Eqinisweni, umqondo wesikhathi esidinga ukuba bobabili abalingani ukuba baneliseke ngabanye. Ukukhuluma ngezocansi, abesifazane bavame ukugxila kwi-caresses ende, ukusikhipha umzimba. Ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, isihloko singase sibe nesithakazelo esisheshayo esisheshayo endaweni engavamile.
Amadoda anombono ohlukile wobulili: abakhathaleli isikhathi, ukugcizelela kumvamisa wobudlelwano bocansi.
Ngokusho kochwepheshe, ubulili obuhle kubhekwa uma bobabili abalingani beneliseka ngokugcwele.
Khumbula ukuthi amadoda nabesifazane bajabule ngezici ezahlukene. Sidinga okuhlangenwe nakho okuhlukile okubukeka ukuze sifinyelele ekuphakameni kwenjabulo. Amadoda amaningi ajabule kakhulu - abheka nje umthambo wesifazane noma umlenze ongenalutho. Kulesi simo, indoda ingafaniswa nomlilo ovutha ngokushesha futhi uphinde uhambe ngokushesha.
Futhi ukujabulisa owesifazane kudinga isikhathi esiningi. Abavele nje babheke umzimba wesifuba. Owesifazane angaqhathaniswa namanzi. Ukuze i-wave ijabule, kumele ifinyeleleke kahle. Futhi lona wesifazane uyancipha kancane kancane.
Ukuze bobabili abalingani bakwazi ukuthola ukwaneliseka okwedlulele kumdlalo wezocansi, kumele kube nokukhathazana komunye nomunye.
Isisindo sobulili: isimo sengqondo sabesifazane
Owesifazane uncike emizwelweni. Imizwelo iphinde ibe ngaphansi kwesigaba sezocansi. Owesifazane ufisa indoda kuphela uma ethandana noma emthanda. Futhi izinga lokuzijabulisa, nokuba khona kwalo ngokujwayelekile, kuxhomeke emizwa owesifazane ozwa ngayo ngomlingani.
Isibonelo, uma uthukuthele indoda yakho noma unezinye imizwelo emibi, khona-ke injabulo oyoyithola uma intukuthelo ithatha indawo yenceku. Ngokusho kwedatha yesayensi, abesifazane abangu-46% babheka izakhi ezingcono kakhulu ebuhlotsheni - lokhu kungumzwelo wobunye kanye nobuhlobo obuseduze namadoda abo, kanye nokwethemba. Futhi ngenxa yokwaneliseka kwangempela kwezocansi, owesifazane kufanele abe nomuzwa wokuthi uyathandwa, ufunwa, avikelwe.
Kodwa-ke, ngisho nasesimweni lapho owesifazane engafuni ukungena khona, angalungiswa. Lokhu kudinga ukubekezela, ngoba owesifazane udinga isilinganiso seminyaka engu-20-30 yethemba nokuthandana, ngakho kwavela isifiso socansi. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kubalulekile ukuthi zonke izinzwa zijabule: uthinte, iphunga, ukubona.
Yingakho kuqala kubalulekile. Ngokuyinhloko ngenxa yokugqugquzelwa kwe-clitoris ngesikhathi sokuqala kokucindezela owesifazane ekutholeni amacala angu-70% angafinyelela e-orgasm. Futhi abesifazane abangaba ngu-30% bayakwazi ukuthola i-orgasm ngokuqondile ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi.
Into edabukisayo yukuthi amadoda amaningi azimisele ukufika ebhizinisini ngokushesha, angakhathaleli ukwaneliseka komlingani wakho. Kulesi simo, kufanelekile ukutshela le ndoda ngokubaluleka kwe-foreplay. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umdlalo "ongakwazi ukuhlala isikhathi eside" ungaletha ukuhlukahluka empilweni yakho ebuseduze. Indoda kumele icindezele owesifazane aze yena ngokwakhe ecele ukuqhubeka.
Ekukhulelweni kwengane i-prelude ingcono kakhulu ukwelula isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka. Uma ujabule ngokwengeziwe, ukusebenza okusebenzayo kuyoba umsebenzi wakhe wesifo. Ngokusho kwemiphumela yocwaningo lwesayensi, inani lomdanso lithembele ekudleni komuntu. Ukukhathazeka okungaphezulu, isibindi esiningi, okwandisa amathuba okukhulelwa. I-orgasm yowesifazane iyakwandisa amathuba okukhulelwa, ngoba ngalesi sikhumba isisu njengoba siphuza isisu ngaphakathi ngaphakathi.
I-Cycle ne-libido
ULibido uvukela ngokocansi owesifazane. Futhi kuxhomeke kuma-hormone. I-Libido ibuthakathaka noma iqiniswe kuye ngesigaba sokujikeleza kokuya esikhathini.
Ukuqiniswa kwesifiso socansi kwenzeka ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngaphambi nangesikhathi sokuvuthwa. Khona-ke ukuzijabulisa kuyashesha kakhulu. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, lo wesifazane ulungele ukukhulelwa, ukukhulelwa kulula, kulula ukuthola i-orgasm. I-Orgasm phakathi nalesi sikhathi idlula kakhulu kunezinye izinsuku. Lezi zigaba zingasetshenziselwa injabulo ekhethekile nendoda yakho ethandekayo.
Ngemuva kwe-ovulation, isifiso sobulili sinciphisa. Ekupheleni kwesigaba, ngaphambi kokuya esikhathini, ubulili bungaba mnandi nakwesifazane. Kodwa kulokhu kungcono ukuba nobulili, ngoba i-hormone ikhiqizwa eyasiza ekubhekaneni nesifo se-premenstrual syndrome.
Isisindo sobulili: isilinganiso samadoda
Ukufinyelela i-orgasm, indoda ingama-2-3 amaminithi. Isifiso socansi emadodeni sikhuphuka kaningi kunowesifazane, futhi ngenxa yalokhu akudingeki amthande. Futhi futhi indoda ayidingi umuzwa wokulondeka nobudlelwane obuseduze.
Isifiso sobulili somuntu sihlala sikhona, ngisho nokukhathala noma ukucasuka. Ukuphikisana akuyona into engavimbela ukufisa. Noma kunjalo, khumbula ukuthi ukucindezeleka nokukhathala okukhulu kuyathinta kabi amandla. Imizwelo cishe ayifaneleki amadoda embusweni wobulili, ngoba abantu abahlanganyeli ubulili kanye nemizwelo njengabafazi.
Ukugqugquzela indoda, okudingekayo okubonakalayo kuyadingeka. Uma ufuna ukudukisa indoda, khona-ke sekuwanele ukuqala ukucindezeleka okukhathazayo. Amadoda athande amehlo, ngakho-ke kuphakanyiswa ukuba ushiye ukukhanya ngokusondelana futhi ungabi namahloni emzimbeni wakho. Baphinde bafinyelele nge-orgasm nazo zonke izenzo zesondo, ngakho-ke bathanda ubulili obusheshayo.
Indoda ingenza ngaphandle kwe-caresses yokuqala, kodwa nayo iyayithanda. Futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, ujabule ukusabela kwakho ezenzweni zakhe. Ungakhathazeki ngoba udinga injabulo eyengeziwe ngenjabulo, ngoba ishisa isifiso nakakhulu!
Amanye amadoda asaba ukwesaba okukhulu, ukuze angaqedi kusengaphambili. Ngakho-ke, abaphuthelwa isigaba se-caresses zokuqala. Kulesi simo, owesifazane anganciphisa indoda aze ahlasele. Uzodinga ukuphumula imizuzu embalwa. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi indoda ingakwazi ukucindezela umlingani. Khona-ke bobabili bazobe sebekulungele ukusondelana, lo muntu ngeke abe nokucindezeleka okuningi. Lokhu kwandisa ubulili futhi kwenza owesifazane ajabule.