabhaka nokuthula. Kodwa abafazi abathandekayo ngeke bajabule yini ngaphandle kweziwula ezizibugovu kanye nama-simple?