Lokhu kusho ukuthi owesifazane ulungele ukuqhubeka nobudlelwano bobulili. Into eyinhloko okufanele uyikhumbule ukuthi ukufanisa i-orgasm ngaphambi kokuba umuntu onobuchwepheshe futhi ongakhethi asebenze. Ukuqhathanisa ukuhlukana komlomo wesibeletho noma ukuvimbela ukuvimba, okuvezwayo, akunakwenzeka.
Yebo, izibalo lapha azikho konke okuqinisekisayo: cishe amaphesenti angama-35 abesifazane abatholanga i-orgasm ngokujwayelekile, ngokuphila kocansi okusebenzayo okuqala cishe eminyakeni engu-17. Konke lokhu bajabulela ubulili ngaphandle kwe-orgasm, balingisa. Nale-orgasm yangempela kwenzeka cishe eminyakeni engu-25-27.
Ebudlelwaneni obungathí sina, kufanele ukhulume iqiniso. Ukukhohlisa kubi kakhulu. Kodwa akekho owenza ukuba uvume ukuthi awukwazi ukuqeda naye. Ngitshele ukuthi kunzima kuwe ukuthola i-orgasm nanoma ubani.
2. Amazwi akhe: "Nganginabesifazane abaningi." Kusho ukuthi - Ngingumqeqeshi kwezocansi, kungani ungafiki kimi ngilazi yekhofi?
Abaningi besifazane, empeleni, bayathukuthelisa izitatimende ezinjalo. Noma kunjalo, bonke abantu, ngendlela eyodwa noma enye, bayaqiniseka ukuthi ngaleyo ndlela bakhulisa ukulinganisa kwabo emehlweni abesifazane. Eqinisweni, iphenduka. Owesifazane ucabanga ukuthi uzoba omunye wabantu abaningi ohlwini lwabapapa futhi uzokhohlwa ngaye ngomuso. Yini engaba yizincomo? Vele ukweqa leli zwi ngezindlebe, kungabonakali okungalungile kwendoda futhi ngeke kusho lutho. Indoda ihlale ikhumbula lowo ayengumuntu omuhle ngempela, ngisho nenombolo enkulu yokuxhumana.
3. Wathi: "Hhayi, thina, asizange silale naye." Lokhu kusho ukuthi uyathemba ukuthi uzothola okuthile okungathí sina. Ngokuvamile, abesifazane bavame ukuhlukumeza impumelelo yabo yocansi, ngaleyo ndlela bazama ukubonakala behlanzekile. Nakuba, ngisho namantombazane abanolwazi angakwazi ukuqala izinkumbulo ezimnandi, azikholelwa emqondweni. Vala ubudlelwane kuyingozi ngoba amanga azovuleka ngokushesha noma kamuva bese uzozisola ngamazwi akho. Kodwa ngisho nokuzenza sengathi awunacala nakho kuyisiphukuphuku. Uma uhamba ukukhuluma ngocansi, khuluma ngemishwana ejwayelekile, ngaphandle kwamagama, izinsuku namaqiniso.
4. Angasho ukuthi: "Lokhu kwakuyizocansi ezingcono kakhulu empilweni yami." Ungakhathazeki. Ngokwesifundo esingaziwa esenziwa kuwo wonke amazwe, abesifazane bahlale becaphuna izinga lokuzijabulisa, futhi amadoda akhetha ukuthula, kunokuba anciphise imizwelo emihle cishe cishe isigamu. Kulokhu, zama ukwamukela amaqhinga bese ukhuluma ngalokho ayekuthanda kakhulu, nokuthi angathanda kanjani esikhathini esizayo. Amanga azoqondwa ngokushesha.
5. Amazwi akhe: "Angicabangi ngemicabango yokuzikhukhumeza." Kulokho okushiwo, kusho - Ngesikhathi eside ngifuna ubulili obusebenzayo namadoda amabili amahle, kodwa angisoze ngitshela muntu ngakho. Amadoda amaningi kakhulu aphupha ngowesifazane othatha isinyathelo. Khumbula - amadoda athande izindlebe kanye nabesifazane, nje ungakhulumi ngakho. Futhi indaba yezinkolelo zakho ezithandayo zizosebenza kangcono kune-agent causative epholile kunazo zonke emhlabeni.
Ungazama kuleli cala ukuthi ubuke ndawonye ndawonye noma u-porn, ukhuphukela kumasayithi lapho abantu abanesifiso socansi behlezi, futhi abangenqikazi ukukhuluma ngakho. Uma ufuna okufanayo, kodwa awukwazi ukuvuma - thumela i-SMS, noma incwadi eya ku-imeyili enokuqukethwe okubukeka. Ngikholelwa, kuzosebenza.
6. Amazwi akhe: "Ubulili bekungukuthi, kodwa kungcono kungabi khona." Lokhu ukuphambuka okuqondile endaweni yesehlakalo. Ngendlela, lapha kuzoba usizo kakhulu. Ubulili ngaphandle kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo lwentukuthelo luyenzeka noma selusha, noma ngezifebe. Uma ehlangana nomunye umuntu, kusho ukuthi kukhona into enesibindi, futhi lokhu kuyiqiniso.
Kungcono ukungenzi lutho, vele udwebe iziphetho.
7. Amazwi akhe: "Usayizi awunandaba." Lokhu kusho ukuthi akafuni ukucasula umuntu omuhle. Empeleni, ngani? Mane nje uqale ukwenqaba okukhulu komhlangano olandelayo.
8. Amazwi akhe: "Awunelise ngisho nangombhede." Lapha kufanele ucabange ngokucophelela. Ukumemeza, ukhathazeke, uthinte i-pan yokuthambisa ekhanda - konke lokhu akulutho, uma kuqhathaniswa nalawa magama. Amadoda azokhumbula lokhu ngaso sonke isikhathi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bangaki uxolisa kuwe emva kokuba ungadli. Akufanele uthinte ngaphansi kwebhande. Kungcono ukucabangela kusengaphambili ukuthi uzothini kuye esimweni sokuthuka.
9. Amazwi akhe: "Ngikuguqulile." Eqinisweni, kusho ukuthi owesifazane akazi nje ukuthi angamthobisa kanjani indoda. Abaningi kakhulu - cishe bonke owesifazane wesithathu - bayabonakala njengokukhohlisa, ngisho nokuqamba. Cabanga kuqala! Khona-ke, uma ufuna ukuba okungenani ubuhlobo obunobungane, lawa mazwi ngeke amvumele ukuthi akuphathe kahle.
10. Amagama akhe: "Uyakuthanda ucansi ngomlomo?". Ngakho-ke akusibi, kodwa akusilo. Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Cabanga, kodwa ingabe wayengumfana omuhle maduzane?
Sicela uqaphele ukuthi ukulinganisa okungenhla kwemibhobho yombhede akubandakanyi uhlu oluphelele lwemishwana phezu kweqiniso okuzofanele ubekezelele okungaphezu kwesisodwa. Faka ikhanda nomqondo wokubhoboza, imizwa - ke.